How Does Darcy Change In Pride And Prejudice

Before his transformation, Darcy exhibits arrogance and pride. Darcy’s behavior at the Meryton ball, in particular, reflects his arrogance. Although many people at the ball initially esteemed Darcy for his wealth, “his manners gave a disgust which turned the tide of his popularity.” (14). More specifically, his manners contained characteristics that were “haughty…and fastidious” and “were not inviting.” (21). Because Darcy’s pride restricts him to dance a mere four times, he further insults the Meryton assembly by failing to interact socially (154). While at a ball at Bingley’s estate, Netherfield, Darcy reveals his arrogance through his rude behavior toward Mr. Collins, a cousin of the Bennets who has close ties to Darcy’s aunt, Lady Catherine de Bourgh. Although Collins speaks to Darcy without proper introduction, Darcy does not conceal his arrogance and shows irritation “at being so addressed.” (92) Entertaining Collins with only “distant civility,” Darcy’s rudeness increases as his patience with Collin’s speech diminishes, eventually leaving Collins with only a slight bow (92).

His sense of her inferiority–of its being a degradation of–the family obstacles which judgment had always opposed to inclinations were dwelt on...” (Austen 12). These words reflect Mr. Darcy’s excessive pride and heightened awareness of social status, while inducing him to recount all the ways in which he and Elizabeth are an illogical union, rather than relaying anything complimentary. In response to this insult-ridden proposal, Elizabeth proclaims that if he had acted in a more “gentlemanlike manner,” she would have been more inclined to express sympathy following her rejection of his advances. Despite Elizabeth’s clear message that she will not observe his insensitive words in submission, Mr. Darcy endures in the conviction that his prideful manners toward Elizabeth are well-justified and merely detail the truthful, adverse nature of her inferior social standing with the utmost sincerity.

Wickham and Darcy have first impressions that do not show who they truly are. At first, Darcy was the talk of ball for he was handsome and made 10,000 a year. Some said that he was even better looking than Mr. Bingley. This initially good impression, turned sour because “his manners gave a disgust which turned the tide of his popularity for he was discovered to be proud, and above being pleased”(Austen 6). Darcy furthers this impression by being away from the party and refusing to dance with Elizabeth. His reason for denying her dance was that “she is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me”(Austen 7). Wickham first impression is, at first, quite similar to Darcy’s. Girls in Hertfordshire are talking about a new soldier that they have seen in town and how handsome he is. Wickham is then invited to dinner in Meryton and when he enters he immediately stands out, much like Darcy. Elizabeth, by just looking at him, believes that Wickham is superior in “person, countenance,

As a matter of fact, before they had even met, they had heard things about each other that made them judge right away. [Elizabeth] - “And your defect is a propensity to hate everybody." [Darcy] - "And yours," he replied with a smile, "is willfully to misunderstand them." (11) Also, at the Netherfield Ball, Darcy and Lizzy distract themselves from the others with some small talk with each other while dancing. While they are dancing for this first time, Darcy insults Lizzy by telling Mr. Bingley (while she is right next to them), “She is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me, and I am in no humor at present to give consequence to young ladies who are slighted by other men (13).”

Darcy’s comment at the first ball that Miss Elizabeth Bennet "is tolerable I suppose but not handsome enough to tempt me",(Page number) he begins to notice that her face "was rendered uncommonly intelligent by the beautiful expression of her dark eyes.... her figure light and pleasing" (28), and her manners uniquely playful.

pompousness and arrogance, when they are in reality the result of shyness and a certain social

Since he has a large fortune to inherit, he is therefore allowed certain amount of social pride, even if it is disagreeable. His wealth seems to justify his low, prideful behavior in society. But, Elizabeth's attitude toward Darcy changes dramatically, when she overhears him talking negatively about her to his friend Bingley, "I am in no humour at present to give consequence to young ladies who are slighted by other men."

Following Darcy’s original dismissal of “tolerable” Elizabeth, he begins to fall in love with her when she visits Netherfield, much to his own disapproval (Austen 9). Her lower social class and mortifying family makes her a less than desirable mate, so he tirelessly attempts to avoid his feelings by avoiding her whenever possible. “You should take it as a compliment that I’m talking to everyone here but you” reflects such ignoring by Darcy of Elizabeth, since his rude demeanor is simply a defense mechanism for his feelings (Swift). When Darcy eventually gives in and proposes to Elizabeth, he admits, “In vain I have struggled. It will not do.

