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How The Kemal Family Influence The American Culture

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The Kemal family from Burma experienced many times of hardship and heartbreak throughout their journey and lives in America. As a family, they struggled to stay afloat at times, whether it be financially or culturally. Haaroon and Malak raised three daughters to become honorary Muslim women and wives. However, it was not an easy path for the family. Coming from a dictatorship, their distrust in government and people heavily influenced the children’s upbringing. The cultural struggle between what they knew and what they could become created tensions that shaped their lives in America. The father struggled to assimilate due to distrust and beliefs. He struggled to trust the American culture, especially because he did not want his daughters to lose or forget their native culture. To ensure this did not happen, the family was only allowed to speak their native language at home. This prohibited the parents from learning English, so they relied heavily on their children. This put daunting pressure on the girls because even though they were …show more content…

For immigrant families, their children might feel pulled in several directions. When families struggle with civic-political assimilation, it affects their children in the classroom. As a teacher, it is important that I educate my students while respecting their family values. However, in this family’s particular situation, the daughters might have struggled to learn the English language since they were only practicing it at school. I have experienced conferences with parents who do not speak any English, and this creates difficulties for the children because they are unable to give or get support from their parents regarding academics. As a teacher, I need to do my best to teach my students what I can without stepping on their parents’ toes. It is not my job to interfere with family values and beliefs, but it is my job to help my students

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