Gender Roles Has Created An Ideal Set Of Rules And Behaviors

Imagine a world in which men could act feminine and women could act masculine without being judged. Now try and identify why this may never happen. Men and women are both taught at an early age what they can and cannot do because of what gender they were born as; they are markedly similar in this aspect. There is a known gender stereotype for girls and boys, and the parents of these children enable these stereotypes from the day that they are born. girls are given pink clothes, and boys are given blue clothes. These colors set the rules of how they must behave for the rest of their lives, this idea is known as The Girl and Guy code. It is all black and white thinking, or in the case pink and blue. There is no in-between because once you stray from the code it is immediately recognized and looked down upon. Although the girl and guy code are almost polar opposites, they go hand in hand with one another because they are both used among society as a way to create a better image in front of others. The Woman looks better in the eyes of other women if she is more lady-like, and a man looks better in front of men if he is more manly; both genders deal with a heavy set of homosocial ideals.

"You're such a girl!" is something we hear quite often. But we don't exactly analyze its importance. Every man or women act and behave differently, and that is because of gender roles, "instructions for how to behave and appear as a woman or man (Wade and Ferree 2015; 61). We all "do gender", the ways in which we actively obey and break the gender rules of our society." (Wade and Ferree 2015; 61). We don't always obey these rules and regulation, we're all humans, and we all make mistakes, but it's other peoples reaction what's most interesting about breaking them. Once we break these rules, there is something known as gender policing, "responses to the violations of gender rules aimed at promoting conformity. (Wade and Ferree 2015; 71).

Throughout history, men and women have been viewed in utterly different spheres. Men have been, and still are, believed to be the hard working individual who is in charge of “bringing home the bacon” and supporting the household finically. On the other hand, women are expected to have little to say, the house spotless, supper on the table, the children bathed, fed, in bed, and educated, all while maintaining a flawless hairdo and makeup. These stereotypes seem a bit offensive nowadays, but if you really consider it, it has been and most likely will be this way for our entire existence.

Throughout history, gender roles have been the foundation that determines the course of a civilization. These gender roles have undergone a change over time. It is important for every society to re-evaluate its preconceived ideas of gender and determine if that is still the norm for their society. When people think of gender roles we typically have set stereotypes in our head of what that means. Much of the time, what we believe, is not what is actually true. It is often argued what is right and what is wrong.

There is social roles and then there is social issues. From a very young age, as soon as a child reaches the capacity to understand, they are taught that they are ‘male’ or ‘female’ and that one should follow the social norm (role) that society has placed out for them. A male can only be strong, profound, masculine, stern, and emotionally controlled. While a women should only be nurturing, gentle, and sensitive. This is all before we even reach puberty, which largely created a (social) issue over the course of our generation. It makes it hard for people to find their identities in society. “All the worlds a stage, And all the men and women merely players: They have their exits, and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts” (William Shakespeare, Act 2, Scene 7, P. 6).

Throughout life every man and woman fits into a specific gender role. We are told what is expected of men and women from birth until death. Many people influence our view of how we should act and what we should say such as our parents, friends, and even the media. Males and females play very different roles and these differences are apparent in our every day lives. These differences are not the same as they used to be. Society has changed the way it treats men and women over time.

Gender roles decide what are the “appropriate” manners in which one should conduct themselves according to their gender. This includes the way one dresses, acts, speaks, and thinks. Gender roles are determined by the society in which one resides. For example, in early America, women were not viewed as intelligent or as having anything to

Gender roles is a problem that takes place in both the workplace, domestic conditions, and society. Often signified through the age-old stereotype. That men are required of the more "challenging" or more "advanced" jobs, while women restrict themselves to the less grueling and less beneficial positions. Terms such as "that 's a man 's job" is a leading cause of inequality in the workplace. Not to mention, gender roles and standards are set in the homes of many families everywhere. The so-called "picture perfect family" situation; the husband goes to work while the wife stays home to tend to the children. While romanticized as ideal, this concept is the very essence of a patriarchal society. Meanwhile, the brutally vicious society we live in often berates women 's self-esteems in more way than one. Stereotypes of beauty, or who are skinny, pretty, white, and wealthy, are unfortunately the ideal standard of women and

