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Children that grow up without same gender role models aren’t as prepared for life. Every child should have a chance to live with both of their parents. If the parents do get divorced the child should get to see a different parent every week. One week stay at the mother’s house, and then go to the father’s house the following week or vice versa. Most parents don’t realize the effect they put on their child when they separate with their spouse. A child getting separated from one of his parents is just like someone important to them dying. Both mothers and fathers have very important roles to their children. Today it is mostly fathers raising daughters, and mothers raising sons. It has been shown that children that grow up without their same gender …show more content…

Parents teach their children so much in just the little time that they have. Mothers and fathers communicate with their children very differently. They differ in parenting, playing, encouraging security, and communication with their child. (Stanton) By 8 weeks of age an infant can tell the difference between his/her mother and his/her father. “This diversity, in itself, provides children with a broader, richer experience of contrasting relational interactions—more so than for children who are raised by only one gender.” (Stanton) Fathers tend to play with their children while mothers are the ones who take care of them. Mothers do love to play with their child, but they spend more time trying to teach them. “One can tend toward encouraging risk without consideration of consequences. The other tends to avoid risk, which can fail to build independence, confidence and progress.” (Stanton) Fathers also tend to talk very briefly and go straight to the point while mothers tend to describe the entire story. “Girls and boys who grow up with a father are more familiar and secure with the curious world of men. Girls with involved, married fathers are more likely to have healthier relationships with boys in adolescence, and men in adulthood because they learn from their fathers how proper men act toward women. They also learn from mom how to live in a woman’s world. This knowledge builds emotional security and safety from the exploitation of predatory males.” (Stanton) A married father that has a child/children tend to live a happier life with their wife harm free. Most fathers who are divorced and have a child/children tend to come back and hurt wife. This means that children that live with both parents will learn how to treat their spouse with the kind of respect that their parents had. Most children that did not live with both parents will argue with their spouse all the time, and end up separating with them in a matter of

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