“but without any symptom of peculiar regard”, he tried to find a way to protect his friend without thinking this would hurt Jane. (p.192) Mr. Darcy shows his remorse for what he accidently did to Jane by stating “I must be in error” which is very different from his normal arrogant and somewhat narcissistic

When Elizabeth flatly turns down his marriage proposal, it startles Darcy into realizing just how arrogant and assuming he has been. Soon, there is reconciliation between Darcy and Elizabeth where each admits how much they have changed as a result of their earlier encounters. An example of this is when Lady Catherine visits to insure the marriage between Darcy and Elizabeth. She came in order to prevent it, but when Darcy hears the manner in which Elizabeth answered Lady Catherine, he realizes that Elizabeth regards him differently. He saw that her attitude of him had changed which prompted him to make his marriage proposal. Thus, we can now see that Darcy and Elizabeth both have balance in their relationship because they are able to reflect against each other and each is capable of undergoing a change. In the end, Darcy is willing to marry into a family with three silly daughters, an embarrassing mother and is willing to make Wickham his brother-in-law .It may be that he is more easygoing about other people's faults because he is now aware of his own.

Elizabeth thinks of Darcy as being “the proudest, most disagreeable man in the world” (15). After Darcy discomfits Elizabeth, “She is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me” (13), she herself becomes prideful and prejudiced against him. Prejudice also is an issue for Darcy because he dislikes Elizabeth in the beginning for her low social status, for being impecunious and socially inept family: “Their struggle is as much as against each other as it is against the pressure of society or family. The novel presents a balance of power not only between two characters but between two conflicting modes of judgment” (Bloom 50), but Darcy is forced to deal with his pride and prejudice when he falls in love with Elizabeth. Elizabeth rejects Darcy’s first proposal based mostly on his pride and condescension.

Darcy’s pride and his sense of superiority are considered rude and ungentlemanly behavior, and no amount of money or fine looks can save him from falling into disgrace with the people of Hertfordshire. Later, when Darcy first proposes to Elizabeth, she shocks him when she angrily exclaims that “had [he] behaved in a more gentleman-like manner” (168), then she may have felt

Darcy believes that Elizabeth is beneath him. After Mr. Bingley suggest that Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth dance, Mr. Darcy makes eye contact with Elizabeth and states, “She is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me; I am in no humour at present to give consequence to young ladies who are slighted by other men” (Chapter 3). In this quote, Darcy is saying that Elizabeth falls below his standards and he would rather not waste effort on someone no other man seems interested in. Elizabeth immediately takes offense to Mr. Darcy’s statement, and even makes fun of him for it. “She told the story, however, with great spirit among her friends; for she had a lively, playful disposition, which delighted in anything ridiculous” (Chapter 3). In other words, Elizabeth’s first impression was that Mr. Darcy was

Although Darcy's words revealed a large metamorphism in his disposition, his actions are more evident and show his true ability to change. At Mr. Darcy's introduction to the novel he is immediately described as "…haughty, reserved, and fastidious, and his manners, though well bred, were not inviting" (Austen 12). Austen introduces Darcy with all of his pretentious nature. Following the Meryton ball, Austen continues to display that unattractive nature of Darcy by comparing him to Bingley. "Darcy, on the contrary, had seen a collection of people in whom there was little beauty and no fashion, for none of whom he had felt the smallest interest, and from none received either attention or pleasure" (Austen 12). This statement reinforces the idea that Mr. Darcy is only concerned with talented women of great importance. It is Elizabeth, however, who wins his heart with her liveliness and witty remarks.

      Mr. Darcy, as one of the main characters, is for the better part of the novel a focus of the theme of pride. His pride is very obvious. It is a part of his nature and is seen in his mannerisms and in his speech. Darcy has such a high opinion of himself that he does not care what others think of him or his prideful actions. He believes that he is the best in every way possible and finds that his standing in society gives him the right to be critical of those not as perfect as he.