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How I Changed My Life

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When I was younger, I struggled with the way I looked like most people do. Society has many standards on how people should look and what is considered beautiful. I never thought that I fit into any of the categories. Because of it, I hated the way clothes fit. I hated all the little black dots on my nose. I hated how big my eyebrows were. I hated all of my stretch marks. I just hated every little piece of my body. I lost a lot of my friends because they didn’t like the way I looked. As I grew older, I learned to accept and love everything about myself. Middle school was a rough time for me. My best friend of eight years told me that she didn’t want to be friends anymore because I was fat. That crushed me. Since then, I hated going to …show more content…

There are always ideas of beauty that are coming in and going out of style. There are many outside influences on what society’s standards of beauty are. Three outside influences that are affecting societies idea of beauty are cultural norms, media, and friends and family. They way that cultural norms has played into my personal trouble, is that society has different views of what boys should look like and what girls should look like. There hasn’t been much emphasis on what boys look like until recent years. However, it is not the same for girls. There has always been opinions on what girls should look like. Girls are expected (most of the time) to have toned bodies, nice make up, perfect nails, hair done up, clear skin, and expensive clothes in American society. Guys can get ready for the day in minutes while girls can take hours. According to Margret Lawler and Elizabeth Nixon, girls talk a lot more about their appearance than boys do. Girls also pay attention and react to society’s idea about how they should look than boys do. When that happens, girls that talk about their appearance can start to have a lower body image than boys do. This idea is also reinforced by the media. In the past couple of years, celebrities like Kim Kardashian and Kylie Jenner have influenced the idea of what girl’s bodies should look like. They have flooded “Twitter” and “Instagram with their bodies and promotions of products that can “help” girls achieve their unachievable body

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