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J Alfred Prufrock Masculinity

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When T.S. Eliot decided to title his poem "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" what was the purpose? After reading the poem, we are not filled with joy, warmth, and tenderness that a love song might typically give us- what we as readers are expecting upon reading the title. However, in "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock", Eliot illustrates the toxicity of fragile masculinity. What the poem tends to actually deal with are the struggles of a man who is emotionally distanced and grappling with difficulties showing his love for women due to his insecurities and self-consciousness.
Being the earliest of Eliot's works, it may seem as though the speaker of this poem simply cannot be Eliot for the speaker in the work is an older man, who keeps postponing his female endeavors as "indeed there will be time" (23), which is repeated throughout the poem. However, the feelings described in "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" can be linked to Eliot himself and young men alike. The reason Eliot may have chosen to title his poem as he did, in a way that contrasts the content, is that many men encounter these feelings and deal with them in similar ways. Many men feel that showing love and/or emotions, emotional vulnerability, and sensitivity is a …show more content…

He is an old man who has shrunk to the point that he must roll his pants. He is so acutely aware of himself that he questions the part of his hair and if he should even eat a peach. He cannot even do the simplest of things. He describes how he has heard the mermaids sing, yet is sure that they will not sing to him. He has lost all hope at this point. The mermaids will sing to anyone, but he does not feel worthy. In the final stanza, he has wasted away, he has lingered so long that he is part of the ocean now. Just as the ocean is constant, so is he. He resembles the waves in their constant coming and going from the shore, as he walked toward and away from the room of

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