Forgiveness By Paul Bese Analysis

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This I believe that forgiveness is the key to finding inner peace. “Forgiveness does not change the past but it does enlarge the future.” Paul Boese had a clear understanding of what it meant to forgive. It sounds so lucid, but forgiving is never easy. In fact, it's probably one of the hardest things you'll have to do. To forgive someone, you have to first find closure and make peace with yourself. In order for you to be able to move on, you have to accept what they have done and think if that person as more than their mistake. Everyone deserves a second chance. Things happen, while everyone should be held accountable for their actions, they shouldn't be defined by one mistake.

When I was a younger, what I hated most was being held back for others short comings. I even developed issues with trust and authority. I was so used to being let down that I thought if I didn't do everything myself then I
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When you don't forgive you only hurt yourself and honestly, that person doesn't deserve the satisfaction and harming you any more than they already did.

The absolute worst thing you can do is seek vengeance. Moral said, “The swiftest path to destruction is vengeance”. Many have fallen victim to its empty promises and many have paid the price for it. Vengeance can be something as simple as returning an insult. But the only way to end this cycle of hatred is forgive.

People will never stop hurting others. No amount of forgiveness will change that. Mainly because humans aren't perfect. I am not trying to change the world, nor am I expecting that I will always be forgiven for things because I have forgiven others. I believe in forgiveness solely for the sake of my own well being. I try to stop myself as much as I can from wasting however much time I have in this world being bitter. I believe in forgiveness to give others a second chance because I understand what it’s like to need
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