Let’s admit it: we’re all going to be alone for Valentine’s day. I get that there are those people out there who will be in love and there will be a lot of people losing that V Card over Valentine’s day, but there are those people out there who are chronically alone. But I will agree that the entire “stay at home and eat chips and cry because you are alone” scenario is pretty stereotypical to today’s society. I hate this whole “love” concept. History has spoken for itself: love actually does make you do stupid things. Like buying $40 worth of candy at King Soopers. Like falling for some cute guy you met at summer camp that you could never dream of having. Which is actually a pretty good comparison to what happened when my mom fell for my dad in the first place. God, that was a wreck. Twenty years ago, Marissa and Carter Sage fell for each other.
It truly was the “stereotypical first high school relationship.” They knew each other since junior year of high school. It was almost like those perfect couples in books, like Hazel and Augustus or Tris and Four. After they went to ASU together and graduated, Marissa took Carter’s last name as her own.
That resulted in Mia Abigail Sage, my older sister, being welcomed as the newest Sage a good two years later. She was a good kid, always quiet, but even then she still had a ridiculous habit of picky-eating. To this day she will not eat anything from steak to cookies.
A little more than three years after Mia came me. And just
Love is a topic that has taken over today’s world. From music to movies, everything is now based on the love and relationships between people. However, Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, which is arguably the most famous love story in the world, could also be seen as a warning against love. The play Romeo and Juliet shows how platonic and romantic love can cause tragedy.
Society expects people to fall in love. That is, society expects people to find a life partner, get married, and have children. Those who do not follow the pattern are generally seen as hermits who sit in their houses with multiple forms of pets to keep them company. This burden life throws at human beings growing up, turns into a moral value. People want to find someone that makes them so happy that their heart hurts when they’re not with them. This would be the case if one does actually fall in love. Love can be a wonderful thing. However, sometimes it can be a devastatingly evil form of torture. Even though it is expected to make one feel content and comforted, love can make anyone feel more alone than ever before. Love is presumed to
According to the article, three factors are present when you fall in love: “Studies have found: You have to like the other person’s physical appearance; you have to find his or her personality desirable, and you have to feel the other person likes you” The teens had declared their love for each other within 3 hours of meeting. All they knew at the time was that they found each other attractive. This shows that they were infatuated with each other rather than in love because they knew nothing about each other except their
Love is either a fickle crime or an ever-changing satisfaction of desire. For some, it can ruin even the brightest minds, while for others, there is never doubt that it is worth living for. Children grow up with fairy tales and anecdotes of wild love stories, enthusiastic over the prospect of love. Yet has anyone considered the negatives of those dreams?
Love is supposedly such a strong force that a couple would die to be together
“The greatest thing in life is love, and be loved in return” (Eden Ahbez). “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (Cor 13:7). Love also influences all things. It is a powerful force that drives people to do things they would normally not do. In the news, there are several instances of murder in the name of love or robbing a bank because a person needs money for the person they love. There are also everyday instances of moving cross country for the person you love, leaving the person you love just to see them happy, or choosing another career path just to be with your significant other. In the literary works The Epic of Gilgamesh and Medea. Gilgamesh and Medea prove
Love is said to be one of the most desired things in life. People long for it, search for it, and crave it. It can come in the form of partners, friends, or just simply family. To some, love is something of a necessity in life, where some would rather turn a cold shoulder to it. Love can be the mixture of passion, need, lust, loyalty, and blood. Love can be extraordinary and breathtaking. Love being held so high can also be dangerous. Love can drive people to numerous mad things with it dangerously so full of craze and passion.
Love is one of the strangest, but most powerful emotions that a person could feel. It can make a person or break one. The classic
Love can do many things. It can be both harmful and beneficial. Love can scar, and love can inspire. Love can torment, and love can encourage. Love can irritate, and love can comfort. The unseen force of love can go even further than that, though. Love can
Love is the basis of our existence. It affects our every moment, dreams, and hope for the future. Love has caused wars, ended lives, toppled governments and has been expounded on by poets, musicians, philosophers, and literates throughout the centuries. Research from Syracuse University shows that it takes about a fifth of a second to fall in love and it affects almost every part of our body. Our brain releases dopamine, a natural chemical that gives us energy and optimism. Love is similar to a drug and can become an addiction because it affects our brain much like other drugs by triggering the dopamine reward part of our brain. Love even affects a persons’ heart when a person is in love their blood pressure will lower and has been
William Shakespeare once said “ Love is merely a madness”. Here, Shakespeare is suggesting that love is an experience that simply cause chaos. When people experience love it may drive them crazy not knowing what they have done because they loved the person so much that they lost their consciousness. I agree with the quote and there are many works of literature that prove that the lens is true, some of these works of literature are The Crucible by Arthur Miller and Othello by William Shakespeare.
In this article from Time magazine entitled “Crazy Love”, the author Steven Pinker, discusses the implications of falling in love, the extent of its effect on human beings, and the methodology of people’s endeavors to find potential spouses. The author argues that experiencing love has the power to drive humans to take actions that under rational circumstances, they would likely not partake in. Pinker asserts that the symptoms of romantic infatuation are “different from both raw lust and the enduring commitment that keeps lovers together.” That we as human beings should all know the symptoms: the idealization of our significant others, massive mood swings that vary from ecstasy to despair, the inability to eat or sleep, and the “intense need for signs of reciprocated feelings.” He
One quote from “Perks of Being A WallFlower” that really sums up some of the problems we live with today and what revolves around us is, “we accept the love we think we deserve.”(24) Love is something that seems to always play a part in our life, whether it’s how we act towards people, or what we do in our free time, we always see it. Being in love is a great feeling that everyone should experience at one time in their life because of how it changes your outlook on life and everything correlating with it.
“Lonely Hearts” conveys a deep sense of desperation of those who seek alternative methods of finding love. This trend of matchmaking has significantly grown from the
What is love? The type of love I’m describing is the one that gives you butterflies when a certain person comes to mind. Just seeing that particular person can be enough to make one smile and make your day and all the worries go away. Right now that person comes to mind. It’s neither a crush nor infatuation and many are willing to do anything for this thing that is called love. Love can hurt in the long run, and people can also be blinded by it.