Compassionate, fearless, and stubborn are three words that can precisely describe my mother. As for describing our relationship, I am fortunate enough to say we have a strong and healthy relationship with each other. As pertaining to literature, my mother can be described as sharing similarities as well as differences with the elderly lady in the poem, “Elderly Lady Crossing on Green,” by Wyatt Prunty. Through comparing and contrasting my mother to the elderly lady, countless memories came to my mind bringing me to the realization that our relationship can still use improvement. Many emotions come to surface when I begin to think about my mother because of the obstacles she has overcame. When she was diagnosed with breast cancer, she was hard …show more content…
Much like the first chapter in the book of James is illustrated to challenge us to look at hardships from a different perspective and the trials God puts us through brings perseverance into our lives. Even though we may not find purpose in a trial, God will use that trial to integrate what we need for life (Precious Moments Bible, Jn. 1. 2-3). Once the trial God set for my mother was achieved, surviving breast cancer gave her a sense of ability to deal with reality in an idealistic manner for the reason that she has already made it through one of the toughest realities there is to …show more content…
Although I have respect for their decisions, I do not always agree with them and instead of keeping my thoughts to myself, I have a tendency to talk back. When I talk back to my parents, it does not even register to me that I am doing it until an argument begins or they walk away. The foremost reason my back talking sparks an argument with my mother and I is because we both have the mentality of always having to be right. My father on the other hand disregards my back talking and instead walks away from the conversation rather than arguing about it. If I could just have the ability to keep my thoughts to myself, it would spare plenty of bickering within my
“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go” Joshua 1:9. Adversity is what comes to mind when reading this verse. The Book of Joshua teaches us to accept the good things God provides for us; things like adversity, suffering, and perseverance. I chose this verse because God chose for me to go through something so horrifying at the age of seventeen. It is natural to ask God “why me” in a time of hardship that never think about the purpose he has for us. How can adversity and suffering be a good thing? Because learning to overcome something is what builds your character. It turns you into the person God created you to be; and you find ways
At some point, each person will endure suffering to some degree, whether it be the loss of a loved one or seeing the devastating effects of a hurricane thousands of miles away. At times, one may feel alone and helpless, but knowing that God is always present brings great comfort to many. Sin, death, and evil are daily occurrences in the society we live in today. Even though God creates these wicked acts, knowing there is a purpose behind each act of evil makes worshiping that God easier. God’s purpose may not be known, but his unending love for us is what makes the unbearable times bearable.
Persevering trials bring purpose, and God’s love is evident in His chastening which should never be despised (Job 5:17; Hebrews 12:5).
So If you ask others have I struggled well, they would probably tell you yes. Looking at my life from the outside, I seems to have it pretty together. I take on many task a father, a youth leader, a surgeon, an administrator (and now student) and remarkably get it all done. If you ask me, have I struggled well, I’d have to say, “ I am not so sure” I have many doubts and question. Sometimes God and I have some talks and they are not so nice from my end. But what does it mean to struggle well? I think of Corrie Ten Boone, what an amazing woman. She struggled well. She was a Christian survivor of the Concentration camps (read the Hiding Place to know more about her story) She wasn’t perfect. She certainly saw life in the concentration camps different than her sister Betsy who was much more accepting of God's will. In the end though she came to the realization that God was in control of all things and she was able to trust in him. While my life and struggles pail in comparison, I believe that life is a journey and it the struggles of life that help us to ultimately bring us around to full obedience and trust in God. Why did James in verse 2 of chapter one say to “count it Joy when you face trial of many kinds.” It is no because they are fun or enjoyable, but because of what the outcome will be. In the following verses. He goes on to say that trials develope patients and through patients we are made complete. It is when we realize this that we then can
From working several jobs at a time to make sure I had everything I needed, she became the reason why I was raised the way I raised. The lesson that “ I should treat everyone like the most important person in the world because I will never know when I might need them” was engraved in my head was owned by my mother. Sometimes she would tell me that she had holes in her socks and I knew it was due to most of her money going towards my private school tuition in order for me to be able to have the best education I could get. My mother is my background, my identity, interest, and talent. She is truly the one that has set me up for success, regardless of how fatigued or overworked she is. She is the person who truly defines who I am and who I have become to this