Identity reflect who you are, and it defines as a set of characteristics that makes you unique. Self-identity consists of three unique elements: family, personal, and social identity. Culture affects these elements. Culture is the system of shared values, beliefs, behaviors, and making up a society’s way of life. In addition, different cultures and identities can cause severe problems in a new country, such as self identity and lifestyle problems. For instance, based on the book, “The Namesake,” identity is affected by names. Gogol, as a child, associates his identity with his name. Gogol wasn’t bothered by being called his name, until he was eleven. By fourteen, he starts to hate his name and resents being asked about it. It is as if his family …show more content…
For example, it affected his confidence. Gogol is reluctant to introduce himself as Nikhil to a girl he liked. Being able to gives himself a name gave him the confidence to kiss her. Also, in the book, it states that, “it hasn’t been Gogol who had kissed. Gogol had nothing to do with it.” When he legally changed his name to Nikhil, it had changed his entire life. Gogol was no longer a part of him. Once he made the decision, he felt relieved and said that, “this is how it feels for an obese person to become thin , for a prisoner to walk free” (102). He let go of his regrets and never looked back. He was finally beginning his new life. As he moved to New York City, he pursued to become an architect and moves in with his girlfriend. This first experience adjusts him to the American way of life and introduces a new …show more content…
Kids at school kept on annoying him because of it. He felt as if changing his name was the best choice for him. I remember back home in Haiti when everyone at school and at home used to call me by my last name. Every time a teacher called my name, they always mispronounced it, which made me embarrassed. Years later, I changed my identity once I entered Kingsborough Community College and felt a weight off my shoulders. By attending college in America, my personality, values, and beliefs have changed. Even my attitude toward others have changed. Overall, I feel as if I am not the same person that I used to be in Haiti. I have become more sociable, comfortable, understanding, and responsible. For example, in Haiti, I was a shy person and was afraid to talk to people. I stayed to myself and minded my own business. However, now that I am taking psychology, I am learning to be more social and outgoing. Human skills developed into personalities becoming your identity. Due to the development of my skills, my personality
The major reason that causes Gogol to rethink his relationships and his identity is the meaning of his name. When he was younger, he wanted to be called Nick and went by this name after high school. As he used the name, Nick, he severed ties with his traditions which showed from when he did not visit his parents and completely forgot his life before becoming Nick. Flashbacks were utilized several times in this film to portray Gogol growing up and the train crash which inspired Ashoke to name his son Gogol. In the scene where Ashoke drives with Gogol, he finally discloses how Gogol’s name really came to be. We see a flashback to the train collision when Ashoke was found
Gogol is able to temporarily separate himself by accepting a job in New York City as an architect and by moving in with his American girlfriend named Maxime. Because of Maxime and her family, Gogol is able to experience a form of intimacy and acceptance that he has never before experienced (Lahiri 132). However, as much as Gogol tries to detach himself from his Indian roots and expectations, he soon realizes that he is unable to completely dismiss his past. Gogol ends up marrying an old Bengali friend of his mother’s named Moushumi and starts to accept some aspects of his culture (Lahiri 219). However, Gogol still struggles with finding balance between what elements of his being he should refuse or accept. After his father dies and his marriage falls through with Moushumi, Gogol realizes that can never fully accept or fully deny his true identity. As seen in the last few pages of the novel, Gogol sits down to finally read the book that he was named after (Lahiri 291). This symbolizes Gogol’s attempts to accept all aspects of his identity; American, Russian, and Indian included. Through this act, Gogol is able to grasp the idea that he can find satisfaction in knowing that his identity is not have to be one element, but instead is multivariable and a reflection of the journey he endured to find his true
She remembers him as Gogol but calls him Nikhil and compliments him on his new
As Gogol grows, he begins to hate his name as Gogol, and requests to change his name to Nikhil. ""What is the reason you want to change your name, Mr. Ganguli?" the judge asks. "I hate the name Gogol," he says. "I always hated it."" (p.101-102) as Gogol brings up this topic to discuss during dinner befor he changes his name in the summer, Gogol claims that because he is an Indian with a Russian name in America, nobody is taking him seriously, thrust requesting to change his name into Nikhil, even if it makes a huge hassle to change his legal documents. With out the question of his rare name and confusion of the choice, Gogol accepts himself more easier and believes that he has become more Americanized. Gogol sees himself more Americanized as people do while he attends parties and other group activities in his social circle.
