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Karen Kenney's Domestic Violence

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Domestic violence can lead to several long-lasting effects for both adults and children. While growing up, children’s brains are very susceptible to remembering and reenacting what they have previously seen. In the case of domestic violence, children can suffer from adverse childhood experiences, ACEs, which have long-lasting effects such as having trouble with school work, personality problems, social development issues, and more cognitive struggles (UNICEF, 2006, p. 4). As discussed by Karen Kenney in her book “Domestic Violence” Emotional trauma can lead to elevated levels of stress which can cause a variety of health problems. This trauma can also cause depression which can lead to thoughts of suicide and cause PTSD or Post Traumatic Stress …show more content…

While she was normally an outgoing friendly woman, she was very careful when talking about her husband. This was due to her husband committing intimate partner violence. After a late night of drinking, Jessica’s husband arrived home and assaulted her. After refusing his unwanted advances, the husband proceeded to break two of Jessica’s ribs, bruised her, and choked her out. Unknowingly, Jessica’s two sons woke up during the altercation and heard everything going on. Jessica proceeded to call the police and her husband was arrested. After the arrest, Jessica could finally start the process of healing all that had been broken both physically and emotionally. This healing was not only for Jessica though, her two boys were exhibiting the same violence and tone her husband had. As Dr. Bessel van der Kolk discussed, psychologically traumatic events can alter how the brain develops through reducing the number of connections neurons make (Side Effects, 2015, para. 5-8). Furthermore, Jessica did not know how important her healing would become as she would later be diagnosed with cancer. Her new found will to fight though would undoubtedly help her fight this devastating …show more content…

Lisa Fontes of DomesticShelters.org discussed four very important lessons to help build resilience. “Don’t go it Alone…Create Order from Chaos…Nurture Hope…Commit for the Long Term” (Fontes, 2016, para. 3-8). Ms. Fontes brings up the crucial point of creating stability and generating positive feelings of hope. Together, these feelings help both adults and children feel purposeful again, while also building up resilience to their past experiences. Stability for children is also crucial during their development. Factors such as frequent moves, deaths, and domestic violence have all been shown to be risk factors for developing negative social conditions. Each of these factors has one thing in common, they disrupt the stability of a child’s life. While stability is a very important factor, there are more things that can be done to help children. By fostering positive healthy familial relationships, children will not feel like they are alone. These relationships also help children realize they are valued, while also helping reduce the children’s negative actions from the domestic violence. Jessica also had to aid her children in reducing their unacceptable behavior developed from their time witnessing domestic violence. For her children, these more violent behaviors were normal, they had seen their

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