Example Of A Unhappy Indihope

Having the mind and determination to become successful isn’t an easy task. Success isn’t considered a gift, it should be a hard task to achieve and it matters how it is accomplished. Success

Many people try and many people have failed. Everyone hopes to succeed in something, whether it be anything from sports to seminary, school, or just life. Every day there are people who invent things, they try over and over again until it works out. There are many successful people in this world and they didn’t get there easily. Success is something earned not given, and comes with trial and error.

The most universal goal every human has in common is the pursuit of happiness or “creation or construction of happiness” (Achor, 78). To be able to fulfill this wish of becoming happy, people often think the key to achieving happiness is success. In the book, The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor, he debunks this theory of success leading to happiness by illustrating the reverse theory of success. Through dozens of studies and experiments as forms of evidence, the author argues that an individual needs to achieve happiness in order to be truly successful. Achor 's argument is valid in that happiness should come before success because there is a clear advantage to being successful in an individual’s work life, personal sphere, and liveliness if they are happy first and foremost.

No matter how happy people are there is always something that would make them happier.

Contrary to what we were all taught in the 1970’s and 1980’s, multitasking is to be avoided. Singleness of purpose, coupled with singles of mind, translates into singleness of action. Singleness of action, undertaken with singleness of approach, translates into more attention to detail, fewer mistakes, and less time, necessary to complete a task.

If a person is asked what their goal in life is, they will probably answer, to have a big house, a good family, a high paying job, a nice car, but what about happiness? What is happiness? Happiness can be defined as a combination of life satisfaction through social relationships and life experiences, achieved through the choice of wanting to be happy in life. A person can choose to be happy by improving their social life, learning to depend less on money, and understanding that there are things within their control and things that are not. Statistics show that having a good social life greatly improves one’s happiness.

When someone wants to achieve something they must put time and effort into it. For example, if you are running for president and you aren’t putting any time into your campaign, chances are you will lose to the other candidate who is putting their time into the campaign. If someone really wants to gain something they will put time and effort into that activity.

When a person succeeds, he no longer strives to improve because he already reached his goal; however, if he failed first then succeeded, he would work more diligently on making sure he will not fail again. Fred Zinnermann, a movie director, did not place all his value in success: “Success can be dangerous—you feel you know it all. I’ve learned a great deal from my failures” (Zinsser, 2014, p.2.). Human observation proves that people learn more from their failures than their successes. Furthermore, people hate the idea of appearing idiotic and stupid, so they compare their failed ideas to the successful ones, and see the differences between the two and learn from their mistakes.

But the reality of life is that success does not come from pure luck, status, or

Being successful at something is very easy if you follow someone else’s steps. However other people rather be themselves and make it on their own in their unique way. For example, most young musicians try to use the technique of other famous or more experienced musicians. They rather take the easy way instead of trying to become someone of themselves and change the technique into their own and maybe it could be better than the professionals. This happens in almost anything and everywhere not only to musicians but also to businessmen, actors, chefs, and athletes. I'm more related to athletes because i am an athlete. When i started to play sports i admired Ray Lewis, a professional football player, because his technique of tackling was so amazing

I believe you do know that setting appropriate, attainable goals and sticking to them is certainly one key to success. But to be successful in any business you need several other ingredients as well. You need to be realistic expectations. It's okay to expect to make millions, just don't expect to make millions overnight!

Have you ever tried to get your work done, but can't focus? Thinking if you forgot to lock the house, left the oven on, or forgot to drop the kid off at daycare all can be very distracting things, but if you focus these won't be problems. Focus is where you have all of your attention on one thing. If, you can't focus on anything you'll most likely not get it done.

In this age in which we live, success is generally measured by the amount of money you earn, or the amount of wealth or power or number of promotions you’ve accumulated. I find that the older I grow, the more I view the people who are most happy and content with their lives as the most successful. Rich, poor or in between, they’ve tended to treat life as a journey, not a final destination. They took that trip when they were 25 even though they really couldn’t afford it, they ordered the $55 bottle of wine with their filet because they knew that even though it was expensive it would enhance the meal so much more than water would. They took a chance on a start-up company, moved to Europe or Asia and experienced things that most people only dream about. If they managed to grow wealthy from the experience, so much the better. As long as moderation with most things is practiced, things won’t spin out of control.

Criticism is hard to hear in general, as it points out one’s weaknesses. Essentially telling them what they are doing is not good enough or is lacking. According to Seltzer “Criticism, even well-intended criticism, can be understood as a direct assault on our ego.” (2009). Individuals tend to view themselves differently than those around them, some cannot see outside their reality to see what other see. If one points that out it shatters the reality one has come to known and change is very comfortable for

They were competitive, but this competition was not about winning against other people. Rather it was about winning against all the obstacles around them that is preventing them from reaching out to success. They were not scared of taking risks. Many of the people I know from my neighborhood, took risks in life both financially and socially, and they became top entrepreneurs, engineers, doctors, entertainer in Bangladesh. Sure, those risks they took in life could have hurt them, but they did not want to be what the society or their then financial situation wanted them to be. Surely the risks they took cost them lots of hustles, but nobody said greatness comes easy. If it did, everyone would have been successful. The difference between winners and losers is persistent. The people I know that became great entrepreneurs, engineers etc., took risks in life and was patient for success.