Is Lying Acceptable? There is one thing that has made both good and bad things happen to us all. This “one thing” makes people question their own heart. This “one thing” is lying.
Everybody has lied once in their lives but, many people wonder if lying could be justified under some circumstances. This question makes many question their own sense of morality and makes them wonder if the state of their conscience is in the right. Lying is sometimes justified when the motives of the person/people involved are socially acceptable or morally right. Lying is a common thing that could actually help people if done with the correct motives under certain circumstances. In fact, “not only is lying justified, it is sometimes a moral duty” (It’s true Americans Conflicted
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(This is only the case if you say these lies under the right circumstances with the right motives) An example of this is a woman named Teresa Velin, a mother in Palm Desert, California. “Velin did not want to get up and get dressed in the heat to go to a movie date she had planned with her friend so she said she was busy.” (It’s true Americans Conflicted about Lying, Paragraph 6) From this we can tell that lying could actually help us in our everyday lives making us less irritable giving us the precious down time that we all enjoy. It also shows that lies could help us protect people and not hurt their feelings. If Velin would have told her friend the truth she probably would have hurt her feelings and damaged their relationship , but since she lied she was still able to maintain that nice relationship without jeopardizing it in any way whatsoever. This information shows that lying can help everybody out by making you less stressful and protecting the people you love. Some people don’t agree with this. Let’s see what they think about this sensitive
Lying is known as a bad thing, but sometimes it can be used for good. Dishonesty just depends on how you utilize it. In the story, The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, by Mark Twain you will see lying happening very often. When Huckleberry Finn lies it is usually for a good purpose. While the king and duke use it for more greedy reasons.
William Shakespeare once said, “God hath given you one face, and you make yourself another.” Lying is without a doubt never justifiable because lying can lead into even greater conflicts that might never be resolved additionally lying would ruin someone’s reputation; one might argue that lying can be justifiable under one circumstance which is that lying can protect people from danger; however, lying can make someone lose people’s trust.
The majority of people think lying is inherently wrong, and it is only justified in cases of significant benefit. Fear, manipulation and pride are the three main reasons people choose to lie. Some of the harsher lies are
As we all know, lying is a constant part of many people’s lives, whether they realize it or not. Now and then, we’ve all lied to our parents about our homework being completed. (Even though your homework is not done because playing video games or texting your friends is more interesting.) Honestly, lot’s of us have told a lot of white lies or maybe even a whopper of a lie, and we all have varied views on when we should or shouldn 't lie. Such as Brad Blanton, an author of a book about lying and the article, “Honestly, Tell the Truth” who believes in the concept of radical honesty: telling the truth at all times. (excluding a matter of life or death) By cutting out the white lies we tell throughout the course of our lives, there will be less lies to, as Blanton states “unnecessarily complicate our lives.” I agree with Blanton and his opinion that we honestly need to tell the truth and that if we cut out most if the lies we tell, our lives will be free of the aftermath of a lie: damaged relationships and unnecessary amounts of stress. I believe that lying is burdening to the liar who usually fights a losing battle, for he will most likely be found out. I also believe that if we excessively lie, this pattern will become a habit and a problem that will be hard to get rid of in the future. I consider lying to be harmful and damaging to relationships and to negatively affect your character and lower your moral standards. Everyone has lied occasionally, if not frequently, but if
Once people know that a person habitually lies, they do not take that person as seriously. Being honest demonstrates self-respect and respect for others. Honesty is appealing and engaging to others. Honesty also sets a good example for people who look up to that person. People will become closer and have faith in an authentic person. An honest person invites authentic and real friendships. Imagine if a friend overhears a lie told by another peer, it is possible that it could damage the relationship. It can be difficult to regain their trust once they are aware of the regular lying. People frequently tell lies to bypass sharing truths that feel uncomfortable or awkward. Lying should be avoided because it is important to share true judgment and care for others. Lying typically ruins relationships whether they are personal or work-related. It is clear that lying creates skepticism and disbelief. Most people will stop asking liars for advice on personal issues because they know they will not get truthful information. Friendships are often broken because of lies that get too big to keep lying about. Lying hides who people really are. People should try to keep a clean slate by staying honest, especially when there are consequences. Lying gets rid of credibility, yet people seem to lie more
Have you ever lied to avoid getting in trouble, or to protect someone’s feelings? Most likely, since everyone lies at least once in their life. But then, there’s the big question: is lying justified? Most Americans say that white lies are okay, or lies to protect someone’s feelings. Some say that it is never justified, while others say that most lies are justified, even though by lying, it can have a bad consequence. My position is that lying is sometimes justified if you’re trying to protect someone.
