Emotion regulation is a relatively new field in psychology, having only emerged in the past 25 years. Ever since the early 1990’s, more and more psychologists have become interested in the topic, leading to many studies and articles each year regarding the subject (Gross, 2014). Emotion regulation is the process of being aware and in control of one’s own emotions. It also refers to how or if emotions are expressed or controlled. Suppression is a form of emotion regulation, and is the act of consciously reducing emotional expression, or intentionally not showing emotion. These processes are incredibly useful to convert harmful emotions that could cause detrimental outcomes into harmless, or even useful thoughts or actions. An example of this would be using the anticipation for summer break to motivate you to push through to the end of the semester rather than drowning in stress and doing poorly. There are endless applications for this skill, but first it needs to be understood. According to Gross (2014), there are three main attributes to emotion regulation. The first attribute is finding an objective to use to change the emotion. This can be anything, as long as it is able to change or redirect the desired emotion. These objectives can be intra-personal, or inter-personal, or even both at the same time. The second attribute of emotion regulation is acting upon the system that will actually change the emotions. These actions can be both conscious, such as trying to remain
Self-Management- this is the ability of a person to have control over their emotions. The
Emotion regulation- This component focuses on how an individual should control or manage his or emotions during a specific situation.
Lewis (2013) explains the ability to control your emotions does not begin until a child nears the age of six (as cited in Berger, 2014, p. 276). The need to maintain control of feelings and emotions remains important throughout adulthood. It would not be normal for a 38-year-old lawyer to throw a temper tantrum in the courtroom because they did not win a case. Not everyone is great at controlling their emotions, but there is always room for improvement (Berger, 2014). A child is not born with this control, nor can one learn it on their own. Morris et al. (2007) discussed the importance of parents, teachers and other adults that may be in a child?s life to instruct and inform children of appropriate ways to manage their feelings for them to learn or develop over time (as cited in Berger, 2014, p. 276). It is the same aspect as manners. A child does not come out of the womb saying ?please? and ?thank you,? but must be taught to use such mannerisms. Eric Erikson explained that children believe they can achieve any goal just as long as they keep trying because their view of their abilities is not yet within reason (Berger, 2014). A child may see a fish breath underwater and believe they too can breathe while swimming
Dance is the beginning of the unit and therefore serves as an introduction to mental and emotions.
Emotions, thoughts, and behaviors share a communal correlation; thoughts can produce emotional responses; emotional responses can then produce positive and negative behaviors. As a result, a student’s emotions and behaviors have a direct correlation to their thoughts and vice versa (Stonecipher, 2012). In instances where a student is unable to self-manage their behaviors while presented with an issue, a probable outcome would be that the student will then act out inappropriately. As a result, cognitive behavioral interventions often encompass problem solving and anger management strategies (Robinson, 2007). Conducive to effectually self-managing behavior, students must be trained to exercise constructive thinking and reduce the pervasiveness of participating in destructive behavior acquired from an emotional response. Students may obtain this by acknowledging the problem, defining it, producing and assessing resolutions, applying a plan and lastly observing the resolution (Yell, Meadows, Drasgow, & Shriner, 2009). Students should also learn to recognize specific elements including triggers, reminders, and reducers, while trying to self-manage. Teachers must retain patience during this process as students must build these skills up before positive results transpire (Yell, Meadows, Drasgow, & Shriner, 2009).
