I Am Having All Boys No Girls

I know I can do the tasks I strive for,but I just do not know how to achieve

I'm trying to finish something,anything. I start an endeavor and somewhere down the line I talk myself out of completion. I want to do everything and wind up doing nothing. I just want to do what I love and that is snapping pics. I want to travel the world and become a photojournalist but it seems unrealistic. I live in a fantasy world and I'm just realizing that being an adult is hard work.

It also doesn’t help that there’s a thought in my head that I should do something grandiose in my future, like starting a business or changing the world in some way. I struggle between wanting to lead a quiet life where I work hard and enjoy myself, and wanting to be feverous and devote my entire being into a goal in life. It comes down to whether I want a balanced and wholesome life, whether I want go far, far down a path, or whether I want to do something in between, and the decisions that I make starting now all play into where I fall in that

Well we all want to be successful in our goals that put meaning to our lives. Have you ever encountered the inclination that you've spent such a long time attempting to accomplish your goals however felt you have no place with it?

You must get clear, crystal clear, on exactly what it is that you want in life. The first step to success begins with the clearest vision of exactly this, what you want. This can shift. As we grow and evolve, things change. Desires change. What you want may change, which is ok, that’s fine, and that’s good, change is good, but you’ve got to stay clear on this vision.

keep your goals in mind, you will not astray from them. Achieving goals that you have set for

Sometimes it seems like life is inhibiting me from achieving my goals. I define my objectives as I see them. I associate them with my values. Knowing that the task at hand is

It seems as if there are not enough hours in a day for me anymore. Months feel like weeks and weeks feel like days. The more I wish time would slow down, the faster it seems to pass by. I have an abundant amount of goals to achieve per day. The list becomes greater as I become older. Since I have always known that I have a passion for helping others, I decided that working in the medical field would fulfill the hunger I have to help others. I know that as a senior in high school I do not have to be certain nor set my mind on only perusing one career. I have to keep an open mind and explore that interest me. Although I do not have to know, I have always wanted to become an orthodontist. Knowing this at an early age has

Here are 3 things that make a difference for me and they do not include ready my goals everyday, reading self help books, and so on. If that helps you by all means do it.

I made goals for myself this year. Most people make goals for themselves but never achieve it or do it. Me being one of those people that do that. One of the goals I made is that I want to be more well-balanced. I don't try as hard as I should in gym class or I never exercise. My other goal is to collect a 4 or more in my classes. I want to try harder this year than I have ever tried in any of the other grades. My last goal is to be more of a risk-taker. Every time someone tells me to try something new I hesitate and don’t try. I think too much about what could happen.

Setting smaller goals towards your big goals helps. In my case, my first goals would be graduating high school and getting accepted into college. Also, another small goal is applying for scholarships and financial aid. I plan to do job shadowing in the spring, which will help me get a better look how my future will be. Not only that, but if an unexpected turn comes around, I might explore a new career I would want to go into. It’s baby steps to reach my goal. The exciting part of it, is there are so many opportunities and challenges out there to explore and

Only if you never give up, only if you keep working towards your goal, only then, will you achieve what you want. Many famous people throughout history have said that not giving up is the key to success. You were probably taught at school to never give up too. So why do people do it? Is it because their task is “too hard”? If it was easy, everyone would do it. Don't think of it as “too hard” think of it as a “challenge”. Thinking something as “too hard” is like shooting yourself in the foot, you haven't tried, and yet, your already willing to give up. Having a positive mindset will get you where you want to be, it will help you be who you want to

It took time and much self-examination to eventually accept that there was nothing wrong with me. I was not inferior to or less of a man than any other male in the world- merely a victim to a long line of harmful misunderstandings of the male gender. Society has set a precedent of aggression, barbarity, and dominance for men to follow to be perceived as “normal”, effecting youth negatively and damaging one’s self-image. Men are influenced strongly everyday by the world around them to put aside traditionally feminine tendencies and behave like a man- beginning, first and foremost, in the home. The household serves as a boy’s initial introduction to the exclusive sector that is manhood. It is there that they are brought up and reared to be the strapping, virile man they are destined to become. It is rare to find a boy who is not at least familiar with the phrase “Wipe some dirt on it,” teaching them to “[employ] the automatic “I’m fine” response to almost any emotional difficulty” (Glazer 7) and fooling family members into thinking they are valiantly tough warriors, dismissing any possibility of help or protection. It is understood that boys run around and play in mud and scrape their knees while girls sit inside and play with dolls- any sign of the opposite being quickly ended by parents. Boys are also turned away from calling their mother and father “mommy” and “daddy” far sooner than

“I’ll do it tomorrow”. In these tough times I love to tell myself that. I have spent most of the days gawking at my work, the ones that were supposed to be finished by the end of the week. I have also watched half of the seasons of Breaking Bad and breaking out badly too. I even started baking. I suddenly find things amusing and interesting. I even decided to re-organise my whole wardrobe just to get out of the work I was intending to do. Wait…. what was I talking about? Well, I’ll explain later.

Always reach for your highest potential. Push yourself out of your comfort zone and reach for things that make you excited, but also a little terrified in some respect. When you start to live at your highest potential, you start doing things from a higher level. You can see your value because you are not working from a lower floor, you are working from a high floor and have an amazing view of your life and can see how far you have moved up.