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Jonathan Safran Foer

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In a world with more than seven billion people it’s extremely hard for a man to make a pedestal for himself and stand out, but one characteristic that separates one man from another is his identity as a friend, parent, son a person. In the classic Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Oskar, Oskar’s grandfather and grandmother all portray a life of lies and deceit common among people searching for an identity. In this novel, Jonathan Safran Foer creates three complex characters who transform their ordinary life in search for their identity.
As one of the narrators, Oskar’s grandfather tells his story of his lost identity through flashbacks of the past. His identity tragically transforms from a loving husband and a father to be to a father and grandfather that is nowhere to be found when his madly in love wife is killed along with his unborn child. As a result of his trauma, he gradually lose his identity of this loving husband, father to be and stops talking with his mouth but with his gestures, notes and the two words “YES” and “NO” tattooed in his hands. “If …show more content…

He informs his mom that “It doesn’t make him feel good when you say that something I do reminds you of Dad” (35). The reader can determine that Oskar has reached a point in his life where he wants to become his own person and doesn’t want to be defined by his relationship to his father. However, he doesn’t truly know who he is and continues to look for himself as he searches to answer his dad’s last mission. In Oskar’s business card he writes “OSKAR SCHELL: INVENTOR, JEWELRY DESIGNER, JEWELRY FABRICATOR, AMATEUR ENTOMOLOGIST, FRANCOPHILE, VEGAN, ORIGANMIST, PACIFIST, PERCUSSIONIST…” (99). Oskar believes that his identity is best defines by his interest and hobbies. Oskar is going through a time in his life where he is looking for his own and unique identity different from the one of his

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