Psychotherapy Assignment- II
The squid and the whale
The squid and the whale- as the name suggests brings to the viewers the encounter of two of the greatest known predators. The battle is certain, though the end remains unknown. This metaphoric representation of the couple in the story could be agreed upon to be most suitable description of the constant ruffle between them. As the whale tries to attack the squid, the later with its massive, powerful eyes and ferocious power grabs around the whale’s head for its survival. In such a situation the only way the sperm whale could make it through is by getting a grip over the squid. Survival in their case is completely dependent upon who wins the battle. This idea is carried on throughout the
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The match itself gives a clear indication of the dynamics of the sub systems formed between Joan and Frank and Walt and Bernard and how much the need to be competitive is passed in to the next generation already. It reveals how it is not necessary to abide by the rules of the game. Bernard’s nearly pathological narcissism drives the competitions to a much more destructive level, which ultimately leads to a complete dissipation of his personal, familial and financial life. Starting from the very beginning of their family life, as narrated by Walt, it is evident that Bernard had always been too encroached with his professional work and the fame that followed, that he had no time to spend with his family. This came to the forefront in Walt’s therapy session, wherein he talks about his early childhood memories with his mother, and his father remained absent. I would like to assign Bernard the role of the squid, which is struggling to stay alive by fighting off the whale, which in this case is his wife. Bernard’s job at the community college does not seem to be paying him much, neither is he able to get hold of …show more content…
The reason for Joan’s indulgence into an extra marital affair itself could be an attempt to get the attention of a husband, who is so self absorbed that nothings seems to really affect him until it affects his .Analytically what can be seen here is a web of connections that are co existing to fulfill each other’s insecurities. In the case of Joan, what can be noticed is her desperate attempt to get her self-absorbed husband’s attention , which ultimately projects itself in her acting out on her insecurities by having romantic relationships with other men. She is also found overcompensating her role of a parent by having to fulfill the role of both a mother and a father. This is evident from the early days when she would be the one who would pick up the child from parties, take them out for movies and to the museum, provide the children pets of their choice, controlling their use of abusive language and unacceptable behavior and most importantly encouraging them to form their own identity. From a developmental perspective, it can be clearly seen in Walt’s case as he struggles in the phase of creating his own identity and the role confusion associated with it. Walt’s identification with his father eventually become the foundation for his own identity formation, which was very pliable. His knowledge of the world around and his schemas was highly influenced by his father . He ultimately witnesses the collapse of his fragile
Walter has changed his whole family. He has started so much conflict with all his family. His family at this rate will be better off without him. “You ain’t looked at it yet and you don’t aim to speak on that again? You ain’t looked at it and you have decided-well, you tell that to my boy tonight when you put him to sleep on the living room couch.” This just shows how much he wants to have HER money for himself because he is selfish and a shallow person. He is the reason why the family is tearing apart. Also, Walters actions show how edgy and inpatient he is. (Violently flinging the coat after her) He starts to get very violent, he flings things, slams doors, yells at mama, and starts to get verbally abusive towards her. He doesn’t know how to let things go and how to think in another person’s perspective. He only wants to do what he wants, he doesn’t care what the other family members want he just knows what he wants to get and forces the decision upon them all.
Walter Lee is stubborn, very ambitious, and filled with pride at the beginning of the story. He strives for success with the money “Mama,” also known as Lena got from the life insurance from her husband who recently passed away. Walter was so selfish all he wanted was to provide a better life for he and his family because he was not satisfied with their current standards of living. He wants more and wishes to become rich because he believes he never had enough growing up, but at the same time he wants to provide money and societal respect for his family. He put his trust with the money into a person who betrayed him and he ended up losing it all including his sisters schooling money. After this scene in the play Walter was at his lowest point,
When Ruth, Beneatha, and Mama see Walter acting like this, they are shocked and are disappointed in how he is acting. Walter tries to cope with the current situation he is in, and he realizes that his family is by his side and that is what matters to him in that moment.
As the events unfold the money is lost, without the money Walter thinks his dreams are gone. Mama on the other hand feels that with the money gone, it will not change things, she thinks they can make due. Throughout, all of this both Mama and Walter seem to have forgotten about Ruth and the baby on the way. The fact appears to be that neither of them have considered what is really necessary for the family to grow and have the environment it needs to be healthy. Once they both are able look at the bigger picture they realize sometimes they have to give up their dreams and things they want for the good and growth of the younger
The series demonstrates how chasing money can cause one’s sense of morality to be blurred, and how our actions can affect our families. An average law abiding citizen’s morals are subject to change to protect the ones they love. Everything about the show down to the casting has significance to the plot. I will start by showing how the main character’s morality changes throughout the story, how the use of certain characters brings relevance to plot, and then I will show how the change in Walter also affected his family causing them to change as well.
