Jealousy Vs. Emotional Infidelity

The higher the level of insecurity, the more people are prone to jealousy. Often times in marriage, people are accustomed to believing the silliest things and before they know it, their relationship is ruined. Individuals chose to worry about the fear of being split apart instead of focusing on current ecstasy. In the play, Othello, by William Shakespeare, the main character falls into a state of pure rage and jealousy. This eventually controls and destroys his initial nobility while hurting people along the way. Through evil vengeance and false inevitability, the author significantly conveys Othello’s naivety and displays how jealousy easily corrupts people’s minds.

These continuing opposing qualities in our relationship ultimately created an imbalance in our relationship that could never be made balanced again. Before I knew it, my husband had become the person of lesser interest in our relationship. The principle of lesser interest occurs when one partner in a relationship is more emotionally involved than the other and that the less involved partner can exploit the more involved partner in various ways. “A significant gap in emotional involvement could lead to a situation of one partner’s taking the other for granted, or an even more extreme situation of exploitation. When relationships of this type result in marriage, the results were expected to be unsatisfactory (Waller, 1938). This suggests that it might be better if romantic relationships with unequal emotional involvement dissolve before getting to the point of marriage” (see also Sprecher, Schmeeckle, Felmlee, 2006, p.1256). In my marriage, I always felt as if I had to walk on a tight rope and I’, sure that you can see why. At its worst I was made to feel as if I were a child that couldn’t do anything right. As I sit here and write this paper, I see so clearly just how it evolved to this. The assertiveness that I was so attracted to morphed into an arrogance that made him an unbearable, controlling egomaniac. It is so easy to see now how becoming the person of lesser interest would be the next logical step.

Jealousy can be defined as the resentment of a person or individual due to their successes or advantages. As human beings we are inherently created with this quality, but it is when we choose to indulge it, that it results in negative consequences. Jealousy is an extremely strong emotion, often beyond our control. In the short stories “Marigolds” by Eugenia Collier and “The Necklace” by Guy de Maupassant, the two authors clearly portray the negative effects that jealousy can have on one’s life.

There are many different emotions like sadness, happiness, and joyfulness just to name a few that people can experience. One of the most powerful and sometimes dangerous emotions is Jealousy. Jealousy is a powerful emotion that most people experience at some point in their life. However, not everyone is affected in the same way. Some people are filled with insecurity. While others are filled with fear. Most people experience anger. In William Shakespeare’s Othello the audience learns through the characterization of Othello and Iago, the symbolism of the handkerchief, and through Othello denying that he is jealous we learn that jealousy can make people behave irrationally in certain circumstances.

Thesis statement: The combination of vanity and rage is the catalyst to tragedy in modern relationships.

Jealousy, it is one of the most complex human emotions. Everyone experiences jealousy, but each person reacts upon it differently. In A Separate Peace by John Knowles, Gene is envious toward his lifelong friend Finny. The article “Jealousy: Love’s Destroyer” by Hara Marano, jealousy is perceived as a survival instrument. The video “Ode to Envy” by Parul Sehgal, jealousy can be seen as natural. All three sources identify how each person acts differently in a situation that revolves around envy. In the novel A Separate Piece, by John Knowles, the article “Jealousy: Love’s Destroyer”, by Hara Estroff Marano, and the video “Ode to Envy”, by Parul Sehgal, each author shows that jealousy causes each individual to react differently.

