God Created Humans Beings to Have Intimacy

I also chose the article “Passionate Marriage” By David Schnarch. Because of the couple’s disconnection, they each took the other’s criticism so personally. They blamed one another for their lack of intimacy, when, in fact, both were at fault. They each lacked the knowledge of their partner’s true self and the maturity to be open to the other’s needs and wants. Once they began to work with the therapist, they were able to discover their true selves and understand their behaviors towards one another. You were correct in saying that once they were able to build on their emotional connections with one another, their intimacy was no longer an issue.

Especially within a society such as ours, which distorts love into lust, the ability to recognize and display the gift of love is essential. Selfish love, which is so inherent to humanity, inhibits God from acting in our lives, blinding us from experiencing His presence and eternal joy. It is so easy to look for pleasure and love in self satisfaction. However, the path to lasting happiness is not found through instant gratifications, but in the grueling practice of living a life full of

Encouragement plays a significant role in my success. Without encouragement, the achievement won't come true. Juliet Ferking, the author of "A Drive to Achieve the Extraordinary" from This I Believe: Life Lessons, tells her story about

God said: "It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him" (Gen 2:18). This “man” refers to the human person, and not just to the male.

Our relationships with other people give a strong sense of what our relationship with God is like. How we interact with people on a daily basis and the relationships that we build goes a long way in showing just how we feel about them. In Romans 1:10 we see that Paul wanted desperately to come to Rome to teach, to interact, to fellowship, and build relationships with the Christians that were there. Just as God wants a personal relationship with His creation we all feel a deep need for relationships with each other. It was not meant for man to go through life on his own without being able to interact with each other. We see the genuine love that Paul displayed toward the people and churches throughout his epistles and it should make us want to have an even stronger relationship with our Creator.

Summary: Dr. Hawkins has done a wonderful job in presenting the essential elements of what it takes to have a Biblically sound intimate and committed marriage. In Strengthening Marital Intimacy (1991), he has captured the two foundational truths, intimacy and commitment, makes a good marriage into a great marriage. It is not enough to know the Word of God intellectually there must be a real surrendering to the sovereign will of God. To do it will transform a life of commitment to God and to the marriage. The key concepts presented in this book cover marital intimacy, commitment, wisdom, reality, God’s sovereignty, the person, sexuality,

"The pursuit of basic human needs for companionship, affirmations, affections, solace, and love won their hearts and guided their being despite their caution," Tera Hunter said with regard to the difficulties that the African Americans faced. This idea resonates with me most as I ponder marriage and democracy so that is what I wish to focus on. In the very beginning, as this universe was being spoken into existence by God, we read that after God had made man, he proceeded to make a companion for him saying, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him [Genesis 2:18]." Man was not created to live alone, but to live in communion with his Creator and with other humans. A comparison could be drawn then;

Currently, the level of intimacy is much greater than at any other time in my life, the amount of personal time comes from consciously altering my thoughts to dwell on Jesus.

I feel that my personal relationship with God is the most important thing in my life. I think that we as a church need to focus more on helping others achieve that intimate relationship with their Lord. An article by Edward Collins Vacek examines the three

This group is designed for those who wish to discover the truth to which God sees things (privately) behind closed doors. All sexual questions are welcome to be asked, discussed and debated without any reservations or shame.

This article presents the role of partner responsiveness in experiencing sexual desire in partners. The absence of sexual desire is considered an important index of disrupted relational harmony. This study examines the impact of partner responsiveness and intimacy building behavior and the effect on instilling desire for one’s partner. This article provides excellent background research and fundamental information on relationship factors that affect desire within a couple.

Knowing one’s self is essential to bringing wholeness and health to the union. “Physical and emotional self-awareness are crucial elements in satisfying sexual experiences” (Morehouse, 2001; Schwartz, 2003). After one has embraced the gift of sex, one still must be whole, healthy and know one’s self well. The individual who is confident and comfortable with self is ready to be united in marriage and experience the enjoyment of all aspects of the gift of marriage with another. Any attempt to become one with another apart from wholeness will most likely result in the unrealistic expectation of completeness coming from one’s spouse. This is idolatry, because it is Christ who completes us and giving that responsibility to someone else is wrong. “And you are complete in him, which is the head of all principality and power” (Colossians 2:10). Self-awareness is a personal responsibility to God, self, and one’s mate. While I know myself well, I still discovered that I can know myself better as self evolves as one experiences seasons of life.

Because the Lord values the relationship of a man and his wife, he also gives us instructions as to how husbands and wives are to treat each other through Paul’s teaching in Ephesians 5:21-33. The subject of Paul 's teaching in Ephesians 5:21-33 is that of submission in the context of marriage. Paul 's instructions here create a clash with the beliefs and practices of our culture today. However, a closer study of what God really intended sheds much light on what is really being taught in this hard saying of Paul. Paul is talking about the different roles the both the husband and wife has with each other in relationship with their relationship with Christ.

Sharon Olds’ poem “Sex Without Love” wonders at the ability for two people to have sex and not involve emotions or pretenses of love. The poem argues that it is better to have sex without love under the premise that love is a false savior for people, and everyone is all alone anyhow. In other words, the claim is that personal interactions do not serve a purpose other than being a distraction, and they will inevitably end. However, the notion that attachment and love are false hopes for people and each person is all alone does not account for the inevitability of human interactions and the underlying importance of relationships. While the poem does not give its definition of being alone, complete isolation is virtually impossible and leads

Although the research in this study does not indicate any significant associations between distress and the use of strength reminders, level of education and number of children the mother has to care for. The possibility exists that the participants understanding of strengths can be misinterpreted as strategies to prevent distress. As literature indicates that wellbeing is positively influenced by personal strengths and resources (Bos et al.,