Walter begins to drink, stay away from home, and to constantly argue with his wife, Ruth. Walter's life is contrasted by the role of his recently widowed mother, who holds to more traditional values of acceptance of life's lot and of making the best of any situation. Walter Lee's "Mama" holds Walter's father up as an example of a man with pride and a man that, despite racial injustice in a dualistic society, worked hard to provide for his family. This adds to Walter's frustration. Walter now feels incapable and small in his mama's eyes.
Narcissism has a more complex definition that people do not often think about. Narcissism is the best way to describe the reason behind the actions of the totalitarian government in 1984: manipulative, lack of empathy, always right, desire attention and act on their own self interest. George Orwell created this totalitarian government to demonstrate the effects this party can have on their people and it. By creating a “Party” as the administration, changing history and knowledge, and having restrictions on chocolate, coffee, makeup and sex, this quantity of power guarantees that the people of this society subject to the Party’s rule and become a prominent detail of their lives. This gives the attention the Party seeks and is the sole purpose
What is narcissism? There is no specific definition for it. In psychology, narcissism is a negative and bad character trait. Narcissists have an excessive pride and they obsess with self. In other words, they think they are better than others and only care about themselves. In fact, being confident can also be accused as narcissism. However, narcissism is more than self confidence. Nowadays, Generation Y is being claimed as narcissists and there are so many reason that the critics try to list it out to prove their claim. In my opinion, Generation Y is just adapt to the environment they are living right now. Accusing Millennials as narcissist is not accurate.
When Coelho included a different version of the story, Narcissus, in the prologue, he hinted that one of the themes in the Alchemist would be man’s relationship with nature. This was his way of introducing the concept that "all things are the manifestation of one thing only.” And that when we recognize that and begin to work with nature, that we will achieve great things. The lake, which Coelho wrote about, in the Narcissus story supports this by saying, “I weep for Narcissus, but I never noticed that Narcissus was beautiful. I weep because, each time he knelt beside my banks, I could see, in the depths of his eyes, my own beauty reflected.” After reading the book I came to believe that there is an element of narcissism in following one's own
Throughout the play, many of the characters tend to revolve their lives around their dreams and lose focus on the true meaning of family, and life itself. Beneatha Younger and Walter Younger are two prime examples of this.
Showing his frustration to his mother, Walter does not feel like he will ever acquire his dream because he feels like he never got the chance or opportunity to. The inability of not able to provide a better life for his household is causing him to stress, act out of character and clouding his decision making. With nowhere else to turn he thought he could use his father’s life insurance money to invest into a liquor store which turned into a scam. Walter feeling trapped from making advancements in life, he makes a huge mistake and learns from this error. In the play Walter is talking to mother describing his anger,
Walter is upset about what Mama has done. She chose to fulfill her dream of a owning a home over anyone else’s dream.
Blackfish is a shocking film that reveals a lot of information regarding Sea Worlds famous known “Killer Whales”. These enormous whales are highly trained by trainers of Sea World who perform for thousands daily. The film uses the tragic tale of Tillikum to support their many claims and an investigation of the Sea World
The characters in the story have problems to face internally and externally. Despite the era that they were living in, they had to make decisions that would affect the rest of their life. Examples of personal growth are seen mostly in Walter. In the beginning of the play Walter is less excited about his life for many reasons that he does not fully know how to deal with. Walter has a drinking problem and seems to use alcohol as an outlet on life. It is not until Walter thinks about his father and all the things he had sacrificed for his family that Walter buckles down and becomes more of the man his family needs for him to
From the Greek myth of Narcissus, to Freud’s exploration of the concept, and to its classification in the DSM; Narcissism has been present in both real life and many works of literature for quite some time. The Black Cat, a short story by Edgar Allan Poe, arguably portrays a wicked narcissistic man. The story is told by an unidentified narrator, and it also revolves around him. He begins by claiming sanity, but as the story progresses he contradicts himself, as if he is purposely attempting to appear insane. Is it possible that a person can be so narcissistic to the extent of developing a defense mechanism or strategy such as appearing insane, in order to exempt himself from his unacceptable behavior? Poe’s The Black Cat just might support that possibility.