If a student’s emotional regulation is increased towards their education they can pay more attention, work harder and achieve more in school. In the article, “A child’s increasing ability to “regulate” her emotions - to express her feelings in constructive rather than impulsive or hurtful ways - is now recognized as a critical factor in children’s psychological health.” “Children most effectively learn to regulate their emotions when they are confident that their feeling will be heard. When a child expects that her feelings and concerns will be appreciated and understood, her emotions become less urgent.” https://www.huffingtonpost.com/kenneth-barish-phd/how-do-children-learn-to-_b_3890461.html. Improving emotional regulation within students enables them to resolve conflicts with peers and show lower levels of physical stress. Emotional regulation produces children to be better behaved and more caring towards others. Emotional regulation means being able to think productively about how to manage with feelings. Children should have their feelings, but not be overwhelmed by them, should feel discouraged but not give up, be excited but not get so carried away in their enthusiasm that they use poor judgement in making decisions. Some therapist emphasize cognitive processes and have
Motivation and emotion are closely linked concepts that affect behaviour. Motives affect emotion and emotion has related motivational properties. Motivation is defined as a reason or reasons for acting or behaving in a certain manner as it gives directions to our emotions, feelings and actions. Similar to motivation, emotions also activate and affect behaviourisms but emotion is rather a more subjective, complex experience resulting in behavioural changes. (Quizlet.com, 2016) (Alleydog.com, 2016) (En.m.wikiversity.org, 2016)
This research is found in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, and is written by Marina Schall, Sarah E. Martiny, Thomas Goetz, and Nathan C. Hall. In order to test their hypothesis, the people leading the study first investigated student’s suppression of positive emotions when it comes to getting grades in a real-life classroom setting, where the teacher was to give the student their test grade. As said in the article, suppression is an emotion-regulation strategy by which individuals inhibit their overt emotional expression
Discuss how care and attachment influences the development of emotion in children and how this in turn influences their behavioural motivation.
Self-regulation is an area I thrive in, as long as I am practicing self-awareness. Self-regulation is the management of one’s internal states, urges, and assets. Self-regulation can be broken down into trustworthiness, integrity, comfort with ambiguity, and openness to change (Sadri, 2012). As mentioned before I am able to recognize the way that my mood affects other people. This allows me to control my emotions and bring them to a level that is more suitable for the situation. In the past, I have struggled with consistently being able to take full responsibility for my personal performance; yet, I have made it a priority to internalize the fact that I make mistakes and I cannot blame those mistakes on another person. I value the ability to be an open and honest person, which is the kind of person who does not try to blame other for their own shortcomings. In order to be emotional intelligent, you need to be open to the idea of working on yourself and changing the aspects that are inappropriate (Faguy, 2012). This is needed in the nursing profession because the patients and environment are fast-paced and ever-changing. A nurse has to be able to think on her feet. This is the broad spectrum that self-regulation requires from a person; therefore, it
This paper talks about the times of when I had to struggle to keep my emotions in check from when I was constantly annoyed by either people or certain situations. These situations would be like the time when I would constantly run into a problem I could not easily accomplish or even the times when I would be constantly bullied for some unknown reason. Not sure why I would end up getting on someone's bad side since I mostly stay to myself not bothering anyone.
In the next paragraphs I will consider some theories, factors and evidence on cognitive controlling of emotion in terms of
For many people, they live their lives based on emotions. Emotions of happiness, love, success, and many more, could possibly be the most satisfying feelings. Except we commonly experience unpleasant emotions. There are emotions of anger, hatred, sadness, and disgrace. A very important question in the understanding of the human mind and highly related to cognitive science, is how do these emotions affect human cognition and the impact on our abilities to be rational? To tackle this question, we need to understand what emotions are, but not solely in the manner we are all familiar with, we need to understand them from a cognitive nature involving our physiology, psychology, and environment. Cognition, according to the Oxford definition
Maturation is especially important for individuals as it provides several competitive evolutionary advantages (Locke & Bogin, 2006). Through this process, individuals develop and acquire control over their emotions and behaviours. This ability to monitor and adapt our emotions, cognition and behaviours in accordance to the social and intellectual demands of particular contexts is often referred to as self-regulation (Demetriou, 2000; Zimmerman, 2000). Various complex cognitive skills are required for self-regulation. These skills encompass the constant observation of our thoughts and behaviours, knowledge of the demands of any situation, the capability to alter conditions of our current behaviour as required to achieve a goal or suit a situation and attention to how favourably the demands of a context are met (Evans & Rosenbaum, 2008).
Emotions No matter how hard you try, you cannot control your emotions, only attempt to hide them. Emotions influence every aspect of our lives, what we do, what we say, and et cetera. All of our emotions, from anger to insecurity, are influenced by several factors, just as our lives are influenced by our emotions (Gelinas, Emotions 35). First of all, it causes problems when one does not trust himself, and it shows up in many ways.