Even though things are different in today’s modern society, gender roles do give each sex their own jobs and specific roles. For example, the woman in the household is expected to clean while the male is expected to do the yard work. This eliminates any sort of confusion between who has to do what in the house. Although this can be true, we don't have to stick to our roles assigned to us by society. Each person can pitch in a hand wherever it is needed, maybe the husband can cook once in a while and help out with the laundry. The wife doesn’t have to stay home all day cleaning the

It is now and accepted fact that gender roles exist. Whether you call them gender roles or characterize actions or behaviors as “lady-like” or “a man’s job”, they exist and they are a problem. A common saying used to excuse the blatantly ignorant actions usually reflecting sexism is one I am sure you are familiar with. That saying is “Boys will be boys”. Something making a big impact on this internalized hatred is the image women feel forced to fulfill shoved down our throats by social media, magazines, all in attempt to sell a product to women so that we may look like these unattainable images. Young girls are taught that if a boy causes you physical harm, it means he likes you. We romanticize abuse. These girls grow up and get into abusive

Men and women have long been compared to one another since they have existed. Ernest Hemingway, the author of “Hills like White Elephants,” wrote this short story, in 1927, to illustrate how much men and women differ emotionally from each other when they are put in a certain type of situation. Gender roles over the years has changed very much, especially since the 1920’s. Both men and women may be raised similarly, but they were not taught the exact same values as each other. Certain expectations are expected from the two genders based on what their parents have taught them while growing up. Gender roles have also evolved so much as time passed, meaning the gender roles then are definitely different from the men and women today. Although men and women are diverse genders, a relationship between the two affects their expectations in society, thought processes, and their values during the 1920’s.

Men and Women's lives are controlled by the double standards all around them. Every gender is told how to feel and how not to feel, how to act and how not to act rather than just acting and feeling as they want to. The lives of human beings are plagued by these awful societal rules that are all meaningless. Despite the progress made in equality for men and women, double standards create inequality for both genders.

Gender roles are based on norms, or standards, created by society have been around for many years. These standards limited what or who we could potentially become such as women becoming doctors or men becoming teachers. Masculine roles are usually associated with strength, aggression, and dominance, while feminine roles are associated with passivity, nurturing, and subordination. Men and women often appear to behave in ways that don't fit masculine and feminine expectations. These roles are exposed to us as young as babies, such as the clothes we wore or the toys we played with and the socials aspects of everyday life. In Mona Lisa Smiles the majority of the students of Wellesley College wanted to get married and settle down with kids. However,

Everyone has heard the term, “Men rule the world,” before. Even though women are starting to break through into higher roles, men still control the political, economic, societal and religious position. However, with all this power comes a great deal of responsibility and pressure put on men. By pressure, I don’t just mean holding positions of power or being financially successful. But also the perceived notion that all men have to man up and “act masculine.” You have depression? Suck it up. You are unemployed? You’re a complete failure. You like a girl? It is your job to ask her first. Why do men have to be put into these “dominant” roles that society has placed on us since birth? Why is crying look down upon for men but ok for women? Why

Gender roles are widely accepted societal expectations about how males and females should behave (Rathus, 2010, pg. 447). Gender roles create a difference in the way that masculine and feminine behaviors are accepted among society. Gender roles are often depicted as just a part of who a person is and help better define the difference between male and female. When society begins to use these gender roles as norms we often see those who don’t fit into the correct role become ostracized by society. When these gender roles become rigid they can become gender stereotypes. These stereotypes are fixed and oversimplified beliefs about the way in which men and women ought to behave (Rathus, 2010, pg. 447). One of the most common gender stereotypes is that men are the breadwinners and women are the homemakers. These stereotypes also carry into emotions as well, women being more likely to feel sadness, fear and sympathy, while men are more likely to feel anger and pride. Another area where gender stereotypes can be observed is in the work place with women taking jobs such as nursing and teaching, and men holding jobs in fields like medicine and law. (Rathus, 2010, pg. 447).