How Is Miss Emily Spiraled Out Of Control

A statistic shows that “by summer of 1863, in New Bern, N.C., only 20 of the 250 white people remaining in town were men” (Abbott). In a depletion of man, the appearance of Homer Barron is like a light to Emily’s heart. She does not mind about Homer’s origin, as long as she has a man whom can live with her. However, it is not easy to own a man in this period. Abbott states that “widowed women in their 30s faced stiff competition for available men in their age group and suffered constant reminders of their grim odds” (Abbott). This fact explains Emily’s action of poisoning her lover, Homer. She wants to keep him beside her forever. Killing Homer is the only way, she can get him away from all other women and do not lose him. Due to the effect of war on men, Emily is trying to fight over her destiny to own a man for herself, but she seems to go too far with it.

This is evidently on the grounds that the character of Homer Barron is a Yankee and Emily slaughters him. Nonetheless, it is hard to contend that Emily's inspiration in dating Homer is to slaughter him on the grounds that he is a Northerner. The most evident clarification for her eagerness to date a man outside of her social rank would be that she is essentially a forlorn lady. A more subtle, however in any case sensible, clarification for her association with Homer would be that is her method for opposing her dead father. Amid his lifetime, her dad kept her from having an "adequate" suitor. In this way, she revolts by connecting with a man her dad would have considered an outsider: a Yankee day-worker. There is truly little to propose that the story is a moral story of the Civil War other than the way that a Yankee is executed by a Southerner. Faulkner himself, in his address on the story at the University of Virginia, denies such an elucidation. He said that he accepted that an essayist is ". Excessively caught up with taking a stab at, making it impossible to make fragile living creature and-blood individuals that will stand up and cast a shadow to have sufficient energy to be conscious of all the imagery that he may put into what he does or what individuals may read into

            Emily chooses a lover that resembles her father in many ways;  Homer is big, strong, outspoken, and domineering.  Initially, the townspeople are happy to know that Emily is dating Homer.  "Of course a Grierson would not think seriously of a Northerner, a day laborer."  When they realize that Emily is serious about him, they have a change of heart.  "Miss Emily with her head high and Homer Barron with his hat cocked and a cigar in his teeth, reigns and whip in a yellow glove."  Emily does not care about the people's reaction toward her affair with Homer.  Emily's affair with a "day laborer" is an act of defiance, toward her father and perhaps, even the toward the townspeople.  She wants to show everyone that she is in control of her life and will do as she pleases.

When Miss Emily finds somebody, though, it quickly pushes her to desperation. Her relationship with Homer Barron is a result of the life and death of her father. Ironically, he is a northern, roughneck Yankee, the exact opposite of any connection a Grierson would consider. Unsuspectingly, Emily is attracted to him, which is an oddity itself considering her lack of personality and his obvious charisma, for “whenever you [hear] a lot of laughing...Homer Barron [will] be in the center of the group” (560). He is also the first man to show an interest in her without her father alive to scare him off. The town is doubtful that the pair will remain together, but Emily's attachments are extreme, as seen when she would not surrender her father's body. The circumstance exhibits how her feelings are greatly intensified towards Homer. However, he is “not a marrying man” (561). When it appears as though he will leave her, she kills him with poison. While seemingly the opposite effect of love, killing Homer is quite in line with her obsession. If he is dead and she keeps Homer all to herself, Emily will never lose him; he can never leave her. Other such details that express her extreme attachments appear as she buys him clothes and toiletries before they are even considered married. There is also the revelation at the end of the story that she has been keeping his body for over thirty years and sleeping with it, clearly demonstrating her overt desperation

It is noted in the passage that “Homer himself had remarked--he liked men, and it was known that he drank with the younger men in the Elks' Club--that he was not a marrying man” (4). First her father runs away men, then when a man finally comes around he is homosexual. One day Miss Emily goes to the druggist and says “I want arsenic” (3). It is after seeing this that the people in town started to think she was going to commit suicide (4). Homer barron leaves and returns after Miss Emily’s two cousins leave. The people in the town never see him again and they say “the one we believed would marry her … had deserted her. The body of Homer Barron was found on the bed with a piece of Miss Emily’s gray hair next to the body.

According to her father, “None of the young men were quite good enough for Miss Emily”. Her father drove away all of Emily’s suitors throughout his life. After her father’s death, Emily meets Homer Barron, a day laborer from the north, after and with hopes of potentially marrying him. The townspeople viewed Emily’s courtship with Homer as part of her downfall into insanity calling her, “Poor Emily”, viewing Homer as beneath her. Faulkner writing, "Of course a Grierson would not think seriously of a Northerner, a day laborer." Emily’s father would have also disapproved of Homer because he was a workingman and a Northerner and did not come from wealth. Homer was in town to pave the sidewalks and did not think seriously of his courtship with Emily. Homer, “…himself had remarked - he liked men, and it was known that he drank with the younger men in the Elks' Club – that he was not a marrying man’

Perhaps Miss Emily had wished it that way. Faulkner tells of her two cousins, who come at her death notice at once, the same cousins who visited when she was courting Homer Barron. It was the cousins who had been there when she was ordering men’s things, giving the town belief that Miss Emily and Homer had wed. That she had changed the proclaimed bachelor’s opinion on nuptials.

