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Family Stereotypes

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The common stereotype that women are better nurturers and parents is observable in many different aspects of society. For example, it’s reflected in the gender imbalance in the types of professions that deal with younger kids. The Teach excel tech program at Mayfield High School, which prepares students who want to be teachers for careers in early childhood education, has about a fifth as many boys enrolled as it does girls. Furthermore, while it is common for women to be asked to babysit and watch kids, many men aren’t trusted to do the same. But this stereotype isn’t just ingrained in professional life, its inherent in traditional family life too.

Picture a stereotypical nuclear family—an upper middle class married couple with a nice house …show more content…

The idea behind it is that the father sacrifices spending time with his kids for his professional life, while the mother sacrifices work experience and income for her family life. On paper, it sounds like a fair system, but in reality there are a couple of issues with …show more content…

The spouse who is giving up work in order to spend time with their family is allowing their partner to assume more power in the relationship. If a partner were to quit their job to pursue being a full time parent, then they become solely dependent on their partner for money. This doesn’t become an issue unless the relationship ends, which is why many parents make this choice—they assume that they will be together for the rest of their lives. However, if the caregiver becomes unsatisfied in their relationship, it is much harder and more risky for them to end the relationship, as they could find themself in a precarious financial position. By quitting their job, the caregiver sacrifices potentially years of work experience, and sandbags their career, and puts a substantial amount of trust in their partner. But, in the event that the money-earning parent wants to leave, they are only burdened by a moral responsibility, and do not have to face the same economic struggle that the caregiver might. If the relationship were to end, the money-earning partner would be in a much better position than the caregiving partner. The stereotype that women should be the primary caregivers pushes them into the role of the more reliant spouse. In a perfect relationship, where both partners are fully committed to the relationship, this doesn’t become an issue. But as soon as fights

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