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Essay On Veterans Duty

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Most veterans will find adjusting to civilian life after combat duty is really challenging. Sometimes, they might feel they are still on their duty in a war even when they are already at home. In order to help them to feel better and keep them in a positive mood, family members can play an essential role. Family members of those veterans should be patient, have more conversations with them and show more understanding and appreciation. It’s very important that family members should be patient with those veterans, because render those veterans to fit into daily life will be a really long process. Many of them might be suffering depression, PTSD as well as alcohol and drug issue, which will drive them to commit suicide much more easily. According to Veterans adjust to life back home wrote by Brenda Payton, a corporal called Dave Smith described that two of his best friends killed themselves even when Dave thought they are doing good. Family members usually can have the most supportive, reliable and trusting relationships with those …show more content…

Eli Saslow (2011) in chapter 3 from Ten Letters describes Doug as a second lieutenant who just came back from his combat duty in Afghanistan was having a hard time to adjust to the civilian life. He felt that some of the relatives think his combat duty was like having a tour. Also, he was really anxious about not familiar with his own house and cannot fit into the daily life. "he started to stomp around their apartment, clambering in the kitchen and cursing loud enough to wake her up."(p.81) In order to help him, Doug' wife Krissy talked to him, shared each other’s thoughts and they understood each other even better than before. It’s really important to make those veterans to feel they are understood by the people they cared and that will help them to have courage to overcome the

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