The author Jhumpa Lahiri shows how much Gogol has developed and matured throughout the course of the novel. From the the beginning of The Namesake to the end, Gogol is shown developing intellectually. Gogol intellectually improves himself by allowing himself to be more acquainted with his name and identity which gogol prefers to be referred to as. In the third chapter of The Namesake, Gogol takes on one of his first challenges when Gogol is introduced to his first year school. Gogol is perturbed when he finds out that Ashok and Ashima were allowing the other children to call Gogol by his “good name,” Nikhil instead of Original name Gogol. Although, Gogol had never had someone refer to him by anything other than Gogol throughout his entire life, Gogol is perplexed as to why he is being referred to by two names. The Principal of the school refers to him as “Nikhil” in a conversation, Gogol chooses not to respond. As Gogol is in the office with Mrs.Lapidus Ashok says “Go on Gogol”. In doing so Ashoke bagans to worry that by doing so Mrs.lapidus would began to catch on, however,
Scene: Gogol Ganguli rejects his parents’ choosing of his name when he was first born. Before going to college, Gogol formally changes his name to “Nikhil” so that everyone would recognize him as
He just wants to be Gogol. “It is as Nikhil that he loses his virginity at a party at Ezra Stiles, with a girl wearing a plaid woolen skirt and combat boots and mustard tights”(105). Later in his life he starts to use his good name, Nikhil, and it seems he becomes a new person and enjoys life. The truth is Gogol isn’t enjoying life, Nikhil is. “Without people in the world to call him Gogol, no matter how long he himself lives, Gogol Ganguli will, once and for all, vanish from the lips of loved ones, and so, cease to exist.
Gogol grapples with his name throughout the majority of the novel, yet this tension was in the makings even before his birth. Ashoke and Ashima being immigrants set Gogol up to live in two different cultures, American and Bengali. Many children of immigrants may feel like Gogol, having one foot in each world. Gogol framed his struggle with cultural identity through something tangible, his name. In Jhumpa Lahiri’s novel, The Namesake, Gogol’s struggle with cultural identity is exposed most greatly by the name others call him and his reaction to it.
When someone has established his or her identity based on experiences and is proud of that identity, he or she is said to be comfortable. In the novel The Namesake, the main character, Gogol Ganguli, is divided between Bengali and American culture, while also having difficulty accepting his name. This causes him to struggle with establishing and being comfortable with his identity. In The Namesake, Gogol, who struggles to identify with his name and his culture, becomes more comfortable with himself after going through difficult life experiences
reinforces to Gogol that his name is a factor in his identity and how others perceive him.
The important themes of name and identity are very evident in Chapter 3. The chapter contains when Gogol firsts starts kindergarten. Ashima and Ashoke wanted him to go by "Gogol" at home but "Nikhil" at school. However this then leads to confusing him and he has no interest in another name. He considers that depending on where he is he may need to be two different people then leading to him having two different names. "He is afraid to be Nikhil, someone he doesn't know. Who doesn't know him." (Lahiri ). During his adolescent years Gogol connects a new identity with having a new name. His unusual name does not bother him until he turns eleven and he attends a class trip to a cemetery which is when he uncovers that his name is special. Some of the other gravestones have names he has never heard before so he makes rubbings of them because he
Gogol's disconnected relationship with his parents is one of the main reasons why he rejected his Bengali heritage for an American one. In The Namesake By Jhumpa Lahiri, one of Gogol's biggest trials in his life, involves his Indian heritage and his want to be American. His relationship with his parents, and their Bengali culture, affects his feelings towards Bengali culture, and, being rebellious, vouches for the American Dream. Gogol's first unnatural experience with Bengali culture occurs when he enters elementary school. A Bengali tradition is that one person is supposed to have two names.
As identity becomes the core issue, Gogol’s name becomes quite significant. As a child, Gogol is used to the name Gogol so that when his parents ask his good name ‘Nikhil’ to be his official name when he starts schooling, he is reluctant to accept the new name. Lahiri states that “he
He loses his virginity by using the name Nikhil, and that name has lead him to meet and have relationships with multiple women (Ruth, Maxine, Bridget and Moushumi). Even after making all determinations to erase his past, his failure to declare his identity is seen in his relationship with women. He lawfully changes his name to Nikhil before he leaves for college. The name Nikhil goes on to represent his individuality and separation from his parents. It also signifies him accepting American culture and distancing away from Indian culture. The twist comes into play when people starting calling him Nikhil and he gets startled. He likes the name Nikhil better, but he does not feel like Nikhil. On the inside, he feels like Gogol, no matter how much he dislikes the name. This adds to the controversy of his identity: is he Gogol or Nikhil. On the other hand, he is a mix of both: Gogol by day and Nikhil by night.
After the initial rejection of his name at a party, Gogol has decided to legally change his name. This change is driven by the character’s disgust at the name his parents had given him, although it is he that had rejected being called Nikhil in kindergarten. The name Gogol comes to represent two very different things to his father Ashoke, and Gogol. To Ashoke, the name represents his life being saved the fateful night of the train derailment. As Caesar writes, “To Ashoke, the name Gogol is...a reminder of the way in which the reading of [Nikolai] Gogol’s short story saved his life…” (108). To Gogol Ganguli, the name simply reminds him of a strange and sad writer he learned about in English class, with no meaningful representation in his own life. Gogol is frustrated that his parents named him something so silly, especially since it is not even a Bengali name. As Gogol stands before the judge, he is asked why he wishes to change his name, to which he responds, “I hate the name Gogol...I’ve always hated it ” (Lahiri 102) His rejection of the name Gogol allows him to escape the identity placed upon him by his parents. Although Nikhil is an Indian name, it enables him to try on a new and more sophisticated identity. The one by which he has his first kiss, his admissions to college, and subsequently the relationships that