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How Did Gertrude Decide To Get Married To Walter Morel's Wife

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At this point, the reader is compelled to question why Gertrude chooses to be in wedlock rather than just breaking away and doing what she wanted to do before. The answer is sort of a mixture. She stays married to Walter Morel because the cruel Victorian era would not let her live with the stigma of a divorcee and also because she has enough integrity to follow through with her decision of marrying a man completely her polar opposite. Of course it can also be either one of the two. If one considers the first option as the truth, then Gertrude really is a pawn in the hands of society. However, if the second option is true, then it is she herself who chose this for herself. Either way, it does not matter. Even if she did have the option of divorce …show more content…

Which brings us down to the parents’ relationships with their children, or more accurately their sons since Annie is almost a mere shadow in their lives. Morel’s way to loving his children is appropriately hindered by his wife. This may seem like a harsh statement but it is not untrue, because Morel does try his best to get close to his children but the little ones are so attached to their mother so as to actually become extensions of her and so, generally feel uncomfortable around their father and at some points, actually loathe him. Morel’s natural ruthlessness manifests in the form of unprovoked rages and Lawrence explains this ‘recklessness’ as ‘a man’s revenge on his woman’ because it pains him to see himself devalued so in his wife’s eyes and so ‘he will risk destroying himself to deprive her altogether’ (Lawrence, 181). Morel ruins his relationship with his children because …show more content…

This is exactly what happens to Paul and William, who are so completely immersed in their mother’s influence that having a proper, healthy relationship is a mean feat. With both her boys, Gertrude is a rather aloof but oddly caring mother who is more like a sort of significant other than a mother. One can say this because she is not the provider of motherly warmth that a run-of-the-mill mother is, but manages to be the central point in her sons’ lives nonetheless. She believes that fate has left her with nothing but her children to seek solace in and so she proceeds to do just that, manipulating their lives and feelings, either consciously or unconsciously since an early age, as evident in her decision to leave the fair early despite her son’s protests, which makes him internally guilty. She does the same to Paul too, when he begins courting Miriam, showing her displeasure in her silence. However, the two boys do not make the same choices and one pays for this with his life. William is a sort of wayward child, who is temporarily upset but rallies soon after. Paul tends to submit quickly and is an easy target for his mother’s whims. Ironically, William dies after too much insubordination to his mother, namely getting a girlfriend and then remaining steadfast in his decision to marry her despite her flaws. William chooses his life for

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