Love, Betrayal, Bonds; Otherwise known as High School High School can be one of the best things in your life or the worst thing ever, as I came to find out due to experiences. At first high school seems like a fresh start, especially as a freshman. However, once you become a sophomore your reputation has been written. You are defined by your love life, friendships, and other activities. Yet, some people manage to hide their true selves and actions; additionally they only allow certain aspects of their life to be known. When I first entered high school love really didn’t affect me, ironically this year it did. The first stages of relationships are great as I’ve experienced. For me it was all bubbly, exciting, cute, and fresh. However, after that it becomes stressful, complicated, dysfunctional, and more. Through many experiences I have developed a love, hate relationship with love. Through these experiences I’ve learned that love can thrive or it can end due to people, actions, and words. Personally, love has taken a role in my life which had been both good and bad. Experiences such as the conversations, hugs, laughs, time spent together, personal secrets being revealed causes me to fight for my relationship. Nonetheless, things such as rumors of her kissing someone else, which I found out weren’t true, cause’s problems. Throughout all my problems I have to ask myself “Is love really worth the struggle?” This leads to internal conflict within me as I question
Love should be born and live in fields, just like wild flowers. Love needs to be nurtured by water, with no concern about where and when the next rainfall will take place. Love needs to allow nature to take its course and trust in the sustenance that its surrounding provides. However, love refuses to take the easy path. Instead, love decides to live in kitchens alongside irritated cooks, dirty walls and screaming infants with impatient mothers. Clearly, love would be better off without concerns, growing in a field like an iris, patiently waiting for the next rainfall. However, love chooses to exist in chaotic environments filled with discontent and discord.
I think I speak for many people when I say high school is a critical point in one’s life. Coming into high school, things seemed to be tightly-knitted between my peers and I; those of us who had just
As we go on in life we face many challenges and new situations that we deal with. A new situation that most people deal with is college and all the changes that come along with it. What many people don't realize is that high school, in many ways, is similar and differrent from college. Not only are people changing but the surroundings and work change as well. There are some things that seem to never change such as some work and people.
High School is a time when many teenagers get into trouble and have many conflicts and struggles. Without all of the struggles, high school is supposed to be four terrific years. There are many struggles for teens like peer pressure, managing your time, fitting in, and many more. Most high schoolers will get pressured by their peers at some point and can cause some serious problems. About fifty-five percent of students play a high school sport on top of having a job, keeping your grades up, and just overall having fun, which can be very hard to do. During High school, students are going to want to not be themselves and want to fit in without being judged by their peers. High school should be a time for you to have some great years in your
High School culture has changed since the “old days.” Students from all grades are not only striving for academic success, but also participate in many extracurricular activities as outside forces continue to impact social life. With this comes the typical struggles of students figuring out who they are, and what kind of person they want to become as college becomes a daunting factor.
High school High school is a very crucial part of everybody’s life filled with many learning moments and also times that most would like to never redo. This being said we all go through this time and we can all relate to the stereotypes that come along with high school. Some were on the top and others were on the bottom, but everyone had their specific place.
Entering high school from your nearby middle school, there’s going to be a handful of people. There’s going to be the ones you are confident you’re going to talk, laugh, and continue to make memories with, the ones you doubt you’ll ever speak to, and ones you have yet to ever meet. Something I learned quickly, is that there’s so many people and your connections with them change constantly and they can change you.
“True love is hard to find.” “Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”. These words have been told to and heard from family, friends, co-workers and even words in a poem. (A.C. Bradley). These words are said to someone to comfort and express sympathy and understanding to one that is having a relationship issues. Only a lucky few have found true love the very first time love has entered the into their space, some have managed to remain married over forty years or more. Life’s dilemmas interfere with true love from entering the lives of the people that love has touched. Parents protecting their children, worrying about what other think, love not being reciprocated, fell in love too young, self-esteem too low, looking for
“Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings” (psychologytoday.com). Everyone has had at least one relationship in their lifetime filled with fervor and jubilation. In fact, it typically starts at birth with a loving family ready to endure their cheerful child. Since it is different for everyone, the next amorous relationship could lie within anything from friendly relationship to a romantic one. The wondrous emotions that are felt are something people search for forever, but not everyone encounters every kind of relationship there is.
At first glance high school seems to be a fun and relaxed time. A time that you get to hang out with friends and participate in extracurricular activities. Some of your most treasured memories will be made in high school. However, high school is a cruel and unforgiving place. In high school individuals get judged by their appearance, the way they act, and who they hang out with.
Love is said to be the greatest human experience in which mankind are privilege to partake in. To love can be a wondrous experience filling life with bliss and other strong emotions. Some people believe to love is to be alive and be able to see the good in the world and others. The purpose of this paper is to examine and find a better understanding of what is love, to explore what people believe love to be, and what lies surround the perception of love and to explore and expose what the meaning true love is or at the very least the authors understanding of the perception of love. In addition to exploring the concept, deception and the truth of love,
After reading selections of “Love 2.0”, by Barbara Fredrickson she makes it apparent that there is more to love then what we see it as. There is a science behind love that cannot be changed, it gives it a meaning and allows
When people hear the term “loving” the first thing that pops into their minds is a relationship. Essentially, they aren’t wrong, but relationships don’t have to be solely romantic. Acting as a loving person doesn’t have to be tied to a romantic connotation, in fact, the act of becoming a loving individual as a Prep grad at grad usually centers around being a loving individual in the eyes of friends, family, and most importantly, loving yourself. Much of the confusion surrounding the high-school setting that plagues incoming freshman year after year is learning how to act in front of a relatively new community. At least for me, the majority of depictions of high-school life on popular mediums such as television shows and movies horrified me as a child. High-school seemed like an environment filled with rampant drug use, drinking, and unwarranted fighting about seemingly useless things. I specifically remember staying up late one night while I was in sixth grade and watching the Owen Wilson movie, “Drillbit Taylor” in which three bullied students in high-school hired a body guard in order to protect themselves from other students. This movie completely terrified me as I wondered if I too would be physically bullied for no reason in high-school. Now of course most of the things depicted in mainstream media about high-schools are
Everyone at least once in their life has experienced love, whether it is from being in love or being loved. But, what is love? What can we learn from it? Even though Merriam-Webster dictionary simple definition of love is “a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person”, there are multiple meanings to this strong word. We may not know a lot about love, but we can get learn a lot from Ariel Sabar’s Heart of the City. A book that tells us the love stories of nine couples from the 1940s to the 2000s that met in the city of New York. The author’s inspiration of the book is from the romance of his own parents, who met at a park in New York. The main purpose of the book is to see how areas like public spaces can affect interaction with one another and the chances of meeting. After reading these stories, I believe it teaches us that love takes patience, and that love can cause a broken heart.
Love can prove to be the most beautiful emotion out of all that can help one self or another evolve and bloom the pedals of their personalities and/or mindset that would leave the sweet scent of Romeo and Juliet. Or love can prove to be a fallout that would aide in the shattering or destruction of oneself or another which would leave a stench of The Great Gatsby. Personally, I feel that love should be a trigger that sets off a growth in oneself. The growth should be a positive force that evolves, teaches, and connects you a little more to the center of your personality. It shouldn’t have a negative impact that make you deviate from the main attribute that makes you special as an individual. An example of this is the effect on Jo March after