Introduction Families in our nation have evolved over the past few decades. One thing is for certain, children need the support of their families regardless of the makeup or division of the family. Children are adversely effected by situations that the family encounters. Divorce is not as harmful at times as economic struggle and lack of communication with the children over such issues. Finally, the family is defined by blood and extension. Those that children are closest to are the ones that influence them.
Children and Kinship Children build a kinship base on their involvement with their families. Kinship is the relationships with others to whom children are related to or they feel a sense of family or relatedness toward (Mason and Tipper, 2008, p. 442). As I read Mason and Tipper article on “BEING RELATED, how children define and create kinship,” this article reflected on the socioeconomic, ethnic and cultural background of a selected number of children that was interviewed (Mason and Tipper, 2008, p. 442). I learned that children’s kinship was not reckoning processes were highly creative and inclusive but provided meaning that children who experience parental divorce or separation create who they consider to be their family. No matter how conventional or unconventional status of the parent kinship (heterosexual marriage, nuclear or single kinship) (Mason and Tipper, 2008, p. 443). Overall, this article implicates children’s reckoned and practices of kinship.
A family helps mold each person into who they eventually will become. The family is a guide for the success of a child's future. The stability of family creates a building block for how the child will progress throughout life. When parents divorce, the children are left with no stability causing them to lose basic concepts of childhood that may carry with them throughout life. Children of divorced parents have less success and happiness creating less productive citizens in our nation.
Families in the world are very different. They come in different shapes and sizes, it can be based on different kinds of relationship, but what all families have in common that it is made of people you love and care. Over past 20 or more years families in the world has changed the most than it has changed in all history. Of course changes in the families are different among cultures and religions. It seems that United States, Canada and Northern Europe families has changed the most, now Nuclear families are dominating there, when in Asia Extended families still takes a greater number. In the richest places in the world numbers of same sex marriages,
As the father of modern family studies, Whittaker, J. K. and J. Garbarino. (1983) observed, 'We know too much about the family to be able to study it both objectively and easily 'Some family needs could be considered as being met through a combination of expressive and instrumental functions, such as child care, and health-related supports. This applies on both Case Studies.
As Lyndon Baines Johnson says, “The family is the corner stone of our society. More than any other force it shapes the attitude, the hopes, the ambitions, and the values of the child. And when the family collapses it is the children that are usually damaged. When it happens on a massive scale the community itself is crippled. So, unless we work to strengthen the family, to create conditions under which most parents will stay together, all the rest — schools, playgrounds, and public assistance, and private concern — will never be enough” (Danes). He believed that family is the base of the society. The way that family is set up affects children in all ways. Family structure is very important and that no matter what we do,
There are various family backgrounds a child may come from. If they grow up in an extended family circle, in close relationship not only with their parents and siblings but also with their grandparents and cousins, they might feel more protected by the people who surround them and have more opportunities to develop socially through frequent interactions with their relatives. A bigger family tend to give moral values and education to the child that also supports their social and cognitive progress. However, coming from a smaller, nuclear family does not mean that the child is not provided with the same values, and vice versa a child can have negative experiences, e.g. feeling of being lost in a house crowded with their family members. Reconstructed or one-parent families also have the potential to work well if the child is able to accept the changes and see that e.g. their parents are happier separated or with their new partner. Still teaching staff has to give closer attention to those children coming from broken up families because if they are unhappy or cannot deal with the changed circumstances, their academic and social development will be affected negatively.
Family is the building block of society. One of the most crucial institutions there is. Marriage being the main foundation for family. Not only is divorce increasing psychological problems for children, but it will also, in turn, effect all other institutions in society. Children are becoming less motivated to receive higher education, and many people blame this on
It is my belief that recognizing any family structure or definition is important, as the traditional version may be skewed in so many ways, without knowing or recognizing the “family” that people we run across may come from. We can also learn from other family definitions to build upon our own themes, rules, and beliefs. Adding stigma and prejudice toward families different from our own not only alienate the members, but can add unnecessary stress upon that family system. Stress in any family system can be seen as either an adaptation potential or a negative force. Many effects on the
The families in America are steadily changing. While they remain our most valued and consistent source of strength and comfort, some families are becoming increasingly unstructured. In the past, the typical family consists of a working father, a stay at home mother and, of course, well-rounded children. Today, less than 20 percent of American families fit nicely into this cookie cutter image. American households have never been more diverse. Natalie Angier takes stock of the changing definition of family in an article for the New York Times.
Biological or non-biological connections between families in all societies are what form kinships. Whether one has been raised in a biological family or non-biological family, kinship means one is still oriented to the family they have. In a story where two babies were born in the same hospital, they were switched at birth. These two women grew up in non-biological families; nonetheless consider their non-biological family a family as if they were biological kinships. There are many disagreements whether non-biological kinships are actually real families. However, no one tends to dispute any concerns of biological kinships, even though both are of the same classification. While biological kinships are just as important as non-biological and social kinships, there should to be an understanding of why both are equal to one another.
Depending on their cultural background, many families will often have different understandings or ideas of what a family is and how it should be structured.
The word family has changed so much in the past century. A family back in the 1950’s was probably considered a husband, wife, and one or more children. Times have changed and families have become much different. The Interpersonal Communication: Relating to Others book defines family as a, “Unit made up of any number of persons who live in relationship with one another over time in a common living space who are usually, but not always, united by marriage and kinship” (Beebe, Beebe & Redmond, 243). Families can be broken up into five different types. The first is the traditional family, which includes a mother, father, and their biological children. Next, is the blended family which includes
Kinship can help define who we are, through the values we subscribe to, where we live, and even our political and religious beliefs. Kinship, or families, are a part of all societies, and has been said to be the most basic of all social institutions—it is how people of different cultures categorize the people they are connected to, and that has a lot of influence on a person’s life. But kinship doesn’t always equal family. I’ve heard the phrase, “she is like kin to us.” That’s because ‘kin’ is actually a synonym for ‘related.’ Fathers and sons, aunts and nieces, brothers and cousins are all examples of kinship. In American culture the question of “who are you” has become more about what kind of work you do and less about who your family is. I believe that stems from the American concept of being a self-made man—a departure from more European assessment of who you “are” based on who your ancestors were. Below is my family genealogy (or as best as I can approximate it).
In every culture, values norms and lifestyles differentiate. However, there’s one aspect of every society that does not differ greatly, the importance of family. Early and GlenMaye (2000) described families as the primary social service agency in meeting the social, educational, and health care needs of members. The role of family is significant because it is the primary foundation and structure of society itself. Also, a family is the most important social group to which a person could belong to. It is through the family system that we learn social and moral etiquette which provide us with a reference point during our interaction with society.
A family can be defined in many ways, but the common denominator in all is the love and fulfillment one gets by being surrounded by family members. Families can sometimes be at odds with each other, but the strain of this type of relationship usually creates an upsetting feeling to the people involved. People want others to rely on, talk to, do things with, share, love, embrace, and be part of. No matter what the family dynamic is the qualities the word family has will remain the same, as time goes by, and life evolves once again for every person living their
The term family has an ever changing structure, and as of recently, no longer only consists of the predominant stereotype of a single mother and father within a household. Nowadays, there are families that consists of two fathers or even just a single mother with each family having different ideals from another. Family shares a bond that goes deeper than just blood relation and no matter the time, a family should always love and support one another despite your differences. Although the basic structure of a family is always changing with the times, the bonds and feelings within a family must always remain.