Eulogy For Morrie

“Once you learn how to die ,you learn how to live”,this quote sums up most of the lesion Morrie is trying to teach the readers. let me start from the beginning Mitch is telling us a story about his old professor that has been diagnosed with ALS.It's a disease when your body shuts down slowly . Morrie is teaching us how to live life in better ways before it's too late. The three most important aphorisms is family,importence,memories.

Morrie, despite the fact that his health is deteriorating fast, doesn’t deny the fact that he will soon die. Instead of kidding himself and just denying it, he comes to peace with the fact that he is going to leave the earth soon. He is happy that he will no longer have to be in pain. Morrie is different from most people because he doesn't clutter himself with false hopes. Instead, he approaches it with a smile on his face, knowing that the little bit of time he has

Painful as it may be, such experiences brings home the finality of death. Something deep within us demands a confrontation with death. A last look assures us that the person we loved is, indeed, gone forever.” (108) Cable finishes his essay by asking, Tim if his job ever depressed him. Tim in reply says, “No it doesn’t, and I do what I can for people and take satisfaction in enabling relatives to see their loved ones as they were in real life.” (108) After reading this essay I feel as though sometimes we don’t understand death so therefore we do not talk much about it. By reading about what goes on after your loved one dies and is sent to these places to be prepared and ready for burial, it helps to understand why morticians and funeral directors do what they do. Knowing that someone enjoys taking the responsibility in providing that comfort in a sorrowful time makes me appreciate these people in these occupations a bit

The last lesson from Morrie is teaching Mitch to say goodbye. Morrie knows death is upon him and he needs to tell his loved one goodbye sooner or later. He knows it is going to be hard but he has to do it. “This...is how we say...goodbye… love...you”(Albom 185). Saying goodbye to a loved one is very hard to do especially knowing that they won’t make it much longer. This past year my great grandmother passed away due to her heath. My family knew it wasn’t going to be long until she passed away. I went to visit her in Hospice for the first and last time in March. I sat next to her as she laid still, not saying a word or really moving much. I talked to her even though she didn’t say anything back and I rubbed her and gently in mine. I sat there for almost two and a half hours just rubbing her hand and talking to her. Then it had come time to when I needed to go home. I had to say goodbye, It was probably the hardest thing I’ve ever done as with my other family members who have passed. I knew it was going to be hard, I started to get a scratchy throat and my eyes started to tear up as a started to walk out the door. I felt like I was leaving part of my life behind and I was failing her.

Rhonda, a friend of Andy’s, writes about her most frightening moment for her English homework. She chooses to write about the accident, stating, “I thought we’d all come back for our reunions and then we'd get old, and then, when we're so old it doesn't matter anymore, we’d die. But he's dead already. I didn't think it was possible. And that's why it's so scary.” Like many people, Rhona has likely never experienced the death of a close one before in her life. So when death strikes, it’s overwhelming and people often don’t know how to react. Before my grandmother passed away, only distant relatives I barely knew had died, so this became the first time I lost someone I truly cared for. But, like Rhonda, I could never prepare myself for when she did die. It’s incredibly scary to lose someone you love, and it’s especially hard when you aren’t sure of how to deal with death. The author included this section to relate to the readers, because most of them know the scary and confusing feelings after someone you care for dies and you’re struck with the reality of mortality.

Imagine an elderly man, dying from a grueling disease known as ALS that makes it painful to breathe, unable to walk or stand, and eventually, unable to swallow food. With little money and time left to live he still seems like the happiest man around as he had his family and friends near him at the end with some of life's greatest lessons to teach. Well what if that man was real, and that man’s name was Morrie Schwartz? Morrie Schwartz was a college professor who had retired and then was diagnosed with ALS. An old student of his, Mitch Albom, saw him on TV and decided to visit his old professor on a Tuesday. Pretty soon one Tuesday turned into another, and eventually that turned into 14 Tuesdays until Morrie’s death. During those visits,

Morrie’s wife kept his funeral small and only permitted the individuals whom Morrie wanted to surround him on his perfect day, to mourn with her on the day of the funeral. It is important to note that those different individuals will have different grieving types, and may not be able to successfully mourn—like Worden suggests. A support group with the individuals who attended the funeral could possibly be beneficial, because each individual will need to eventually readjust to the world, however some may have a hard time reaching that stage. Complicated grief cannot be ruled out, because prolonged grief symptoms are always a possibility when mourning. Grief support programs are offered to individuals in order to help reach healthy stages of mourning, to link individuals to community resources, and to support each other (Wintermeyer-Pingel, Murphy, & Hammelef 2013). The recordings that Mitch now owned may be beneficial for Morrie’s wife to successfully mourn or recollect thoughts about her husband. This group would be based off of a strengths based perspective. The goal of the group is to help each mourn by focusing on the positive aspects of the life lived by Morrie and the relationship that he had with each group member, personally. The group will allow each individual to celebrate Morrie’s life and death. The group will be given time to reminisce, and

