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Gender Roles In Marsha Norman's Night, Mother

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Women's roles are consistently being challenged in their daily lives. The play 'Night, mother, written by Marsha Norman, tells the story of a woman who has completely given up on her life. Jessie Cates; an unattractive, unemployed smoker, and divorced mother of a drug addict thief, feels like a failure at what is her life. She sits down one evening, after manipulating her mother, Thelma, into giving up where her father's gun was, and confesses that by her own will she will be dead by the next morning. In Thelma's unsuccessful attempt of changing her mind, Jessie pulls the trigger after locking herself in a room due to the overbearing stresses in her life. In Edward Albee's, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, Martha, wife to George, lives the …show more content…

The man always remains in charge of the relationship and the one sidedness leads to the bigger issues such as failures of those same relationships. In Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, Martha is in an unhappy marriage in which George is abusive towards her. Despite the abuse, Martha at times chooses to go back and forth with George as a way to anger him. I'll make you sorry you made me want to marry you. (191)
Although sounding hateful, Martha shows that she loved him when they first got married, it just faded with the lies and false expectations that grew between them. Both Thelma and Martha allow the men in their lives to take charge. Allowing the male roles to dominate the expectations being set gives them the power to oversee a woman's future. These straining relationships are what caused the problems within themselves. Those high expectations on women only lead to pressure. Jessie wants to commit suicide due to all of the pressures in her life. When she tells her mom that she wants to kill herself Thelma claims she is feeling sorry for herself, rather than trying to understand Jessie's point of view. Even reaching out to her own mother is not enough for someone to help

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