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Examples Of Narcissism In The Squid And The Whale

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Psychotherapy Assignment- II
The squid and the whale
The squid and the whale- as the name suggests brings to the viewers the encounter of two of the greatest known predators. The battle is certain, though the end remains unknown. This metaphoric representation of the couple in the story could be agreed upon to be most suitable description of the constant ruffle between them. As the whale tries to attack the squid, the later with its massive, powerful eyes and ferocious power grabs around the whale’s head for its survival. In such a situation the only way the sperm whale could make it through is by getting a grip over the squid. Survival in their case is completely dependent upon who wins the battle. This idea is carried on throughout the …show more content…

The match itself gives a clear indication of the dynamics of the sub systems formed between Joan and Frank and Walt and Bernard and how much the need to be competitive is passed in to the next generation already. It reveals how it is not necessary to abide by the rules of the game. Bernard’s nearly pathological narcissism drives the competitions to a much more destructive level, which ultimately leads to a complete dissipation of his personal, familial and financial life. Starting from the very beginning of their family life, as narrated by Walt, it is evident that Bernard had always been too encroached with his professional work and the fame that followed, that he had no time to spend with his family. This came to the forefront in Walt’s therapy session, wherein he talks about his early childhood memories with his mother, and his father remained absent. I would like to assign Bernard the role of the squid, which is struggling to stay alive by fighting off the whale, which in this case is his wife. Bernard’s job at the community college does not seem to be paying him much, neither is he able to get hold of …show more content…

The reason for Joan’s indulgence into an extra marital affair itself could be an attempt to get the attention of a husband, who is so self absorbed that nothings seems to really affect him until it affects his .Analytically what can be seen here is a web of connections that are co existing to fulfill each other’s insecurities. In the case of Joan, what can be noticed is her desperate attempt to get her self-absorbed husband’s attention , which ultimately projects itself in her acting out on her insecurities by having romantic relationships with other men. She is also found overcompensating her role of a parent by having to fulfill the role of both a mother and a father. This is evident from the early days when she would be the one who would pick up the child from parties, take them out for movies and to the museum, provide the children pets of their choice, controlling their use of abusive language and unacceptable behavior and most importantly encouraging them to form their own identity. From a developmental perspective, it can be clearly seen in Walt’s case as he struggles in the phase of creating his own identity and the role confusion associated with it. Walt’s identification with his father eventually become the foundation for his own identity formation, which was very pliable. His knowledge of the world around and his schemas was highly influenced by his father . He ultimately witnesses the collapse of his fragile

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