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How Race Affects My Family

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Kinships are relationships within a family, whether they are biological or non-biological. I have different experiences with my races; the experiences can be good and bad for both. Race shapes a family and their relationships because it presents how everyone within the family can share something, it can also represent the diversity within America and how people can be treated based on one’s appearances.
My father’s side of the family is Caucasian. My brother Adam and I both obtain many characteristics from my father’s side. I am able to connect with my family and father because I hold qualities from them. My father’s side of the family shapes my relationship with them because I possess all the same characteristics and traits with everyone. …show more content…

It’s a little different on my mother’s side because of the cultural differences between my mother’s side and my father’s side. My grandfather and grandmother had five children together. My grandmother is deceased. My mother and I share many resemblances genetically but culturally as well. My family does have different characteristics, which do reflect on situations they may encounter that I am able relate to. In particular my mother’s side is definitely treated differently than from my father’s side. For example, my mother had an experience where she was in a store, she was checking out, she handed the cashier a ten dollar bill and the cashier held the bill in the air to check if it was real and treated her with complete disrespect, and as my mother was leaving she saw a white man was treated with complete respect and total opposite behavior from the cashier. My mother said she felt embarrassed and this situation made her feel bad about her ethnicity. In his story he talks about how he always felt as an outsider and people looked at him differently and treated him differently and how he was able to relate to under class workers because he knew it was because of their appearance that they had a lower income job. Rodriguez says, “Nothing else about my appearance would concern me so much as the fact that my complexion was dark.” (Pp. 271). In my mother’s …show more content…

My father and mother experience certain situations, but I experience different for myself. An example would be during high school I went to school with a large minority group, but since my complexion is lighter I was considered completely white because of my complexion. However, when I am around a larger Caucasian group I am considered the minority and treated slightly poorer because of my complexion not being completely white. I am treated differently depending on what kind of social group I am around. I am able to relate to McIntosh in White Privilege because being white does give you some advantages and give you the upper hand sometimes; however, it is determined whom I am around. Most people assume I am Hispanic because I have dark hair, dark eyes, and a tanner skin tone. I think for many people it is a natural instinct to assume what one’s ethnic background may be just upon looks. I experience this quite frequently because it may be hard for people who do not know me to determine what my ethnicity is and they may assume I am Hispanic and then treat as a minority that does not need respect or can assume I am Caucasian and then I might be treated with respect and receive more

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