Marrying someone with the same religion may be the result in a happy relationship. It is proven that interfaith marriages are more likely to end than couples with the same religion. After reading different students’ opinions and personal blogs on the topic “How Important Do You Think it is To Marry Someone With The Same Religion?” It’s become apparent that there are multiple ways to approach this and many strong feelings about it. Religion is very important to some individuals, although others could care less. The article “Five Benefits of Marrying Someone Within Your Faith” states the importance of marrying someone who shares the same religion so that there will be no pressure in converting to another faith, less confusion for your children, extended family …show more content…
Although it has been proven that couples with the same religion are much happier and have less issues others have made it work. Many believe that marrying someone with a different religion will cause no problems and is not an important part of a relationship. The importance of religion actually sometimes takes place in a relationship before marriage. Sometimes religion is even so important to a couple that they go to counseling to insure that they are on the same religious viewpoint. “Often, conversion takes place before the wedding, so that the ceremony is focused on just one faith. Spouses sometimes convert so that children can be raised in one religion, helping parents to avoid conflict and confusion.” (Is There.) Along with having one person convert to another religion, religious marriages have a background and used to be very common. Religious marriage was a tradition and symbolism, especially when it comes to the marriage ceremony. Each religion has different traditions that take place at the wedding ceremony and this is another reason that it would be confusing to not share the same
In a culturally diverse world, it is difficult for individuals and communities to express thoughts and opinions to one another well. It is especially difficult when it comes to disagreements and differences regarding religion. To overcome this struggle, it is important to be open-minded, accepting, understanding, and respectful of everyone – whether they have the same or different beliefs. Each religion has its own set of traditions, practices, and beliefs. Because of this, individuals of different religions may not agree with one another, often resulting in conflicts.
My cousin who came from a very religious Catholic background had married a Jewish man. The family was not so much angry but surprised mostly by the procedure of a Jewish wedding. The family worried about the issue of children and what their religion would be. The couple decided that when they had children, they would leave it up to them to choose what religion they wanted to be. The family didn’t treat him or her any differently and accepted them with open arms.
Marriage is an important part of the Christian life a the purpose of Christian marriage is faithfulness to one another, many Christians teach than within marriage there is a natural hierarchy that reflects the relationship of Christ and the church. The Roman Catholic Church says “wives, in the same way be submissive to your husband… Husband, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect” (1 peter 3:1, 7). Whereas the Church of England argues that the relationship is based upon Christ’s headship over the church and is about love and sacrifice, not domination and power. This argument originally started as the bible said “a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and they will become one flesh” (genesis 2:24). On the other hand, in the Islamic faith marriage is only a way to make sex and having children legal and lawful, the belief also states in the eyes of Allah both members of the relationship are treated equally even though they have separate duties.
Many legal and financial advantages can be attained through marriage. Instead of getting married after high school, people tend to go to college, get their life together, and then marry. The average groom is now thirty-seven and bride thirty-four (Discuss). According to Associated Press Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, “41 percent of spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional.” Couples these days aren’t communicating the proper way. Instead they get mad at each other and ignore one another. One or both people in the relationship have “checked out”, but they don’t want to divorce for the sake of the children. Or they still love each other, valuing each other as a support system and as close friends, but don’t feel that intimacy toward one another. As said in a marriage article from faqs.org, “The study, by the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University, found that the marriage rate among Americans is at its lowest point ever. Over the last forty years, the rate has fallen forty-three percent. In addition, fewer people are reporting themselves as being “very happy” in their marriages.” Today, most wedding ceremonies involve a religious service, which contains many traditional features that are significant to their cultures. Christian’s services contain wording that has been unchanged since the
Religion serves as a gatekeeper for most communities and for intercultural and interracial marriages and relationships. Religion help people define there social group identity and influences how individuals perceive
Marriage plays a huge role in religious practices, because of this, people that practice a religion tend to stay in their first marriage. A study found that people that were married under a religious ceremony are 30% less likely to separate over those who didn’t
“In other words, not only are people from different religious backgrounds getting married, they are keeping those separate faiths rather than converting.” (Hanes, 2014). This means that partners can still have and value their religion while still having a working relationship. They do not have to convert to still be happy and they certainly do not have to avoid specific people because they do not share the same beliefs. “...whether we’re Muslim, Jewish, Hindu...we’re in the same workplaces. And we fall in love and get married”. (Hanes, 2014). It does not matter who you are; ethnicity, religion or even gender should not determine who somebody can love. What happens though, is that two people meet each other and fall in love. Religion has nothing to do with it. However, some people in the US find it hard to believe that families are able to function properly with two or more
When it comes to different religions within a marriage, there will be complications if communication between the couple is limited. They will have many issues unless they work out the differences in what they each practice. Orthodox Judaism is a religion that has evolved over time. Another sub religion that evolved from Orthodox Judaism is Reformed Judaism. There are similarities as well as differences between the two how they view the Torra. The observant Jew believes that Torah is the word of God. There are two types of laws in the Torah. Mishpatim are laws whose purpose is readily understandable in any civilized society, thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, etc. Chukim are laws with no discernible practical reason.