Lying today is quite a disregarded subject, causing its reputation enough to make people uneasy. Most are taught at a young age that lying is substandard, lousy, or even cheap, and that you should never use it to your benefit. Of course we don’t want to be a lousy person, but what about lying makes it so? Why is it considered so immoral and frowned upon by many social norms? Luckily for us there are two very appealing essays that help us crack these baffling questions. In these essays, they define the meaning of a lie, why we always seem to use them, and if they are actually bad for us. In Stephanie Ericsson’s The Ways We Lie it talks about the different types of lies, how and why we use them and what consequences can be followed by each lie. Also, adding clarity is Richard Gunderman’s article Is Lying Bad for Us that talks about how people lie to cope with things, but also expresses how lying might be bad for our physical or mental health.
The article “Brad Blanton:Honestly,Tell the Truth” states”It keeps you locked in the jail of your own mind. You have to remember what you told each person. You have to think about what the person's reaction might be, and you start manipulating information to control the outcome”. I disagree because feeling guilty is not as bad as both people being hurt.Also, memorizing details of a lie could easily be avoided by keeping the lie simple. The article “Rejecting All Lies:Immanuel Kant” states “ A lie, even if it does not wrong any particular individual,always harms mankind individually.”. Some use lying as a way to get out of a situation instead of a tool of protection. The world is not getting affected by lying but how people are using it. Many do not think that lying is tainting the world but that simply is not
Lying is something that as a society, we have all learned to do together. We all know a liar, some of us have even become one ourselves. Sometimes, it’s necessary; we may lie to spare the feelings of someone we care about. Sometimes, we lie to get ourselves out of trouble. Sometimes, a lie seems so small that it won't hurt us nor anyone in the process, so who’s to say lying is bad?
Everyone has their own opinion when it comes to lying. Some may think it’s acceptable and some may think it’s not. In my opinion, I believe that lying can be acceptable, but it can also be unacceptable. This is because some people use lying in different ways, some may use them for a positive cause, which is perfectly fine, but those who use lying for a negative cause makes lying not tolerable. For example, lying is acceptable when it is used to protect another person from harm, hurt feelings, and anything else that are negative.
“The truth is always an insult or a joke, lies are generally tastier. We love them. The nature of lies is to please. Truth has no concern for anyone's comfort” Katherine Dunn perfectly describes what attracts us to lies from a quote in her book Geek Love. Most people lie to help themselves make it through day to day life. If people lie all the time, can all that lying really have an immense effect? Delays for telling the truth is not always a bad thing.While some lies are more helpful to some people more than others. Lies can make people seem untrustworthy, although lies help protect innocence, maintain self-esteem, and prevent harm from yourself or others.
Lots of people lie, but when is it actually justified to lie and when is it not justified? In four articles each author shared their opinions on lying. Each author had a different perspective on the topic. Lying is sometimes acceptable when it is used to protect the feelings of others.
From early childhood, one is typically taught that lying is something that must never be done. Although it is customarily frowned upon, it is a bad habit that many people acquire. No matter one’s age, gender, or even religion, many people continue with this bad habit. Personally, I do not believe it is possible for someone to live a life without having lied at least a few times. Yes, lying is seen as bad, but I believe it mainly depends on the circumstances. Lying is necessary sometimes, because it can help with feelings, getting one out of trouble, or even bettering a situation.
“In a new Associated Press Ipsos poll, over half of respondents said lying was never justified. Yet in the same poll, up to two-thirds said it was OK to lie in certain situations, like protecting someone's feelings.” Lying is used everywhere around the world and sometimes it can ruin friendship and trust. People like Brad Blanton agree that lying is unnecessarily complicating your life. Lying is only acceptable when used to protect and care for others.
Why I lie, I don’t know when you ask me somethings and say you lying well I guess that makes me want to lie more. I try not to lie but when you thought I be lying I been telling you the truth. But you always be saying you’re such a liver So when you say that, you don’t believe what I say or you don’t trust me. So, I feel like you don’t trust me or believe me so, I try to make yall believe me and trust me. But I gave up when you think I’m lying I don’t it’s hard to make yall believe me or trust me. So, I gave up and make a reason to lie or believe me. I had no point to make yall believe or trust me. Friends, money, I can’t even as yall to let me go somewhere. I tried to stay out a friend house say no because I did something or don’t trust me.