“Alive, Miss Emily had been a tradition, a duty, and a care; a sort of hereditary obligation upon the town” (Faulkner 1). Emily, a member of the town’s elite class, relied upon her father when growing up and after his death, she refused to pay her taxes, stating that her father contributed much to society. But it was evident that she didn’t pay them because of a lack of maturity - financially and socially. When she was younger she pushes herself onto Homer Barron, a Northerner with no interest in marriage. Throughout the story, Emily is conflicted over societal change, and clings to her privileged manner even after finding herself in poverty. Yet, she becomes involved with a man from a lower social class, and a Northerner as well - hinting that he has different beliefs and values. The townspeople, however, believe the relationship it too modern when there is a possibility they are having physical relations despite not being serious about marriage. The community’s inability to commit to progress, contribute to the confused Emily’s decision. In A Rose for Emily, Faulkner uses the symbolism of Emily’s house and her hair to demonstrate her emotional instability and physical deterioration, illustrating the outcome of his story.

In William Faulkner's A Rose For Emily there is more than enough evidence to determine that Miss Emily is mentally ill. Most of the clues and hints are subtle, but when they are all pieced together the puzzle becomes clear. Not saying it is clear as too what Miss Emily was suffering from, the only way to know that for certain would be if the author or narrator told us in the text. We can conclude, however, she was suffering from some form of mental illness. Miss Emily was seen as a recluse and odd, but what no one in the town knew was that she couldn't help it there was more going on with her then people could see.

Being a member of an antebellum southern aristocracy meant that she was in a family that was defined as a “planter” also known as a person owning property and twenty or more slaves. After the Civil War, the family went through another hardship. The woman and her father kept on living their lives as if they were still in the past. Her father refused to let her get married. When the woman was thirty years old, her father died. This took her by surprise. After her dad passed, the woman refused to give up his body. The town thought it was just part of her grieving process. After she finally accepted her dad’s death, she grew closer to Mr. Homer. This took the town by surprise. Homer explained to Emily that he wasn’t the marrying type. She did not like hearing those words. Emily went to town and bought arsenic from a drug dealer. Because of this, the towns people were certain she was trying to kill herself. Emily’s distant cousins came to visit because the priest’s wife had called them. Homer left for a couple of days, but then came back after the cousins had left. Emily wouldn’t talk to any of the towns people. They wouldn’t confront her given her reputation. They wanted to ask her about the awful smell that had been coming from her house and to talk to her about her taxes. At first, they said her taxes were over looked in debt to her father, but then they changed their minds and sent her notices. The woman refused to pay them! Years later Emily had

The reason the ladies of the town may be highly offended by Emily’s relationship with Homer may be due to what is said in paragraph 43, “Miss Emily with her head high and Homer Barron with his hat cocked and a cigar in his teeth, reins and a whip in a yellow glove.” (Faulkner, 43). The ladies feel this way because Homer is a working man as well as being a Northerner, they find it odd that Emily is being so kind to this man by going places with him. They are also offended mainly because Emily is trampling on what beliefs they grew up with, Emily shouldn’t be dating a poor, working man but instead a more affluent man. This claim is further backed up with this quote from Burduck, “In the eyes of these flowers of Southern femininity, Emily Grierson

Emily is destroyed by her father's over-protectiveness. He prevents her from courting anyone as "none of the young men were quite good enough for Miss Emily and such" (82). When her father dies, Emily refuses to acknowledge his death; "[W]ith nothing left, she . . . [had] to cling to that which had robbed her" (83). When she finally begins a relationship after his death, she unfortunately falls for Homer

Then she met Homer Barron the man many people were hoping she would marry but were doubtful because he was a playboy. Miss Emily was seen buying clothing for him but no one was aware that that clothing was for his future funeral. She started going crazy and the townspeople weren’t happy nor worried about her they just pitied her. She bought arsenic for rats signifying that Homer was the said “rat.” Miss Emily lost not only her self awareness but completely lost her respect for herself and anyone trying to get close to her.

She knew Homer was homosexual and still flaunted him throughout town like an accessory in trying to convince both herself and the townspeople she could move on from her father’s death. However, her relationship may have got into deep with Homer and she had to kill him to make sure he didn’t leave her side as her father did. After Emily kills Homer, “a window that has been dark was lightened and Miss Emily sat in it, the light behind her” (p.395). This image shows Emily has now become her father in a way and took dominance in her life by murdering someone else, which causes an internal self satisfaction. She keeps the corpse of Homer almost as the resemblance of a trophy for her work. Emily was wealthy woman who appeared to have it all however, she never accomplished close to anything in her life except for taking the life of Homer. The lost of her father signified the lost of herself, in an attempt to find herself emerged a dark character who became mentally and physically consumed by her pain that she was left to fight alone.

According to Burduck there are two reasons why the ladies of the town might be “highly offended” by the relationship Miss Emily has with Homer Barron (Burduck Par.3). The first reason is that the ladies find the “pre-marital relationship immoral” (Burduck Par.3). The women of the town were “proper Southern belles” (Burduck Par. 3). “Then some ladies began to say that it was a disgrace to the town and a bad example to the young people” (181). The author made it clear to the readers that they ladies from the town were disappointed by what Miss. Emily has done. The ladies are upset by the relationship because of their religious beliefs that they have. Another reason that Burduck states is that the women hate seeing Emily with a Yankee man. “Emily Grierson becomes a stain on the white gown of Southern womanhood” (Burduck Par.3).