There are many ways in which infidelity can be explained depending on what you are reading or with whom you are speaking. Emotional and sexual infidelity is the two most studied forms of infidelity. The cognitive approach to infidelity explains that as our cognition is developing, we are also indirectly learning behaviors that could contribute to infidelity as adults. Infidelity no matter what the circumstances are surrounding it can leave both partners devastated. The circumstances surrounding infidelity can include a broad range excuses. The evolutionary approach to infidelity explains that men are more distressed by their partners committing sexual infidelity, whereas

In everyday life jealousy occurs over an outfit, how you look, or a skill someone is really good at, and for some people jealousy will make them do negative things--things they would otherwise not do. In Ray Bradbury’s, Kij Johnson’s, and Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.’s short stories they all represent jealousy throughout their stories. In “All Summer In a Day”, the children are jealous over Margot seeing and remembering the sun, were as they can’t remember. In “Ponies”, it talks about how Barbara is jealous of TheOtherGirls, and will do anything to fit in with them. In “Harrison Bergeron”, the society is based over the past years of people being “not equal”, so the Handicapper General made everyone equal so there would not be many outburst, but Harrison decides to rebel. In “All Summer In a Day”, “Ponies”, and “Harrison Bergeron” we learn that jealousy can make people act differently-- they could even go as far

Jealousy can occur naturally, or intentionally. It happens in our daily lives, and daily life shows us how jealousy can rule over actions. This emotion tactic is shown in Ray Bradbury’s, “All Summer in a Day,” in Kurt Vonnegut Jr. ’s, “Harrison Bergeron,” and in KIJ Johnson’s, “Ponies.”

Jealousy is a life trait in all humans and even in all types of animals. People always connect jealousy with the feeling of envy, to want some object, characteristic, or person that others have. It is only but natural to have the sense of envy and jealousy. These emotions can be active in everyday life ranging from stories to real life. Jealousy, given its negative connotation, is always portrayed as an adverse outcome. Hedding this information, not always will being jealous cause poor outcomes. Being jealous or envious can cause both superb and traumatic results. Examples could be if person one were zealously jealous of another’s achievements person one may possibly strive to beat the other. An example of an adverse outcome is as such; person one is jealous that another gets something person one can’t so they, therefore, destroy the one thing that they cannot have. Jealousy is a complex, over wavering gut reaction that can change what someone person would do and think about. When coming down to the roots of jealousy, it can boil down to a more terrible situation than that of good ones. Such as in “The Lady or the Tiger”, all of the decision making can also demonstrate the realism of human jealousy.

The exemplary novels are timeless not only for the stories they tell, but also for the vivid ways in which they depict society at the time when these stories were written. Through the analysis of Cervantes’s Jealous Extremaduran and Deceitful Marriage, one is able to see and dissect the many jobs and roles played by people in society during the 16th and 17th centuries in Spain.

Rodriguez, DiBello, & Neighbors (2015) investigated jealously and drinking problems and their association with intimate partner violence (IPV) perpetrators. In specific terms, the authors sought to find negative and positive aspects of jealousy and how they associate with drinking problems and IPV perpetration. The results indicated that there are positive and negative dimensions to jealousy; however, these dimensions predict outcomes differently. For instance, negative jealousy, may increase the chance of committing IPV. In addition, the results indicated that drinking problems do have an association with IPV perpetrators.

After reading Intimate Relationships: Chapter 11 Fidelity and Jealousy, I would say that jealousy is the single greatest threat to the well-being and stability of intimate relationships today. Even the first excerpt provides as horrible act done in the name of jealously, “fighter pilot, was found guilty… of capital murder for killing a teenage girl to prove his love for his jealous fiancée”(P.190). My first initial reaction to this is how unhealthy is this relationship that the fiancée would ask her partner to kill someone to prove his love, but then why would he actually go through with this!? Jealousy is explained as the darker side of human nature in this chapter and I truly believe that it can be the downfall to many relationships. Although

Data published in the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology suggests some 25% of men and 15% of women will be unfaithful to their partner at some point in their relationship. This data reveals that affairs can and do occur even in what many would consider a happy relationship. The statistical data fails to do justice to the emotional trauma that is caused by infidelity. Thankfully, there is hope for affair recovery Little Rock, AR through focused therapy.

But jealousy, and especially sexual jealousy, brings with it a sense of shame and humiliation. For this reason it is generally hidden; if we perceive it we ourselves are ashamed and turn our eyes away; and when it is not hidden it commonly stirs contempt as well as pity. Nor is this all. Such jealousy as Othello’s