In life, there will always be good and bad, light and dark, a hero and a villain. Getting rid of one would cause havoc and wouldn't keep the balance we need in order to live. Luckily, certain people help try to maintain that balance. When something terrible happens, they are there to help aid the situation. These people can be out in the open, such as police officers or firefighters, but they can also be hiding in the community. It could be a group or an individual, but no matter who, where, or how many of them there are, they are always there when we need them. There is no way to escape the harsh reality that people fight. It happens, it always will, but it got a little extensive when one day my brother ran away from home. My brother was
Whether we like it or not, conflict is a part of everyday lives. It can happen to anyone, from your friends to your family.
Confronting conflict is only effective if the offender is willing to hear you out and are willing to collaborate. As indicated by (Pegues, 2009, p.21) usually the person who is more spiritually mature is the one who initiates the reconciliation. My mother had me when she was very young and at times, we have a very rough relationship for some reason.
Conflict is not something that can be avoided, especially in fiction. In fact, conflict is the main purpose of how a story came to be – without conflict, there will be no story. As quoted from Peder Hill (n.d.), “Its the primary ingredient that weaves together all the other elements of a novel”. However, conflict can arise in a story in various forms and they alter the course of the story. For instance, a conflict of decision. What decision is made by the characters moves the story. This is called external conflict, which Rector (2002) defines as “a struggle between a character and an outside force”. On the other hand, conflict within a character may also arise, which is called internal conflict. Internal conflict means “a struggle that
World war 2, Pearl Harbor, and the Holocaust. These are all examples of different conflicts that have occurred throughout history that have changed and or ended many people's lives. Even though there are conflicts there are many ways that can help you overcome them. One way you can deal with conflict is family who will help drive you to find the answer to your problem also just having friends at tough times and allowing new friendships to develop. The best way over all to respond to conflict is by using your family and friendships to help you overcome the conflicted in front of you.
What distinguishes a hero from a villain? When assessing William Tecumseh Sherman’s goals and actions on the battle field, the lines aren’t always so clear. General Sherman commanded the Union army during the bloodiest war in American history: the Civil War. His march to the sea during the fall and winter of 1864 stands out as one of the pivotal successes for the Union, because of the brilliant tactics used to expose weakness in the Confederacy. Cutting off his supply lines, he led 62,000 soldiers from Atlanta to Savanna to demoralize the southern people. The actions Sherman took in order to successfully accomplish his goals during his march were undeniable examples of barbarity, using brilliant schemes to suffocate the southern spirit.
Conflict is one of many challenges in everyday life. It is presented to us in many ways such as trying to figure out how to get your homework done on time, finding a way to win the football game, or something just as simple as trying to get out of doing your chores. However, there are times in everyone's life where your conflict is beyond the norm. These could include standing up to your school bully, trying to save someone’s life, or as many would say the greatest conflict in human history, the Nazis rise to power. There are many ways to solve a conflict in general no matter how morally wrong it is. However, history has shown time and time again that the best way to solve a conflict is to stand up to it while also
Conflict is inevitable in any personal relationship or among members of any group. While we encounter many types of conflict in our lifetime, we often look for ways to avoid conflict. So, why do we run away from dealing with our conflict? It is often because many of us fear the conflict will escalate into a situation we will not be able to sustain. “As conflicts escalate, they go through certain incremental transformations. Although these transformations occur separately on each side, they affect the conflict as a whole because they are usually mirrored by the other side. As a result of these transformations, the conflict is intensified in ways that are sometimes exceedingly difficult to undo” (Pruitt, and Kim 89). We
The kind of social interaction which is at display in the fight during the party is conflict. Conflict is generally taken to be a normal and essential part of social interaction. It is not seen as an anomaly but as an essential part of the social landscape. The fight between the two boys at night is also an example of conflict which may have happened and motivated by the pursuit of self interests. It affected others also at the party. People started leaving the party after
In many conflicts there are many different endings to them; arguments every day, accidents, wounds, injuries, broken hearts, and even deaths. Many ignorant people resolve their problems in fights and they hurt one
There are many times in our lives when we are faced with a conflict where the right solution is not
Unfortunately, even people today have feuds. If people practiced being responsible and having self-control, they would be much better off, and much distress and anxiety would be avoided.
Superman, Wonder Woman, Spiderman—what do all these characters have in common? They are all products of the human aspiration to be saved. The word hero is passed around too much these days. A hero is not a football player that scores the game-winning touchdown or the goaltender who saves his team from a loss. A hero is usually an ordinary person that did extraordinary things. A true hero is really never a hero at all; at least not in their own mind. However, there are various cases today in which we see the exact opposites of these characters, the anti-heroes. The anti-hero is one who cannot be classified as a hero, for that said character lacks natural heroic qualities. However, the anti-hero cannot be described as a villain either.
Flames are coming out of every opening in a building and a firefighter runs in to save someone that is inside. A police officer is shot while trying to ensure that no innocent lives are taken of those being held hostage inside a bank. A lifeguard jumps into the deep end of the pool to save a drowning child. Firefighters, police officers, lifeguards or even the next door neighbor could be considered heroes. Why does society have a need for heroes? What traits should heroes have? The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines a hero in the following ways: a) a mythological or legendary figure often of divine descent endowed with great strength or ability b) an illustrious warrior c) a man admired for his achievements and noble qualities d) one
Conflict need not be catastrophic or personal conflicts are simply part of being human. Deal with issues as they arise, avoiding conflict makes situations worse. Time does not resolve matters instead it decreases the chance of a positive outcome. Attempt to understand the other person's point of view because dismissing the other's views, assigning blame, and exclusive focus on your own perspective are all counterproductive. Do not judge emotions, no one's feelings are more or less “right” than the other. Emotions reflect a valid perspective of an individual even if you don't understand it; acknowledge the other person's reaction as important. Focus on the behavior, situation or problem area without attacking the person involved. Do not assume your values or beliefs are “right”, they reflect a view of the world from your unique perspective. Respecting another's viewpoint as equally valuable opens an opportunity for learning and growth (Lifetips moving up in life, 2000).
Sometimes we are not there to help and rely on others to help- we trust them. And sometimes, we can’t help ourselves and need them. “A life not lived for others is not a life.” (Mother Teresa) Mother Teresa gave her life to helping others and that is what heros do. They know they cannot save everyone so they start with just one person however small that help may be and continue to the next person doing all they can.”Not all of us can do great things but we can do small things with great love.” (Mother Teresa) Heros can be of any shape size gender or color. a hero is not defined by their looks but by their actions, choices, and deeds. A hero does not need to save a hundred lives or even one, they are there to give not take, to love not hurt, heros are the people that make the world a much better place and don’t give up on anyone.Heros surround us every day- their works are not shown for all the world to see- they were only meant for that one person they helped and sometimes for that group of people and sometimes a few words to inspire the whole world person by