Help Me Nigga Character Analysis

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In Kevin Hart’s stand-up comedy show titled “Let Me Explain – Witness the Rise of A Legend,” Kevin Hart goes on a comedic rant about the changes he went thru doing his marriage and before, during and after his divorce that led him to become the person he is today. One comedy bit that stood out to me the most was entitled “Help Me Nigga.” Kevin begins this bit by stating that cheating was the reason why his marriage failed, but immediately after stating this turns around and states that is was actually “lying about cheating” that was the reason why his marriage didn’t last. He proceeds to give examples of the many times that he lied about when he was cheating – even bringing his best friend into the web of lies and somehow always getting…show more content…
According to the article “Emotional Detachment in Relationships,” by Michael Schreiner, emotional detachment is more common among males than women where a man tends to shut down, stop talking and distance himself when there is a difficult conflict situation going on with no resolution in sight. One way to get through this emotional detachment is to not poke or prod your partner to force them to become emotionally attached, but rather give them some space and time to let things calm down. Poking and prodding has been found to have an adverse effect on what you are trying to accomplish. Physical disconnect ranks high as one of the reasons why relationships fail as well. Your significant other is sexually dissatisfied and instead of dealing with the issue with their mate, they are tempted to wander and go outside the relationship to satisfy those urges. One solution to conquer and overcome this issue is to establish an open line of communication so that your partner can be aware of your wants and desires and hopefully help in fulfilling them for you.
In addition, relationships often fail because either one or both partners are not being honest with themselves, their mate or with the relationship as a whole. A lot of times people get involved with one another and assume that what they want and desire out of a relationship is the same thing that their partner wants as well. This could be anything from wanting to be in a monogamous relationship and not knowing that the

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