Interpersonal Application Theory
Journey through a lifetime while experiencing Interpersonal Communications. This paper reveals one of two theories based off of a personality based on the formation of intimate relationships during the stages of a person's lifetime. A person’s lifetime will go through these stages called the Attachment application that entails the comfort and security from a mother child’s relationship, to interactions with peers, friendships, multiple selves, and the attachment stage. While the second application named the Knapp’s Relationship Model explains how relationships grow and last and also how they end. This model is categorized into ten different stages which come under two interrelating stages and the Knapp’s
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First, it begins with the Initiation stage that starts with the (“impersonal communication which is essentially interchangeable chit-chat (Beebe, Beebe, & Ivy, 2013)”. This is all about making an impression, which physical appearance plays an integral part and your overall appearance. Second, onto the experimentation stage which is all about exploring to get better acquainted or categorized or referred to as the probing stage which will be used to analyze each other’s information to see if a common interest exist to maintain a relationship. Third, is the Intensifying stage in which the relationship intensifies and becomes less formal. Revealing personal information that starts flowing from each other and each person will analyze the information to start forming impressions of one another. This will enable each other strengthen interpersonal development and foster the relationship which would allow for more time together, dates more often and move into commitment stage. Entering this stage and becoming more intimate drives for disclosures which may not be clear cut as everyone thinks. “People actually move back and forth between periods of choosing to disclose and choosing to maintain privacy” (Altman, 1993). Fourth, we move onto Integration which is the stage were people will move the relationship closer by falling in love and intimacy can …show more content…
Fifth, we move into the bonding stage which will include the announcement to the rest of the community of their relationship. They make their relationship recognized by honor and legal commitment that can only be divided through a broken formal notice, agreements and or death. The five fundamentals listed above is exactly how any relationships are formed. Through Interpersonal communication is the initiation when you first meet which also entails making a first impression and is how I met my significant other. We then started with chit chat to learn more about each other and to see if we had common interest. Then we went onto the next stage with probing questions about each other to further acknowledge more characteristics of each other to identify if we were compatible or not. In this stage we also revealed interest or hobbies that lead into more indications or capabilities of one another, but also revealed the inner person in my significant other while trying to foster the relationship. Next, we started wanting to spend more time with each other, dating more often or seeing each more often and move into the intimate part of our relationship to achieve the next level of commitment. We then communicated to the rest of our community that we had plans to get married
The first stages are contact where individuals exchange basic information and decide if the relationship is worth pursuing. In the movie the audience can see this stage when Gary starts conversation with Brooke in the game of baseball. He offers to Brooke a hot dog, but she does not accept it. Gary insists offering the bread and she does not interest in Gary. After the game, Gary invites her to a bar, but Brooke refuses one more time to him. Gary insists saying that maybe a conversation can change their lives, and then Brooke accepts the invitation. At this moment, the audience can appreciate the second stage of relationships: involvement. They will spend more time together allowing an intensification of the relationship, knowing, and learning of each other. The third stage is intimacy. It is when two people accept each other and confirm their roles. The interpersonal commitment is demonstrated in the movie when several Gary and Brooke’s pictures are played showing them kissing and holding their hands. In addition, they show their social bonding which is more in public when the Brooke’s family comes to eat at home. The principal characters show to others that they are a partner and the family can see that. The next stage
Undergraduate students enrolled in a general psychology course will participate for course credit. Participants will first complete the Experiences In Close Relationships Questionnaire (a measure of attachment style in romantic relationships; Fraley, Niedenthal, Marks, Brumbauh, & Vicary, 2006), the Relationship Questionnaire (a measure of general attachment; Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991), and the Eyesenck Personality Questionnaire (a measure of key components of personality that fall under the four categories of extraversion, introversion, stability and neuroticism; (Eysenck & Eysenck, 1975) that will serve as the basis for the falsified results that indicate the potential for a “future alone”. Participants will be randomly assigned to one of three conditions: Control (No feedback), social exclusion condition (future alone), or social inclusion condition (future belonging) (Twenge et al., 2001; 2002; 2007; Dewall et al., 2009). The feedback, if given will consist of a response by the experimenter that predicts a life of fulfillment and significant relationships or a life with little to no relationships of significance. The participants receiving no feedback are representative of the control condition. The participant will be told the feedback is based on the results of the personality questionnaire he or she has filled
In a developmental perspective of relational dynamics, communications researcher Mark Knapp, developed a model of relation stages. In Knapp’s model, he included 10 stages, within 2 broad phases, “coming together” at the beginning of the relationship and “coming apart” at the end. The first phases encompasses the first 5 stages, the last phase includes the last 5. However, other researchers have suggested that a third phase, “relational maintenance,” should be included. This stage encompasses the fourth, fifth, sixth, and seventh stages. These ten stages are as follows.