Firstly, Morrie teaches about accepting death. Morrie teaches that everyone needs to accept death. One thing Morrie says is “Once you learn how to die you learn how to live” (Albom 82). I agree with this because people need to accept death because if they don’t , they are not living a good life. Morries lesson about death connects to my life because I had family members die and at first I didn’t accept that they were gone, but know I know they are gone

At this part of the book Morrie is very sick, and close with the object of dying. He asks Mitch why the whole world is so afraid of dying, and tells him, “Once you learn how to die you learn how to live.” He says that the world is just walking around as if we are sleepwalking, and the only way someone could look at the world differently is realizing that they will die one day. The meaning is pretty obvious in what he says. “Once you learn that you are going to die, you will start to live life to the fullest.” Someone does not have to be in a situation where they might die soon in order to be able to live their life happily. I do not agree with this advice, and it does not connect to my life. This statement or aphorism is not something I agree with because someone can know how to live their life to the fullest if they are not dying. I know many people who are not close to death but are living life to the fullest and know that they live and love life sufficiently. I do not take my life for granted, and I am not very close with death. I do know that I will die someday, but that is not one of my main reasons that I feel that way about

The topic of aging can tie into this, since living life extensively is relevant to both aging and death. In the book, Morrie states that “money is not the most important thing...He tells me I need to be ‘fully human.’” (46). In the quote, Morrie is talking to Mitch about greed, and how it is more important to show humanity and compassion than amount wealth. As for family, Morrie demonstrates the importance of family by spending so much time with his as he is dying. In regards to his views on society he said that the culture taught people the wrong things, which made them unhappy. But, people have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn't work, don't buy it." (42). In the end, Mitch’s topic “a meaningful life” was the most important, as it summed up most of what he needed to know in his

“Ordinary people” everywhere are faced day after day with the ever so common tragedy of losing a loved one. As we all know death is inevitable. We live with this harsh reality in the back of our mind’s eye. Only when we are shoved in the depths of despair can we truly understand the multitude of emotions brought forth. Although people may try to be empathetic, no one can truly grasp the rawness felt inside of a shattered heart until death has knocked at their door. We live in an environment where death is invisible and denied, yet we have become desensitized to it. These inconsistencies appear in the extent to which families are personally affected by death—whether they

Sogyal Rinpoche stated “When you start preparing for death you soon realize that you must look into your life now...and come to face the truth of yourself. Death is like a mirror in which the true meaning of life is reflected.” Death is imminent. Many people today fear death for various reasons. Some people are able to accept it, where others deny its existence. Some people spend their lives working towards the coming of their death, and their life thereafter, where others spend there lives doing everything they possibly can to make the most of their time on earth. In Tuesdays With Morrie by Mitch Albom, the lead character Morrie Schwartz was diagnosed with the fatal disease Lou Gerrig’s Disease, also know as ALS. Although many people

While doing an Interview for the “nightline” show; the reporter compliments Morrie, “You look fine”. Morrie replied, unexpected from a dying person, was “That’s what everyone tells me”. The importance of humor is the most familiar way in which reframing is used. We tend to see problems like problems, but humor helps us see situations differently through amusing lens. Your emotions can easily shift and your effectiveness increase, while bringing humor to your perceptions. Morrie used his humor as a weapon to battle his illness. While chatting with Mitch, he mentioned that “someone pretty soon was going to have to swipe my ass… after all, I get to be a baby one more time”. Humor helped him to reframe his life after illness. It was like a pain killer, humor can do that and more! Through laughter you are able to relieve stress, depression, pain, recover, and increase your immune system. Every time that Morrie was asked about his illness and the effects, he would always answer with a joke. He wasn’t making fun of him, or offending people; rather he was having fun in the long process of death.

Within this novel, Morrie embraced his mortality with “love, acceptance and open communication” as he gave the reader a glimpse into what he considered to be “The Meaning of Life.” Using Mitch Albom as a vessel to pen his “own culture values,” Morrie was able to define the contradictions between others vision of “popular culture values” and his style of truly living through “life, death and reincarnation.” With the use of materials obtained from the course, this writer was able to summarize various observations about Morrie’s “final lecture” on life, death and family amidst his perceptual understanding that reorganized “aging as growth and not

In an effort to share the “last class” he had with his college sociology professor, Mitch Album wrote, “Tuesdays with Morrie.” This moving account of the life lessons that Morrie taught him is a beautiful tribute to a man whose compassion and love for humanity made him a favorite among those who knew him. Though stricken with the debilitating disease ALS (Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis) and knowing death was swiftly approaching Morrie continued to help others until his body no longer allowed him to do so. Album uses time sequence, characterization and point of view to chronicle the experiences he had and the lessons he learned while visiting with his friend every Tuesday during that