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'Identity In The Namesake'

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Identity reflect who you are, and it defines as a set of characteristics that makes you unique. Self-identity consists of three unique elements: family, personal, and social identity. Culture affects these elements. Culture is the system of shared values, beliefs, behaviors, and making up a society’s way of life. In addition, different cultures and identities can cause severe problems in a new country, such as self identity and lifestyle problems. For instance, based on the book, “The Namesake,” identity is affected by names. Gogol, as a child, associates his identity with his name. Gogol wasn’t bothered by being called his name, until he was eleven. By fourteen, he starts to hate his name and resents being asked about it. It is as if his family …show more content…

For example, it affected his confidence. Gogol is reluctant to introduce himself as Nikhil to a girl he liked. Being able to gives himself a name gave him the confidence to kiss her. Also, in the book, it states that, “it hasn’t been Gogol who had kissed. Gogol had nothing to do with it.” When he legally changed his name to Nikhil, it had changed his entire life. Gogol was no longer a part of him. Once he made the decision, he felt relieved and said that, “this is how it feels for an obese person to become thin , for a prisoner to walk free” (102). He let go of his regrets and never looked back. He was finally beginning his new life. As he moved to New York City, he pursued to become an architect and moves in with his girlfriend. This first experience adjusts him to the American way of life and introduces a new …show more content…

Kids at school kept on annoying him because of it. He felt as if changing his name was the best choice for him. I remember back home in Haiti when everyone at school and at home used to call me by my last name. Every time a teacher called my name, they always mispronounced it, which made me embarrassed. Years later, I changed my identity once I entered Kingsborough Community College and felt a weight off my shoulders. By attending college in America, my personality, values, and beliefs have changed. Even my attitude toward others have changed. Overall, I feel as if I am not the same person that I used to be in Haiti. I have become more sociable, comfortable, understanding, and responsible. For example, in Haiti, I was a shy person and was afraid to talk to people. I stayed to myself and minded my own business. However, now that I am taking psychology, I am learning to be more social and outgoing. Human skills developed into personalities becoming your identity. Due to the development of my skills, my personality

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