Insecurity Problem

I learned that I had created my own feeling of inferiority by putting so much focus on someone else’s best quality. I was too busy trying to be better than them when I just needed to be my own best. As long as I focus on being the best for myself I could eliminate so much of the silly mental worries. Sometimes I still do this to this day but perhaps one day I will realize that I no longer need to compare myself to other people. In the meantime, I’m learning to accept that this is something I do and finding ways to use is as a force for positive

Insecurity is something most people have witnessed at some point in their lives. Insecurity is the act of feeling inferior to everyone else, or frankly unconfident of oneself. A variety of people around me are able to mettle with this issue, but a small percentage aren’t. When it comes to insecurity, I am practically the queen because I just can’t seem to accept myself for who I am or have become since childhood. I have an absolute hatred towards for myself, and whenever the opportunity is present, I find something to criticize my myself for. The act is almost identical to being the most judgmental person in the world, with the exception that you are aiming the insults at yourself instead of others. I always have to insult myself and can never accept the actions I have made. There is always something wrong, something I could have done better or a detail I misplaced when doing something of great importance. I feel myself lacking some sort of greater potential that will lead me to perfection. The ironic part? I know that perfection is an impossible feat but I was raised so strictly on the idea of reaching perfection that avoiding the achievement is not an option. Thus, this is my greatest flaw and I am recognized through society as the person who can not stay positive or accept myself for

But anyway, back to this thing that attacked me. If you could even say that. It may appear to want to physically attack you, you know, the usual teeth, claws, giant build. Instead, it gets in your head. Brings your greatest flaws or weaknesses to life. Thing is, only you can see what’s going on. No one around you notices a thing wrong. On the outside you appear normal, carrying on with your day. In your head, it's a totally different story.

There are times in your life where you feel insecure, either you feel lonely or betrayed. The times when you feel insecure you feel down or like the world’s going to end because you’re not the form of “perfect”. In this generation, they’re people who seem to have a perfect life, perfect everything. But when you feel insecure, they are ups and downs and hurdles over the insecurity. There are times when I do feel insecure but then when I think about how life precious is, how people commit suicide over something so stupid, it’s a big problem. You shouldn't worry about insecurities because they bring you down and you have a full life to live still. Insecurity is a big problem in today's world, generation. By having insecurities, it makes people

I was always insecure about something my whole life. I was scared to talk to “cool kids” because I would stumble on my words or say something dumb. I would avoid going to social events because I wasn’t good at talking with people and was afraid that I would set a bad impression when meeting new people because I never knew what to say. Sometimes I was even insecure about my appearance. Was I wearing something ugly? Is there something in my teeth? Is my hair a mess? By being afraid of what others thought of me and not being fully confident in myself, I was showing insecurity. Being insecure can be a bad thing but it could also be a good thing as it teaches you to be happy with what you look like and who you

It is said that we internalise information we gain from the world and then we build it into our sense of self. In other words, when we human are praised and shown love and respect we gain high self-esteem and we forget about it and it doesn’t bother us. However, when we are cussed and something bad is said about us, we tend to think about it not forgetting it and those who experience this would have a low self-esteem. It is also said that those with low self-esteem others can increase it.

Insecurity. I was insecure of my abilities because others labeled me. However, even though I'm not a pro-athlete, I am a gymnast and first place winner for 8 years in our club’s Presidential Fitness Challenge. I am defying the insecurities I made for myself.

It is rather interesting to see how the United States progressed over time when dealing with "homosexual behaviors". The idea that this was something that could keep you out of the country is intriguing, because it reflects a deeper insecurity within our nation. The idea that the united states takes a locations "sick and weak" population, because after all, we are a nation of immigrants, is simply opposite of the reality. From early on, the United States fought the idea and the proliferation of homosexuality with a push against the immorality of such behaviors. And since the Mexican and Central American Immigration push took off, the United States fought against any suspected homosexuals every step of the way.

But atypical of many heartbreaks, I decided all I could do was improve myself. I had given a plethora of those condescending smirks that could demolish anyone’s self-esteem and snickered at dedicated students’ passion for learning, labeling it ''nerdiness''. At 3 AM one night, remembering these scenarios, I was completely

In her article “‘To Love the Moor’: Postcolonial Artists Write Back to Shakespeare’s Othello”, Claire Chambers discusses the many adaptations of Williams Shakespeare’s Othello. Othello is just one example of a what Shakespeare is known for, writing plays that deals with themes that are uniquely human and extend beyond any geographical location or time period. Chambers writes about how during Shakespeare's time, there was great hostility towards “the great number of Negroes and blackamoors” that resided in England, and this resentment greatly influenced Shakespeare’s writings. Othello deals with this issue of race, as well as many others including gender, greed, jealousy and identity. The main character of this play is Othello, a black military

Rilke had the insight that every person had the beauty within their inner selves despite the opinions others may bestow upon them (Rilke 36). This psychological humanistic insight prevents people from losing their confident self-esteems. Likewise, it prevents people from being depressed due to negative self-image. I would just suggest to keep apply this insight into real life situations at a minimum, to avoid arrogance among ourselves.

I thought that knowing that things were supposed to become easier now for me in a harder class. I’ve earned this spot in this class is what I keep saying to myself, but everyday I wasn't so sure and anymore, it has now only been 3 weeks in this class and I’ve been drowning from the start of this paper. One thing that really just dawned on me is that, I’ve always been marginalized in school, intelligence wise, which is not surprising at all. In Glenville as a freshman, I think I’ve always been trying to fit in as soon as I got there, but back lashes like ¨you think you're better than everyone else¨ and ¨you're too smart¨. The dominant discourse there was very noticeable, which was a bunch of kids who don't really care about school, for reason I was really trying to be that but they knew and I knew I didn't

For me being comfortable in the uncomfortable involved many different aspects of high school. There have been so many issues that I have overcame since beginning high school from presenting to a public audience, to learning how to properly study, managing time, presenting to a group of peers, and even pushing away doubts of my own intelligence. High school has been an extreme source of pressure and stress for me but has also held the greatest experiences as well. I've made many friends that have helped me along a great deal, I've developed my religious faith more maturely, I've triumphed over many insecurities by simply realizing that I myself am my own greatest judge. The only resolution to my many vulnerabilities were simply going through

Perhaps the most interesting thing about me is the fact that I’m not interesting at all; I grew up with two dogs and two siblings and two parents while my two eyes wore two lenses in a pair of glasses. But after some severe contemplation (and finally deciding it’d be inappropriate to boast about my uncanny ability to find the perfect reaction meme to any text I receive), I’ve decided that if I were forced to choose a quality that makes me unique, it’d be my two front teeth.

Now, considering this aspect, one realizes how a person can not function with insecurity and low self-esteem; so then, a whole country trying to function and grow with its insecurity and low self-esteem is simply impossible.