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How I Have Balanced Stability And Change

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In this paper, I will be writing about how I have balanced stability and change in my life. First, I will address my own personal view and how I describe myself in terms of my comfort with stability and change. Next, I will address my relational view with other people that I relate to in my life and how I see stability and change in these relationships. Lastly, I will address the professional aspect of a vocation and how stability and change is expressed and experienced. This will include information from the textbook called, “Systems Theory in Action: Applications to Individual, Couples, and Family Therapy” written by Shelly Smith-Acuna (2011). Smith-Acuna writes, “…systems inherently resist change and seek to maintain a certain predictable order. At the same time, systems are constantly reorganizing and transforming themselves” (p. 67). This statement holds true to my personal view. In general the majority of people like a predictable order and stability, myself include. One of the primary reasons that I rely on predictable order is because I am a mother. As a mother, it is essential to provide a consistent predictable order for my boys. The consistency helps with discipline, bedtime, school routine, and gives my boys general stability in life when they know what to expect. During the school year, a reliable pattern of the school routine schedule is developed. When summer vacation comes, I always feel lost for the first few days. The school year starts and comes to a

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