Jasper’s Day Book Review The book Jasper’s Day is a picture book written by Majorie Blain Parker and illustrated by Janet Wilson. The story focuses on a dog’s last day from the perspective of his child owner Riley. Early on, readers learn that Jasper has cancer, and is in pain. However, the fact that Jasper will be euthanized is not addressed until later in the book, right before it happens. Children who read this book may realize something is wrong with Jasper but will likely not understand what is going to happen until the end. Adults reading this story to children, however, will likely understand the foreshadowing and know what is going to happen by the end of the story. Age and Stage On the Chapters website, this story is listed as …show more content…
At first, he is denying the fact that Jasper’s Day will be his last day with the family, saying he does not want to think about it. However, at the end when his dad takes Jasper to the clinic and Riley and his mom cry together, he realizes that Jasper was in pain and that maybe he was ready to go. Riley and his family operate under a mutual pretense regarding Jasper for the day, they know that Jasper will die at the end of the day from euthanasia but nobody talks about it so that they can enjoy the time that is left. Riley’s family allow him to participate in the death ritual to a level that is age-appropriate and not scary for him. He knows that Jasper will get a needle that won’t hurt, and he will then die, but he does not go to the vet’s office and witness the euthanasia. However, once Riley’s dad returns, they have a funeral for Riley, bury him in the backyard and spend time sharing their favorite memories. Although it could be argued that Riley’s parents do a phenomenal job of providing him with appropriate information, there are times when Riley’s parents whisper, making it seem like they are trying to shield Riley from some of the information regarding what will happen to Jasper. After Jasper has died, Riley has a physical response to the death. He talks about how his chest aches because he misses Jasper. The child’s experience with death is presented as a very positive experience for …show more content…
Although the loss of a pet is a legitimate loss, it is very different from a human loss. However, if a child was having difficulty understanding the meaning of a funeral and what it would look like, this book may be able to open the conversation as they host a funeral-like ritual at the end of the book to remember and bury Jasper. Most importantly, this book is a great tool for parents and family members to have on hand after the death of a pet to help explain what has happened, especially in the case of euthanasia. This book would not be a good story-time book for children who have healthy pets or who have not experienced the death of a pet, as it could scare them about the future of their pets. Overall, this book would be effective bibliotherapy for parents and family members, as well as a good option for librarians to recommend to families who have recently experienced the loss of their
One would think that if the pet had a close connection to a person, and that person has passed away that someone who misses the person that has passed may use the pet to help with the loss. The main character’s
Laying on the bed very still, my mother and I were slowly becoming aware of his fate. Pros: He had already experienced an amazing life that contained priceless memories. His old age was also taking a toll on him, as crawling out of bed each morning was exhausting. Cons: I had known him for as long as I can could remember. Every road trip, every bike ride, he had been right by my side. Just letting him go was hard. I could feel the saltiness of my tears stinging my cheeks as they cascaded down my face, but a decision was imminent. I told him he was a good boy one last time, and while the vet injected the poison, I watched my closest family members tail slowly wag for the last time.
Varley book targets young ages from 4 to 10-year old’s as the topic of death is discussed as moving through a tunnel and gradually gaining back the abilities that were lost with aging and coming to rest as a complete being. The lesson within this story is how cope with the loss of a grandparent or an elderly relative as they age and come to die, and to relive the memories they have left behind to pass on to another. Susan Varley approach to death is very childlike, it allows anyone who reads her book to ask questions about the passing of an individual, such as, i.e., why did they die? Is it okay to feel sad? Is it okay to talk about the person? Is it okay to share memories?
