Essay on Human Sexuality and Gender Differences

In people’s perspective, attractiveness possess a wide variety of positive personal qualities compared to unattractive people. Result from the study on physical attractiveness stereotypes show the attractive people had the most positive ratings. For example, they are judged as less disturbed, rated as happier and more successful, and more likely to be hired after a job interview. Thus, the concept of attractiveness having a correlation between an individual’s physical appearance and his/her achievements, abilities, psychological well-being and/or other status characteristics to create a perception is

In his article, The Strategies of Finding a Mate, David M. Buss discusses the act of finding a mate and the characteristics that people are drawn to in a mate. He begins the article with a brief look at the history of mating and the theories that have previously been proposed. In particular he addressed Charles Darwin’s theory of sexual evolution and belief in preferential mate choice. Buss proposes that there are three components to human mating. He states that “human mating is inherently strategic… mating strategies are context-dependent… [and that] men and women have faced different mating problems over the course of human evolution and, as a consequence, have evolved different strategies” (Buss, 1994, p. 241). He uses this theory to propose nine different hypotheses to prove that despite humans being varied and different from each other, all humans look for similar characteristics when trying to find a mate (Buss, 1994).

This essay aims to show a comparison between the differences between both female short-term mating strategies and female long-term mating strategies. It will explore the evolution of psychology that has shown reasons for human mating and how these reasons go above and beyond the general idea of physical attractiveness and love. This essay will identify how mate preferences have evolved and further identify psychological mechanisms that women have used to select their mates over the past. This essay will compare and critically discuss the differences and outline them between female short-term mating strategies and female long-term mating

70% of ladies admitted that they would ignore or avoid a potential love interest because of the way they looked (Buchanan). We live in a world where superficial beauty is an important advantage especially when choosing a partner in life. People try their hardest to look attractive and gone are the days when inner beauty are more accounted for. What if you have the opportunity to choose between an understanding, kind but not good-looking guy and an inconsiderate, selfish but stunningly appealing man? The 2017 Disney movie Beauty and the Beast is an epic hero myth which shows us that real love and beauty are not only about physical appearance but looking beyond what you can see and seeing one’s character within.

This article argues that physical attractiveness is a gateway for a healthy relationship. Singles, of both sex, recognizes the importance of physical attractiveness, especially online. Only when the standard is meet would they investigate further into the personality. It also argues that excessive attractiveness is unnecessary, and people prefers “averagely” attractive partner. The author is a dating & mating psychologist, has deep study in relationships. I will use this article as a major point to support my thesis statement.

Past research has demonstrated that there exists a connection between smiling and physical attractiveness. A smiling person was perceived as more intelligent and could create in the perceiver a warmer feeling than a nonsmiling person. This study evaluates whether smiling vs. not smiling and rater’s gender have an effect on attractiveness ratings of a male and a female dating profile. Furthermore, it predicts that there will be a main effect of smiling on the ratings of both, male and female dating profiles. Moreover, it also predicts that there will be an interaction of rater’s gender and smiling for the female profile. However, the results did not support this statement, there was not a main effect of rater’s gender on any of the dating profiles. Both profiles male and female, were better rated when the person was smiling. Indicating that people prefer smiling over the non-smiling faces. On the other hand, no interaction was observed between rater’s genders and smiling for male and female profile.

In the article the researchers were trying to challenge the sexual strategies theory. It seems as though sexual strategies theory is different genders having different preferences when choosing a mate, in the case of long and short term relationships. The hypothesis at first was that both boys and girls felt that attractiveness was important. Girls would be more inclined to date someone because of social status and that boys would be the complete opposite. They also expected that social status would only become important when the person is attractive and social status would be important no matter if the person is attractive on no for girls. The last thing that was tested was according to Ha (2009) “the potential moderator effects of

In the article “Why We Form Relationships,” as well as in our textbook “Interplay”, the authors define certain aspects that influence why we choose the relationships we choose. They both show that appearance is a big part of what influences our choices. Most people are raised to not judge a book by its cover, however without even meaning to we decide who we will let in our circle within seconds of seeing someone. Along with appearance, we seek out similarities in others, such as same taste in food, liking the same sports teams, or having the same hobbies. We also look for people that can give us any kind of reward at low cost; whether that reward is tangible, such as a gift, or intangible, such as emotional support.

However, for the woman, the sense of women’s self is on the perceived physical attractiveness. For example, in today’s media, people focus on the body image,

Everyone has a desire of being better than the others in many ways. The most common wish of many is to look physically beautiful. This is the reason why physical attraction and presentation is seen as an important element of a candidate's profile at the time of recruitment. Where the discrimination favors physically attractive people, it has a tendency of causing mental trauma to those with average or to be more precise normal looks. The bias in favor of physically attractive people is robust, with attractive people being perceived as more sociable, happier

The age old question of does higher alcohol intake affect perceived attractiveness in the opposite sex was studied by Parker et al. It was found that increased alcohol consumption resulted in participants rating of attractiveness. It was also found that in male’s participants rating of

Literature on the topic of attractiveness is very extensive. The human face is something that catches every ones attention and more over the scientists as well the psychologists are interested in analyzing the ability of humans to extract information of the others. Several factors and features are associated with attractiveness. Some examples include facial symmetry, skin color, facial traits, clear skin and health of facial skin. It is hypothesized that facial symmetry is an important factors in measuring physical attractiveness. Different features may be perceived as attractive by different people.

We must bear in mind that generally, in long-term relationships, the interests of women and of men are totally different. In long-term relationships, men would prefer women who are younger and physically attractive as sign of reproductive worth, and who are sexually likely to be loyal and committed as measures of fatherliness assurance. On the other hand, in long-term relationships, women put in great esteem a man who has big aspirations, ability to earn money, and professional titles. Furthermore, women do not like to be poor prospects or who lack of formal education, (Buss & Schmitt, 1993). However, the decision if whether a couple would remain together depends greatly on each other’s level of commitment: relationship satisfaction, relationship, and comparison level of alternatives, (Aronson, Wilson, & Akert,

The current idealistic attractive image portrayed in the media has a negative impact on the self-esteem in both men and women. Every day the media displays ideals of attractiveness for both genders, and in a matter of time, society will begin to demand these same media standards among individuals. According to the press, idealistic men tend to have defined chest, broad shoulders, muscular arms and slim waist. On the contrary, idealistic women tend to be surprisingly thin and well-toned. This portrayal of attractiveness is often manipulated by media industries and impossible for the majority of viewers to achieve. Some individuals internalize these standards of attractiveness, and they tend to suffer adverse effects such as body-focused anxiety