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Is Facebook Making Us Lonely Summary

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In the article “Is Facebook Making Us Lonely”, Stephen Marche discusses the effects and utility of network in people’s life. Marche establishes how Facebook is making us more isolated and replacing deep connections from society. He also established that isolation is an option in which we are blinded pushed towards by social networking. According to Marche, Facebook is a tool that people have to learn how to used because this tool becomes what people make of it. Facebook has been a media to help people meet others that are far apart but it has also turn out to be a way to lock people into solitude. According to Marche “We meet fewer people. We gather less. And when we gather, our bonds are less meaningful and less easy”. Meaning that we are …show more content…

Despite that, there are many people that decided to detach from social network and work to create a better outside world life, but we still have connections and distractions from the social media; “transfixed by the glare of a screen, hungering for response” (Marche, par 5). People are constantly waiting for a response and not only by the internet but by the world itself, and for that reason, we expect that Facebook could be an answer of all the things we need answer for because Facebook is made off the outside world. The only problem is that we do not know when will that happen, or if it would happen eventually, but we are wasting time waiting for something that is not accurate to happen and that does not benefit us or help us find an answer to the things that we are looking for. Marche allude that “It’s a lonely business, wandering the labyrinths of our friend’s and pseudo-friends’ projected identities, trying to figure out what part of ourselves we ought to project, who will listen, and what they will hear” (Marche, par 22). That is the moment when loneliness comes, in the time that we wait for a response and we do not find one, either because no one pays attention to us or either there is not an answer that could be found in the social network. There is a disappointment when what you are looking for cannot be found because you do not receive help from others and because of that, you blame Facebook within the people on it. As you blame others, you end up believing that the same way social media works, outside world does as well. We end up with less friends to trust and ask for help which leads to isolation and

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