“Home Burial”
1. Is the husband insensitive and indifferent to his wife’s grief? Has Frost invited us to sympathize with one character more than with the other?
Indeed, the husband behaves in a very indifferent and insensitive way towards his wife in dealing with their child’s loss. I believe that Frost has invited us to sympathize with both husband and wife but at different levels of understanding because both have different ways to deal with grief. In other words, what society expects as far as the ways in which woman are expected to react when it comes to losing a child, is totally different to the way man are expected to. For example, women tend to be more sensitive and emotional while men are seen as emotionally stronger and
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Furthermore, is almost as if with the splitting of the iambic pentameter and the syllables used the wife manifests the sadness, bitterness, and resentment that she has allowed herself to grow inside of her. Frost breaks the sentences to make more vivid the broken marriage, as well as the broken dialogue in which the couple engages in. In this manner Frost achieves his purpose of transferring the reader into the world of these broken and hurting couple. 4. Is the conflict resolved at the conclusion of the poem? Do you think the husband and wife will overcome and wife will overcome their difference?
This drama clearly lacks closure. It does not seem to have resolved at the conclusion of the poem. In other words, the poem ends with lines “Where do you mean to go? First tell me that. I’ll follow and bring you back by force. I will!-“(lines 119, 120). The word “by force” gives the reader a sense that conflict and denial is still present between the couple. Much so that if the husband had to utter those words to his distress wife, then clearly he feels as if he is the reason she is leaving the household and nothing else. On the contrary, the wife seems to be dealing with a much more in depth issue, one which the husband may never fully comprehend, the grave of her child.
I do not believe that the couple will ever overcome their differences while living in that house where the child’s grave can be seen from their window. The constant reminder and fear which the scene
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The father’s way of dealing with his inner issues is reflected by the way he distracts himself with hobbies of the women he loves. This illustrates how a sudden tragedy can influence someone’s lifestyle. In fact, before his first wife passed away he showed a lot of interest in art and when she died he was lost and devastated ,” (…) after mom died, my sister and I used to worry about his living alone. And he was lonely.We knew that after putting in his usual twelve-hours workday, he would return to the empty house (...) then read medical journals until it was time to go to sleep.”(16). This implies that
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Similarly, in The Wife’s Lament, she mourns for her husband who became separated with her because of exile. She also forces herself to endure the pain –“If ever anyone should feel anguish, harsh pain at heart, she should put on a happy appearance while enduring endless sorrow…” (line 42-45). She stated: “ A happy pair we had promised each other, that death alone would ever divide us, and nothing else” (line 21-23), but “All that is changed; our nearness once is now as though it never had
The mother's road to finding closure over her son's death is much longer than her husband's. Her feelings throughout the poem are of
Conversely, the rest of the poem, “ If ought she missed in her new day, of amplitude, or awe –or first prospective – or the gold in using wear away, It lay unmentioned – as the sea develop pearl, and weed, but to himself – be known the fathoms they abide—“ the dictionary refers to “amplitude” as an extreme or phenomenon and the word “awe” as wonder, and as it refers to “prospective” as something expected to come about, like being a future mother. The words helped understand the woman’s losses and gains of marriage. Nevertheless, normal progress of a typical wife seen after a length of time.
In "A Sorrowful Woman" the wife is depressed with her life, so much so, "The sight of them made her so sad and sick she did not want to see them ever again"(p.1). This wife and mother has come to detest her life, the sight of her family,
“Divorce”, hinges on a metaphor that relates to this couple as concerned with flatware. The two verses, describe both the association of the two people, for example the two lines together represents their marriage and the two verses apart represent separation, it represents the couple going through a divorce. The second line “now tined forks/” enjambs onto the second section which is the third line. “Across a granite table,” making the reader feel the emotional and real gap between the forks/people and leaving them to wait on the hardness and coldness of the granite. He even went as far as to split the entire poem in two to instill the impression of separation. The shortness of the poem is equivocalness. It implies the short speech and quietness that can live between a divorcing couple as well as the decrease of them talking to one another. They now only speak to each other through their lawyers.
The next couple of lines portray the idea that it is only through the mother that the father and son are united. In life, her presence and assurances that they are alike linked them, and once she is gone, there is little to bring them together except their shared grief, which as they are so emotionally divided they find impossible to communicate.
Shabo and Shukumar gives up everything they build after the death of the baby the role of house was reverse, Shabo became independent and driven, while Shukumar became passive and domestic. Until the temporary of the electricity which brings them back to normal. The only thing that keeps them coming back was the food. Each night Shukumar would cook as a reminder of what Shabo uses to do. Food represent love, still which was not enough to keep them together. In the end, alienation and lack of communication destroy their marriage.
In the end, a lesson that can be learned from the poem and song is that no matter what, in an affair the reward is never worth the stress that comes with
In several lines Frost carefully chooses loaded language that doubles as alliteration to further the poetic mastery in the poem and appeal to the reader. In addition to repeating the word “whispered” (3) on several occasions, Frost crafts a line with another word “well” in that same line to further appeal to the reader. Another example of Frost’s use of alliteration occurs later in the work, “To the earnest love that laid” (10). The words “love” (10) and “laid” (10) both appeal to the emotions of the reader and the alliteration in the line makes for a smooth and flowing reading of the
In both pieces she wishes to be detached from love and responsibility, yet as the poem progresses, she has a change of heart, almost an epiphany.
He describes the love he feels towards her and her love towards him. He gets more excited and happy as the poem goes on. “She’ll run upstairs through the decaying porch burning with love and happiness." (453, Yevtushenko). Although things have changed and gotten old, she still burns with love at the idea of seeing him. He continues on, getting more heartfelt and emotional. He describes what happens when they finally embraced. “She’ll run dripping upstairs, she won’t knock, will take my head in her hands.” (453, Yevtushenko). His lover didn’t even bother covering herself from the rain when she ran in because she was too excited to see him after so long. He explains that only she understands him. He does not worry about how much he has changed over the years, he believes that even if they had changed, they would still love each other regardless. “Will understand my fears, observe my changes.” (453, Yevtushenko). He has absolute love and trust in her, and rests his entire entity with