It is important that Ms. Bowman provide sufficient support as her students attempt to make sense of the death of their class pet. Adults can help children make sense of the world through joint discussion of an event that they have mutually experienced. An approach that is sometimes called a mediated learning experience. As a knowledgeable adult, Ms. Bowman can encourage her students to think about death in particular ways: to attach labels to it, recognize principles that underlie it and draw certain conclusions from it. Additionally, children may further wish to talk among themselves as a way of making sense of Ringo’s death. Ms. Bowman’s classroom should be an ideal setting in which her students can toss around ideas and perhaps reach consensus about how to best interpret or understand Ringo’s
In this article, George E. Dickenson and Heath C. Hoffmann (2016) discuss how deep an animal's emotional intelligence truly is. They discussed how when an animal is being euthanized those surrounding it understand what is happening and react in a way that is almost human. They found this by conducting a survey taken by certified veterinarians. Even when an animal is just sitting in the waiting room before they receive the shot the other animals around them start to go over to the sick animal as if they are saying goodbye or comforting it. Those surrounding the sick canine also start to express sorrow, act on their owner's emotions, and feel stress (p. 61-65). Since veterinarians completed the survey and every source they used are reliable
My evaluation of Pet Sematary is that once the dead are dead let them rest in peace. Everyone knows the common phrase “R.I.P” but this novel tests the limits of what is dead and what can be revived with some Indian burial ground business. The Pet Sematary is known in the town of Ludlow, as the place you bring your dead pets body up to so you can get your last goodbye or maybe even another lifetime of fun with them. Louis was drinking a beer with his neighbor Jud, on Jud’s porch, the typical evening for the duo, when Louis made Jud tell him the history about the Pet Sematary. Jud tells him about how the “Sematary” affected how
The bio-psycho-social perspective basically considers a holistic approach when working with an individual, incorporating their health and well being in each four aspect of their lives. This research paper will focus on interpreting the effectiveness of pet therapy with pediatric children. By researching this topic, we can verify pet therapy as an evidence-based practice for this particular population. There have been studies completed of the effectiveness of pet therapy with palliative care
The sweet smelling lady opened my cage and hooked my leash to my collar. Two humans led each of my family members to the back of the shelter. The man in the white lab jacket put all of us on the cold metal table, laid us so that we could all see each other. I didn’t say “goodbye” to my family, I said, “I’ll you soon…” The sweet smelling lady held my face in her hands and kissed me on the nose and stroked my head softly, making cooing noises. The man in the coat took a needle and injected my mother and father first. They looked so peaceful, laying there, noses touching. My brother looked at me and licked my nose as if trying to say, “I love you, Sam.” and he closed his eyes and relaxed as the injection took effect. The man with the coat stood over me with the needle, “Look, Lisa, before I euthanize this dog, are you sure you don’t want to adopt her. It's not too late.” he said, looking down at me mournfully. Lisa shook her head, “No, I could never afford this dog at home and it's better if she is with her family.” she whispered. The man nodded and gently injected the needle in my scruff. Lisa looked away and I licked her hand, relaxing as the drug slowly drained my life away. Her figure blurred as my eyes unfocused. Before I died, I felt Lisa hug me and kiss me again and a tear fell on my nose. I had licked it away and licked her cheek again. Lisa was the last human that I had
The pet grief industry has grown largely in the last decade supporting pet owners after the passing of their companions, as the expectations for how owners should handle this heartbreaking situation have greatly changed. Companies in this industry provide a multitude of services in order to alleviate some of the pain during this transition of losing a pet. For example, companies offer services such as individual cremations, which can sometimes be viewed by the family, along with a certificate to ensure that your pet will not come in contact with other deceased pets. Because pets are members of families, the pet industry believes that pets should continue to be treated in this way after passing; therefor the family should deal with the pets’
Workers have also become depressed and some even turn to drug and alcohol abuse from the distressing result of doing euthanasia to dogs. After analyzing this article it important to let society know the decisions they make to euthanize their dogs does not just affect them and the dog but also the workers who have to execute it. Euthanize should not be the first choice when it comes to overcrowded in kennels or how likely the dog is to get adopted; it should not determine if the dog should live or
One day when I arrived to my pawpaw’s house, I noticed his health was declining. The hospice nurse walked up to my mother, and I overheard her say, “I would give him three more days.” When I overheard this, I ran into the bathroom because I did not want anyone to see me cry. Luckily, Maggie was with me and she comforted me. Sadly, the Hospice nurse was right. Three days later, my family and I stood beside him as he took his last
Given the emotional bond most of us share with our animals, it’s only natural to feel devastated and filled with grief along with sadness after losing them. When a person you love passes away, for instance, it’s common for family and friends to console you and provide comfort. Unfortunately, although the emotional aspect is generally understood, society often forgets how tremendously complex grief and loss can be. Believe it or not, some people still don’t understand how central animals can be in people’s lives, and a few may not get why you’re grieving over “just a pet.”
Often times, pets are considered a member of the family. Losing a beloved pet is difficult for anyone to endure. It’s especially traumatic for children who may not understand what is happening.
“To choose to live with a dog is to agree to participate in a long process of interpretation.” This has been one of the most influential books I have ever read. Not only that but this book taught me a lot of things. It showed me that there is a countless number of people out there who feel a deep connection and affection for their dogs. I’ve loved animals since I was little but no more than a handful of times have I’ve seen other people with such a deep passion for animals and specifically dogs. It taught me that you can grieve for the death of a dog the same way you grieve for the death of a loved one, because essentially, they are the same being. This book showed me that you can talk and write about anything even if you consider it the “unsayable”,
To many, a pet is much more than an animal that lives in the same house as them. A pet is more than a nuisance with fur that one has to feed and care for. For most, a pet is another family member. A pet is a constant companion that is there to play, cuddle, and bring one joy. One always remembers their first pet. They remember how their pet was always there to comfort them when their own world seemed to be falling apart. Sadly, one also remembers when their first pet died. How when they left you, they also left a gaping hole in your heart that remained hollow ever since.