When looking for a partner to settle down with, one usually seeks someone who is similar to them. They might look for individuals with similar hobbies, beliefs or even age. The reason behind this is due to a theory known as Social Homogamy. Social Homogamy is when individuals are attracted to a person of a similar ethnicity, race, age, or maybe even beliefs. (Gonzalez, n.d). Due to this, there is ultimately a correlation between sameness and compatibility as when people are more alike they might relate and get along better. When people see others who are like them, they subconsciously become attracted to them along with having feelings of trust and comfort (Patel, 2017). This eventually leads to a closer bond and possibly a more successful relationship (Patel, 2017). The purpose of this research is to examine why marrying within a specific social group is more advantageous than marrying an individual of a different social group. Firstly, individuals of different social classes tend to have different norms, and this leads to key differences. Secondly, the distinctions in age groups between the couple can negatively affect a couple’s marriage due to dissimilarity, thus leading to dispute. Lastly, when a partner of an individual is from the same or similar social group, they will fit in and better adapt to their partner’s lifestyle. Therefore, marrying within the same social group is more advantageous than being with a partner opposite to them. This can be proven through the
In the Christian religion, there are two basic laws allowing divorce without the commitment of sin, infidelity and marriage to a nonbeliever whom has abandoned the commitment. However, in today’s society divorce has become a very common thing, as people decide to split part in their many marital dissolutions, and only one of these are considered to be a top five reasons why married couples actually divorce. Furthermore, infidelity or parting upon religious conversions only take upon circumstances of high sin in the views of the Christian God, rather than depicting compelling rational views that affect couples in everyday life.
Hinduism and Marriage In a hindu marriage the words and action means more than just words. It is a guide for the rest of the life. -------------------------------------------------------------------- According to Hinduism, a marriage between two persons is a sacred relationship that is not limited to this life alone.
Both religion and family are essential parts in the running of any society. Religion is the belief in a supernatural authority which unites a group of people. Normally, a family consist of people who share the same bloodline; however, it may also consist of a group of people who are legally bonded such as adopted children. In whatever type of the family, strong and healthy bonds are necessary. Among other factors, religion plays a significant role in strengthening the family bonds. In many religions of the world, family comes first. For instance, in the Bible, God created man and woman so that they could reproduce and fill the earth. In addition, God gave man power over all other living things. This shows how important people are to God. Notably, various religions have different values and expectations on families. For instance, Islam allows polygamy while Christianity allows monogamy. The relationship between family and religion can be evaluated using the functionalism perspective of sociology. This essay explains the functionalism perspective and analyses the interactions between religion and family.
In the Roman Catholic Church, the ceremony is conducted within the house of God; some circumstances can warrant the marriage to take place outside of a church, for example one party is unable to appear in the church due to illness. In Catholic marriages, is believed that God blesses the couple and completes the union and it is the couple who marry each other, the priest or minister does not, rather he is a witness of the Church. The couple recite the marriage vows in front of each other, the witnesses (attendees and the priest/minister) and God. These vows serve as a promise to each other and to the church to fulfill their marital obligations, as they are now considered to be 'one flesh'.
Why did they not discuss this issue before they got married or did they think the other one would change after saying their wedding vows? Marriage is not about changing someone; instead, it is about loving your partner for his or her beliefs.
The family issue I will be analyzing is interfaith marriage. Interfaith marriage is simply marriage between two people who belong to or identify with different religious groups. However simple the definition may seem, the reality of interfaith marriage can be far more complex. For most of human history it has been a social taboo to marry outside of one 's faith. However, in recent years it has become much more acceptable, even to the point of seeming to essentially be a non-factor as far as society is concerned. Nevertheless, with the inevitable differences in customs and beliefs, and despite social acceptance, interfaith marriages can still cause major conflict in the household. This paper will explore seven different sociological theories, and attempt to explain how they can decipher the effects of interfaith marriage upon the family.