Extrovert Co-Workers

When I was doing research for my book Captivate, I wanted to discover why and how people make strong judgements about strangers they’ve just met. Everyone knows that first impressions are important part of this. The question is, how accurate are they? Before digging into the science, I decided to ask my twitter followers how accurate they think their first judgement of people is.

Hold effective meetings - Plan and organize meetings only when really needed, and have a specific purpose or agenda. Prepare an agenda that is relevant and ensure that you stick to it and that you start and end on time.

I have a colleague that has a bad habit of interrupting others before they can finish what they are wanting say. Not only does she interrupt me, but she interrupts our manager, other colleagues and even those holding high positions. Merriam-Webster defines interrupting as " to ask questions or say things while another person is speaking: to do or say something that causes someone to stop speaking. This particular person not only stops one from speaking, but stops ones train of thought. When someone interrupts it can totally change what is being discussed at that moment. For instance, one is discussing an important project, you are “on a roll” this great thought comes to mind and bam, “Did you hear that John bought a new car?” And they continue to talk about this and start going into these details about the type, the price, etc…Out goes your

When I work as team, I has communication with other member so, it has several solution that can help to improve my communication to have more professional. The initially topics is meeting management. The beginning of working should planning meeting. Meeting divide into 3 parts are before, during, and after. In the part of before, I should know the purpose and role of meeting. During meeting, if it is face to face meeting, I should know agenda of the meeting and participants their role for easy to communicate about work. After meeting, I should sure that I and other team member understand the information of the meeting because I may discuss with other team member. In addition, after the meeting finish, I should prepare myself for the next meeting.

Continue to listen and participate with our colleagues. Be open and transparent on what we are working on and solicit

Know when to make a unilateral decision and when you should gain valuable input from others so that the best decision possible is made with the available information. Finally, listen to understand, not simply

When someone would speak there mind we would not judge the way it was delivered by the persons we would speak about the actual content said. A good example of this is one student in our Jialin has a very heavy accent. So sometimes understanding what she says is a little more difficult. She also had some of the best ideas in our group and was very knowledgeable about the topic we were presenting on. So when she would present her ideas to the group we all did a very good job on understanding what she actually said and giving feedback on that, rather then judging the way it was presented. Whenever someone didn't know something about the guidelines of the presentation she was always on top of it and knew exactly when we needed to do. This shows how the listening skills in our group were so good, we were able to overcome these barriers to get to the bigger point of it all.

Communicate thoroughly with everyone working on my team. Set objectives and goals, along with rules for communicating and respecting one another.

To communicate effectively, you must speak clearly and concisely; use appropriate language and vocabulary that applies to the situation. You can use teach back to ensure that those you are delegating to understand their tasks. When speaking to

Being presentable is important to maintain an image, which one must obtain to keep their reputation.

I have like art since i was in elementary school. I had always enjoyed going to art class and learning new things and practicing them when i had a chance to do use it. I have like to draw or sketch things out. Art got me to become an extroverted person because i didn't take art in middle school because i become introverted because i was around many talented people in my middle school, but when i got to high school, i just took art because them three years in middle school not taking art i missed out and i didn't want to just push art away. I started becoming extroverted again.Then i got interested into Photography or animals and of just normal day things to take pictures of and then draw them to make a scene of the drawing i am going to make.

Don't allow yourself to be taken advantage of by others. Be capable of seeing the times when others are not treating you fairly, and be able to respectfully defend yourself. But don't be too assertive or you will come off as aggressive. For if you are too defensive others will find it difficult to work with you.

Even if they are the most boring person let them finish what they were saying before butting in. By not interrupting it shows a level of maturity higher than a 9 year old begging mom for something while she's talking to another adult.

I feel that speaker should have freedom to express themselves completely before attempting to interrupt for comments or questions regarding what they are saying. This again requires understanding and patience from a good listener. Interrupting a speaker is likely to be a interpreted as a sign of rudeness. According

“1. Tell people up front that you are going to let them know how they are doing.