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Fox And Owl In Conflict Style

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Conflict, an expressed struggle between at least two interdependent parties who perceive incompatible goals, scarce resources and interference from the other party in achieving their goals, can be handled in various ways. After taking the conflict style quiz I found that my primary conflict style is that of a fox with the owl being my secondary conflict style. According to the article, the conflict style of a fox is moderately concerned with their own goals and about their relationships with others where the owl highly values their own goals and relationships. Foxes seek compromise by giving up part of their goal and persuading the other person in a conflict to give up part of their goal to create a solution where both sides gain something, the middle ground between two extreme positions. Owls view conflicts as problems to be solved and seek a solution that achieves both their own goals and the goals of the other person in the conflict. I somewhat agree with the results of this conflict style assessment as I agree that the fox and owl represent my conflict styles, however, I believe the styles should be flipped as the owl being my primary conflict style and the fox being my secondary style due to the fact that I typically try to resolve a conflict through collaborating, seeking win-win …show more content…

The elements of a conflict were present in this situation. There was interdependence as Kari, Heather and I all went to work out classes together. There was an expressed struggle, Kari expressed her feelings of betrayal that Heather got a ride to the gym from me when she was not available. Seemingly incompatible goals and interference was present as Kari did not want Heather and I to go to work out class without her and Heather and I wanted to go to that particular class. Limited class availability and work schedules made workout classes a scare

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