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Jid Lee's To Kill A Tiger: A Memoir Of Korea

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Jid Lee’s To Kill a Tiger: A Memoir of Korea follows Jid Lee and her family through the struggles and tension produced by the historical events that occurred. Historical events impacted gender roles, education, and family dynamics in South Korea, producing a tension between traditional Korean values and contemporary ideas. The importance of Jid Lee’s book is it has an insight of what it was like to live in Korea during the time were contemporary ideas were becoming a bigger influence in the society, which were brought in by the American influences in the government. Also, it is an unfamiliar point of view that presents information that some readers did not know.

The organization of the story tells the story of her family through the historical …show more content…

Gender roles in Korea were based on a hierarchy in which men and the elderly were at the top. Women were there to serve the men as they provided for the family, “girls had to be closer to the kitchen to serve the men.” According to Jid Lee’s grandmother “this hierarchy was a perfect system for a Korean family, who success was dependent on the men’s strength and intelligence.” However, as the Americans had more of a presence in Korea, they brought over contemporary ideas that went into direct conflict with those ideologies. Jid Lee went against those traditional values. She talked back to her father and brothers. She questioned why women were treated the way they were. Her actions were influenced by reading Western novels. In the chapter “Love in a Dust Storm” she did not do the dishes and was reading Jane Eyre, her mother came back and was furious. Her mother yelled “Once you die you’ll be able to sit on your ass in heaven and red! But until then, you’ve got to do your job! You’ve got to know your place in this house, which is the kitchen.” Thus, caused a tension in the family. Additionally, with the change in gender roles, education began to change. “Koreans built an educational system designed around absorbing information, a system of methods that tested one’s ability to memorize, regurgitate, and apply …show more content…

It was a quick read but it provided an extensive amount of information and details of Korea that one could not get from just reading from a textbook or an account from someone who was not Korean. I believe that Jid Lee did a decent job on balancing the memoir between the story of her family and the historical events. The historical events influenced what she wrote about the story of the family. While, the memoir was a good read, there are some weakness of To Kill a Tiger. Though, Jid Lee did a decent job of having a balance between the story of her family and historical events, she sometimes jumps back and forth between dates. For example, in the chapter “Love Thy Enemy, They Say” she starts off by talking about 1963 then jumps to October 1950 then jumps to 2003. Although, she wrote in detail, the historical events got slightly confusing and overwhelming. Jid Lee’s argument is convincing because what she wrote represents Korean culture, history, and ideology. Today in Korea, there is still Confucism and there is respect for the elders. Also, women are not treated well. Families who practice Confucism, the daughter is not picking her own husband and are objects to get married. What Jid Lee wrote about is still present in today’s Korean

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