Good Or Bad Against Same Sex Parents

There is a 50 percent rate that a heterosexual parents become a parent accidentally.(“Pappas2”) Supporting the idea that homosexual people would obviously be further committed, since they know when they are actually ready to become parents and it is impossible they would have a child accidentally. The majority of people argues that having gay parents causes children to be bullied, but kids also get bullied whether they have homosexual parents or not. Maybe for different reasons, but nonetheless still bullying. If anything, it is a society that can make having gay parents a disadvantage. Their parents’ gender isn’t what bothers the kid, but the way that society might see it is what affects them negatively.() If everyone was more supportive of gay adoption, everything wouldn’t be as hard as is right now for these people. According to Goldberg, a psychologist at Clark University in Massachusetts, people that were raised by gay and lesbian parents”feel like their perspectives on family, on gender, and on sexuality have largely been enhanced by growing up with gay parents.” (“Pappas3”) Many people that have been raised by gay couples can agree with this because it is true. They don't judge so

Are kids at a disadvantage growing up in a household with same sex parents? Do they grow up developmentally delayed, psychosocially impaired, or morally confused? Is the traditional one mother, one father custom the best way to raise our children and does the role of each parent, mother and father, truly have an impact on the way the child holistically is risen to become. These are all questions that most homosexual couples, orphanage/adoption centers, surrogate mothers, egg donors, social workers, and the general lay people think of. It is quite normal for the general public to have concerns about homosexual couples adapting or having children for it was not till recently till that United States and other countries started excepting homosexual couples as the norm. A plethora of studies and research projects have been and are continuing to be conducted by a

"Children of Lesbian and Gay Parents Are Not More Likely to Have Problems." Gay Parenting, edited by Beth Rosenthal, Greenhaven Press, 2013. Opposing Viewpoints. Opposing Viewpoints in Context, link.galegroup.com/apps/doc/EJ3010844207/OVIC?u=lom_accessmich&xid=8e6207d4. Accessed 7 Mar. 2017. Originally published as "A Conversation with Psychologist Abbie Goldberg: What Studies Show About Gay/Lesbian Parenting," Daily Hampshire Gazette, 22 July 2009.

“There is no scientific basis for concluding that lesbian mothers or gay fathers are unfit parents on the basis of their sexual orientation” (Armesto, 2002; Patterson, 2000; Tasker & Golombok, 1997). Ever since gay and lesbians have been parents people have questioned how the parents’ sexual orientation impacts child and adolescent development. Opponents of same-sex parents argue that sexual orientation has a negative impact on child development, while proponents argue that the relationship between the child and parents is what matters. National, state, and local governments are faced with the controversy surrounding same-sex parenting. People have very strong opinions on both sides of the argument. Children and adolescents who are under lesbian or gay parents have normal child development compared with children under heterosexual parents. These children develop normally socially, mentally, and academically.

According to an organization called Lifelong Adoptions who are registered with the Registry of California Adoption Facilitators, “Many gay couples form relationships that are more stable than many heterosexual marriages.” (LGBT 1). Which allow the couple to be together longer and have a longer life together. The more stable relationship will be a good relationship model for the child because studies have shown the type of partner children tend to grow up having are based around the stability of their parents relationship. Again according to the organization Lifelong Adoptions who are registered with the Registry of California Adoption Facilitators, “Children of gay parents report they felt less hindered by gender stereotypes than they might have been if raised in a heterosexual household.” (LGBT 1). Being tied down to gender stereotypes and not letting a child explore their curiosity is a difficult topic to get around for most, because many people have encountered sayings like,“Boys can’t wear pink.” or “You throw like a girl.”. Without those sayings being said by the ones the children are being raised by, they feel less likely to have limitations exploring who they are and what they want to be growing

(Chiles) This study confirms that parenting by same-sex couples is the same or better than heterosexual homes and are more welcoming and ready to provide safety to children in contrast what other people say. Some people argue that children raised in a same-sex home can cause psychological damage but “high-risk children adopted from foster care do equally well when placed with gay, lesbian or heterosexual parents, UCLA psychologists report in the first multi-year study of children adopted by these three groups of parents.”(Wolpert). These studies also confirm that same-sex couples are indeed doing well raising children. No matter what gender or sexual preference, everyone should be equally treated and have same rights as anybody else. It hasn’t been proven that same-sex parents affect the development of a child’s life, in contrast, they have the opportunity to grow up in a home surrounded by the values of compassion and love. Question is, shouldn’t the main issue be what the best interest of the child is? When evaluating a potential person as a parent the main thing should be if the person is caring, stable and devoted not the individual’s sexual orientation. Homosexual’s parental

There are so many other arguments surrounding gay parenting that challenge the ethics of the topic, such as religion, practicality, or morality. Each question concerning it just adds a new one. Assertions like “God does not approve of this”, “it is simply not right”, or “is it even possible for gay parents to raise a family” are commonly brought up. Change tends to produce fear and unacceptance. For example, questions such as whether or not there is a God coming face to face with another widely-debated topic will undoubtedly lead to disagreements. The question is whether or not we can learn to accept the

There is always a debate going on within the LGBTQ+ community. One conflict of interests questions whether or not same-sex couples should be allowed to raise children. People are claiming that development is being affected by the young who are raised by a gay, lesbian, or bisexual couple. Americans should start worrying about their own children. Those who are brought up with two mommies or two daddies are not being affected in any way and should be treated no differently than those with parents of the opposite gender.

