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Fools Rush In Concept Paper

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Fools Rush In is a romantic comedy dealing with interpersonal communication between Isabel and Alex. When these two first met each other it was at a restaurant. From the beginning, there were obvious signs of flirting. As the night went on, Isabel ended up going to Alex’s home. Waking up in his arms, she quickly scrambled her things and left only to return three months later to tell Alex she is pregnant with his baby. This movie is a perfect example of a relationship between two people. In a relationship there is a time where the two discloses information about one another, have mixed emotions, and other interpersonal concepts. Fools Rush In has many examples of first impressions, self-concepts, conflict, identity needs, stages of …show more content…

For one, Alex was a part of a different group construct than Isabel. Fortunately, Isabel’s family started warming up to Alex. It ended up being a great night. After the family left, Isabel and Alex was left together and that is when they suddenly realized that they liked each other. Unfortunately, Isabel had mixed emotions about the situation. She wanted to invite Alex into her life permanently but she did not want to get hurt with what the future held. Alex on the other hand was ready to spend his life with Isabel. He told Isabel “you are everything I never knew I always wanted.” At that point, Isabel decided to give Alex a chance with her. In the bonding stage of their relationship, they decided to get married. They got married in court, which upset Isabel’s father. Another conflict that the relationship had was Alex’s best friend. His friend, who was previously married, shared all the negativity about marriage. He wanted to know how come they skipped the whole dating stage. At this point, Alex referred dating as “bringing out your best side, while holding in the real you.” This line goes parallel to the self concepts explained in the lessons. What Alex is saying is dating brings out the presenting self in a person that way their significant other will have a front stage view of that person. The presenting self is when a person presents themselves to others based on the circumstance or situation. In other words, their real self is the back

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