The clear definition of empathy is “the ability to understand and share the feelings of another”. During the novel The Catcher in the Rye we meet our main protagonist named Holden. Holden attends a school called Pencey which to us seems like a nice well kept school but to Holden it is a phony filled with lies and distrust. Holden believes almost everyone is a phony even cutting out most of his family because he believes they are all phonies. His brother went to hollywood to make movies and instead of being proud of him he says he is a sellout. This is the type of boy Holden is. Because he thinks everyone is a phony he cuts them out leaving himself with basically no friends and being incredibly alone. I feel empathy for Holden because I understand why he thinks everyone is a phony, because he is one himself. Also because of the fact that he has inadvertently done this to himself and he is really just looking for someone to love him back. …show more content…
This is proven when holden says “"Well – take me to the Edmont then," I said. "Would you care to stop on the way and join me for a cocktail? On me, I'm loaded."”(pg 60). He is so desperate to connect with anyone he is even willing to hang out with his cab driver. To me I find that extremely sad that the only person he is able to connect with is someone that he is paying. I think one of the great things about human being is how we connect with other humans and it is very sad that he is all alone in his
The character Holden Caulfieeld in the novel ” Catcher in the Rye “ covers his true feelings by giving the audience and the characters in the story the impression that he doesn’t care when in actuality , he cares deeply about every aspect he has been through in the chapters. He provides very nonchalant , terse , and swearing responses to almost every conversation he’s in . For example “godamm movies “ or “very big deal “ as a symbol of his unconcerned attitude . The author Salinger used diction to convey the decptive mood of the protaganist to mask most of his most hurtful moments . Caulfield’s displays a defense mechanism to shield his true emotions by showinging signals of non chalant actions too surecure his ego and superego .
Throughout the book Holden constantly talks about how he does not really have any friends. We can see that Holden’s behavior makes
Holden is not a character that you necessarily feel sympathy for. He's not Willy Loman, and I'd argue that he was written in a manner so that he was not. But for me, especially during the first portion of the book, there was an indescribable pain, almost having a quality of bitterness, that clouded my view. Yet, it's a pain that softened as I read on, turning what might have initially felt like disgust or hate, into a feeling I still don't understand. It's not the sympathy felt for Willy Loman, but I don't really think it's empathy either.
In The Catcher in the Rye, J.D. Salinger captures a teenage boy’s struggle with adolescence. The story is told from the perspective of Holden Caulfield, who embarks on a journey to New York City after being expelled from his boarding school. He meets new people and has experiences that reveal his personality and interactions. In the story, Holden is “fed up” with the world, he feels that everything and almost every person he encounters is “phony,” (a word often used by Holden). Anyone who Holden perceives to have affectations, he deems to be different from him. These people appear to be socially intelligent and are generally accepted into society, unlike Holden. Although Holden is very judgemental, he fails to recognize his own phoniness as well. So,
Empathy is the ability to understand and share feelings with someone. Throughout the novel, The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger, the main character, Holden, constantly seeks empathy. He has conversations with many different people in the novel, but he never feels like he is truly being heard. Ultimately, towards the end of the novel Phoebe puts Holden's red hunting cap on him, and to Holden this is finally someone empathizing with him. Listening and empathizing are two totally different concepts.
Most people won't show that they are lonely but Holden make it clear he is because he is always trying to make plans with people he knows or even in one case a girl he never even meet but his friend told him about. Holden is a very judgemental person and he does this to help isolate himself from society. He can't stand phonies which is almost everyone he meets is. Holden judges people who he considers boring, insecure, and people who are fake. When makes plans with people he soon realizes that it was a mistake because he finds the persons flaw and he feels like it ruins his plans and wonders why he even asked them in the first place. The people he asks to do something with are people he sees as non phonies but after doing something with them he realizes they are and tells himself he won't hang out with them
Feeling detached from other people is another major symptom related to Holden's Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. From the very beginning of the book, we could tell that Holden is used to spending a lot of time by himself. Everyone was at the school football game while he was standing by himself way up on top of Thomsen Hill (Salinger, 5). Holden's loneliness and detachment from others is also present many times later in the novel. Being alone made Holden very depressed.
A disparate situation is presented to readers in The Catcher in the Rye. Early in the novel, Holden expresses the reason for his difficulties in school as his being: “always surrounded by phonies.”(Salinger 13) Holden is correct; he is completely incapable of relating to his peers. However he takes no time to consider potential solutions to his problem. During his conversation with Mr. Spencer, Holden communicates that he deals with his troubles by simply quitting; putting minimal effort into academics and socialization. Since Holden never addresses his emotions directly, he fails to realize
Grief is difficult thing to have to go through alone. In “The Catcher In The Rye” Holden experiences many of the stages of grief after the loss of his brother. Holden’s journey through the seven stages of grief were shown over the course of a few days.
In the novel “Catcher In The Rye” by J.D Salinger the character Holden goes through a lot of sadness and grief due to the loss of his brother which affected his life severely in the novel. There are five stages of grief which Holden goes through as the novel proceeds. The five stages of grief are isolation and denial, anger, bargaining, Depression and Acceptance. Holden goes through these five stages in his own ways which is a very cynical way but in the end he comes to the stage of acceptance.
A Complicated Kindness is an adolescent novel by Miriam Toews, published originally by Knopf Canada in 2004. Inspired by her experience as a Mennonite herself, Toews crafts a story around a teenage girl known informally as Nomi. Nomi experiences the hardships of religious oppression only to let her family give in first. Catcher in the Rye is, too, an adolescent novel written instead by J. D. Salinger. Comparable to A Complicated Kindness, Catcher in the Rye saw some inspiration for the story by Salinger’s experience as an angsty teenager in New York. The resulting tale is of a young man named Holden who abandons schooling and his wealthy home to find a place to belong. These two narratives - more than fifty years apart – have some striking parallels about them. The central theme in both novels is how the benefits to maturity are greatly desired by youth, but the path to
After watching the videos, I believe that Holden is a hero. Base on the video, one becomes hero when he/she overcomes many obstacles. One doesn’t have to do anything severe or needs to change anything. The video also states that an individual is truly a hero when he/she comes out of his/her uncomfort zone. The only similarity among heroes is that they are all humans.
Salinger displays that one’s happiness can be compromised due to the actions of your own self. Holden Caulfield lacked communication and saw everything as “phoney” or “depressing” which deselected happiness for him. Holden getting kicked out of school is one example; his lack of communication with the teachers and others put in him a miserable setting. Which resulted him in getting kicked out. Another example is when he went on his date with Sally Hayes. Everything was going swell until Holden started to speak about how he felt. Which flattened the setting of the date as Holden portrays himself “C’mon, lets get outa here,” I said. “You give me a royal pain in the ass, if you want to know the truth.” Boy, did she hit the ceiling when I said
The depiction of Thomas More in A Man for all Seasons written by Robert Bolt and Holden Caulfield in Catcher in the Rye written by J.D. Salinger is unconventionally heroic. Thomas More exemplifying an existential hero and Holden Caulfield an anti-hero. Thomas More and Holden Caulfield’s heroism will be proven by referring to the characteristics of the different heroic types as well More and Holden’s actions and discourse.
Holden's lack of empathy stems from his belief that the people he does not trust are "phonies", or people that lie or are immoral, and he resists trying to interact with them. When he was