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Judith Lorber The Social Construction Of Gender

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According to Judith Lorber author of the 1994 article “The Social Construction of gender” gender is built within our everyday lives. Lorber states that gender construction starts with the assignment to a sex category based on the baby’s genitalia (Lorber 1994, pg. 141). Once the baby’s sex is determined, his or her life experiences are influenced by the sex category that they received at birth. For example, let’s say you have a baby girl, people expect you to dress your baby girl in dresses, because this is a societal norm. Now, let’s say you had a baby boy, it would be considered not normal or deviant to put him in a dress. These types of gender expectations will create “different feelings, consciousness, relationships, and skills---ways of …show more content…

As you know by now from the previous story of my grandma, she didn’t like my different way of dressing, like a boy. She wanted me to wear purses and sandals, but she never had a problem with me fixing things around the house. She would buy things from online that she could put together herself, and when she couldn’t, she would always count on me to fix it. I remember one time when she bought an office chair from Amazon. I came home from school to her trying to put this chair together. Pieces of the chair were everywhere. She was so frustrated that she just gave up. My grandma told me she wanted to wait until I got home but she was just ready sit in her new chair, so she try to put it together herself. She told me that she was happy that I was home and to go fix her chair. Honestly, if my grandma was still alive today I would ask her why she was OK with me doing masculine jobs, but not OK with me wearing baggy pants, hats, and tennis shoes. I don't know if this was her way of training me to become a strong woman, her being lazy, or if she really couldn't put the chair together. It’s like she wanted me to be "norm" in society, but when it came to home life she didn't care as

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