Paul Sullins, a Catholic sociology teacher, claimed that children of same-sex couples “were at over twice the risk of depression compared to persons raised by man-woman parents.” He also concluded that the children were more likely to be suicidal or have anxiety. These conclusions have been widely used as proof that gay parenting negatively affects children and therefore should not be allowed. But Sullins’ reports and the similar claims by homosexual adoption critics can be proven false. In Sullins’ specific case, his research was declared as invalid. This study was posted in a journal without any editors to view the material, and the study only used 20 children with no information provided on their background, such as how long they were raised by their homosexual parents (Frank). Not only has the credibility of the study been taken away, but the information presented has conflicted with various national studies. Research from the American Academy of Pediatrics stresses that most children of homosexual parents have seen their biological parents’ divorce, so their physiological state must be understood in that context (Perrin). This means that the emotional and mental health issues connected to gay parenting does not necessarily connect to the parenting, and

Children would be lacking fatherhood or motherhood, fatherhood with two lesbian mothers, and motherhood if two gay fathers. These kids raised up without a father are 4 times more likely to live in poverty as adults. Having a father can reduce behavioral problems in boys and psychological problems in girls. Children that grow up in a father-mother-family have a better chance to thrive - mentally, physically, and psychologically - in life. Children who live in gay families, have a bigger chance to have psychiatric disorders due to experimenting with their desires at a younger age while children raised in father-mother-family is proven to have a higher cognitive level and a lower chance of have delinquency, (normally younger people) showing or characterized by a committing a crime, mainly minor crimes. As you can see, homosexuality is against the Bible and Quran, homosexuals leave negative affects on children, and fatherless/motherless homes have negative effects on

The LGBT community has taken huge steps in recent years, with gay marriage being legalized in 2015, and in 2016 gay adoption is legal in all 50 states. There was even a poll done that showed from 1999 to 2006 the favor for gay adoption raised by 8 percent (Gilfoyle). Many still make the assumption that an LGBT parent is a bad or unfit parent; a good example being in when Sharon Bottoms had her son taken away in 1993 because of her sexuality (Ayres Jr). Being a part of the LGBT community does not make someone an ill-equipped parent because children with LGBT parents are just as intelligent and have as good an academic record as children of heterosexual parents, they are just as psychologically stable and well balanced with the same emotional problems as children with heterosexual parents with no studies having been able to prove that one type of family is better than the other.

. So now the real question emerges: Is parental guidance by two parents of thesame sex really more harmful to a child¶s development than no parental guidance at all? In someminds the answer ³NO´ flashes in bright, blinking lights however, there are many, including themajority of Americans, who disagree. Laws banning adoption by gay and lesbian couples exist

Gay parents are facing discrimination because of their sexual orientation. Twenty-two states currently allow single gays to adopt and 21 states currently allow gay and lesbian couples to adopt in the U.S. (Mallon, 2007, p. 6). The ability of gay couples to rear a child should not be denied only because they are gay. Homosexuals may be looked down upon by society, but they still are humans and have morals. These morals they possess, may influence a child more than those morals taught to a child with heterosexual parents. All over the world, children suffer in families consisting of alcoholics, drug abusers, and sexual abusers (Powell, 2007, p.1). It is not possible that these environments are safer than what would be provided by homosexual

Raising children has always been a popular topic all around the world and many question the parenting techniques that adults may use when raising a child and if their techniques will prove to be successful in the future. When thinking of a traditional way of raising children one may see a mother and a father raising their children together and with perfection. However society has adapted a new meaning of family. Same-sex couples now have the right to love each other legally and many associate the word “love” with their children. One may question whether a same sex couple will have the ability to raise children the same way heterosexual couples raise their children. What separates heterosexual couples from homosexual couple’s ability to parent? How is it that those raised by same-sex couples turnout to be the most accepting and loving people?

Nowadays, the question of gay marriage is one of the most heated and controversial. Over the years, same-sex couples are fighting for the legal recognition for their marriages and their right as parents. Parenthood is one of the most valuable experiences in a human life. After finding a partner, it is natural for people to want to raise children. Homosexual parent are the same in ability and commitment to raised healthy children. It would be a big step for improvement in our society to provide necessary support and rights for same-sex couples and their children.