The bonding stage of a relationship occurs when “the parties make symbolic public gestures to show the world that their relationship exists” (Adler and
Worries the significance of "Attachment" as to self-improvement. In particular, it makes the claim that the capacity for a person to shape an enthusiastic and physical "connection" to someone else gives a feeling of solidness and security important to go out on a limb, fan out, and develop and create as a personality. Actually, Attachment theory is an expansive thought with numerous expressions, and the best comprehension of it can be had by taking a look at a few of those expressions turn. Strong attachment between mother and child is shown through physical contact and while holding the child, they face each other. Adolescents Form Attachments with Peers as a child reaches adolescence, they tend to depart away from the attachment relationships with any parental type figure. Attachment bonds between parents and adolescents are "Treated by many adolescents more like ties that restrain than like ties that anchor and secure, and a key task of adolescence is to develop autonomy so as no longer to need to rely on parents ' support when making one 's way through the world". A way of seeking independence from the parents is to rely more on peers as attachment figures. Eventually, adolescents will form long-term relationships with their peers that may be of the romantic kind, which may become full attachment relationships. These relationships are formed not only because of the need for attachment, but also
While there are many influences that may shape a person’s experience with love such as culture, one interesting factor is the attachment style. Called the attachment theory, this theory suggest that people used their attachment styles they had with their caregiver when they were younger and used that as a model when pursuing a romantic relationship during adulthood. There are three infant attachment classifications that may influence future relationships: secure attachment style, anxious/ambivalent attachment style, and avoidance attachment style. To further elaborate on this theory, we shall look into three people: Carly, Derek, and Jake. Each one has been exposed to different attachment styles and as a result will experience different effects on forming intimate relationships.
This source discusses how Hazan and Shaver apply Bowlby’s theory of attachment in infants to determine the attachment in adult relationships. They also discuss how proximity decreases within a relationship. In addition, the article touches on reciprocity and how this concept is applied to determine if a relationship will be successful or not.
Drive Theory, Ego Psychology, Object Relations, Self Psychology, and Attachment Theory are different vistas from which we can observe and study human development. I have decided to explain mine from the perspective of Attachment Theory, whose main contributors include John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth, and Mary Main. However, before doing so, it would be useful to outline a bony framework and define certain key concepts of Attachment Theory, which focuses on the relationships and bonds between people--particularly long-term ones such as child-parent and husband-wife.
This theory help understand interpersonal factors such as knowledge, attributed, beliefs, motivation, self-concept and self-efficacy.
As humans, building relationships between others is a form of connecting and communicating. It is a social situation that is experienced every day through the course of a lifetime. The initial relationship that is made is between the mother and the child. This bond that connects two people is known to be called attachment. The theory of attachment begins at birth, and from that, continuing on to other relationships in family, friends, and romance. Attachment is taught through social experiences, however the relationship with the mother and her temperament are the key factors in shaping the infants attachment type, which
Karpel (1994) makes a powerful statement by arguing that emotional attachments may be the most important factor impacting couple relationships. He considers the concept so important that he opens with the idea, drawing a connection between the early mother-child relationship and later couple relationships. In my own experience of marriage (10 years in my first marriage, and nearly 28 years in my current marriage), I would concur that our childhood attachment history has a tremendous impact on who we become and how we act out our intimate adult lives.
Our earliest relationships in life can be deeply formative in shaping our development. Created by John Bowlby, attachment theory relates the importance of attachment in regards to personal development. According to Bowlby, attachment is the leading factor in our ability to form and maintain relationships as adults (Levy 2012, pg. 157). As human beings, we need to feel as if we belong (Cherry, 2016). We find this belongingness in our relationships and attachments. However, we differ in our ability to form such relationships. Some people may find creating relationships with people to be a fairly simple while others find relationships to be difficult or even anxiety producing. Though we each feel a need to belong, we differ in this ability. Some people struggle in relationships and other find anything relating to relationships to be simple. These differences in how we maintain and create relationships may be due to our early life experiences. Research on attachment theory suggests that our early-life relationships may be responsible, at least in part, for these differences in adult relationships (Fraley, 2010). Data proves that these different attachment styles have different effects on how an individual deals with relationships. Previous research has dialed in on different attachment styles and their effect on how one views their self-worth. However, research has failed to investigate relationship
This study is important because it suggest attachment styles developed in early childhood may provide children a set of beliefs about themselves, others and the nature of relationships. Therefore, children who are securely or insecurely attached are more likely to have similar relationships in the future.
A theoretical framework is a group of concepts with their definitions and existing theory that provides guidance to a research project by forming a valuable part of any nursing or scientific research (Nieswiadomy, 2012). There are many methods that could be applied as the theoretical framework for domestic violence (DV) research study. Most social sciences possibly will use the psychodynamic approach or the behavioral-cognitive approach as their theoretical framework, but a nursing theory will be applied in this study. The use of a theoretical framework is dependent on the theory that is relevant to the study.
Ana have a lot of close friends that she hangs out with and that she relies on. Her best-friend is Kennedy. Her and Kennedy knew each other since the age of 14. They attended school together. They are both single and 25 years of age. She mentioned that she always party with Kennedy. She has two other friends by the name of Rebecca and Leah. They both are 25 years of age as well. Ana, enjoys hanging with these group of girls. She also enjoys hanging with her friend Trisha, which is 26 years of age and works in the hair salon with Ana. She mentioned when she hangs with her friends, that is typically when she drinks socially. She seems to be very satisfied with her friends that she has. They usually socialize