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I Learned A Little Bit More About Myself, Mostly How Horrified

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I learned a little bit more about myself, mostly how horrified I was to hear some of what Pumpkin has to say about himself at times, although most of that was from the conversation we had about our lives after the interview, and how lucky I am to be, and be perceived as, straight even if I am asexual. I was also pretty happy to hear about RS’s experiences growing up and to have her try to explain the feeling when she sees or hears people talk negatively about people who are not heterosexual. It really cemented my views that, like Pumpkin said, sexual orientation is almost just a fact about someone. It shouldn’t change someones opinion on someone, as the person is still them, you just know more about them after you find out or are told. I …show more content…

We have also talked a lot before about what it was like for him growing up in a very conservative part of Colorado with very liberal parents. Saying this, he did mention some events I was not aware of some of his experiences since I graduated — such as people asking him for advice and the amount of isolation he can feel even with his “friends”. He feels like an outsider almost all the time, which is very sad for me as someone who cares for him to hear. I have heard this sentiment from a few of my more obviously LGBT friends, although I know that it might not be what every LGBT person goes through, it could also depend on other factors such as other factions of their identity or where they grew up. Listening to my roommate talk about what it was like being straight didn’t give me more insight into what is different about being in the in- group, as I am considered to be in the in-group, but it did give me more insight into how the culture of France, or at least how she was raised, is towards people of different sexual orientations. She and her family are very accepting people, which can be expected as she has lived in generally liberal areas her entire life and surrounded by people of diverse backgrounds. France has some of the most liberal stances on gay rights, and hearing her talk during the time we have lived together and during the interview has proven that she at least was raised to be accepting of people no matter their sexual orientation. She does

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