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Key Components Of Attachment Theory

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Different types of love plays a huge impact on today’s society. There are unhealthy types of love typically found in teenagers, but that is also found in Mother to children love. Stated By Hazan, Cindy, Shaver and Phillip, “The possibility that romantic love is an attachment process—a biosocial process by which affectional bonds are formed between adult lovers, just as affectional bonds are formed earlier in life between human infants and their parents. Key components of attachment theory, developed by Bowlby, Ainsworth, and others to explain the development of affectional bonds in infancy, were translated into terms appropriate to adult romantic love. The translation centered on the three major styles of attachment in infancy—secure, avoidant, …show more content…

He felt that his love for her was not matching and he was only hurting himself. The love between Dave and his Mother became very unhealthy. A mother’s relationship is first shown at birth and it is up to the mother to keep the child knowing that the love is still there. Dave’s mother did not show Dave what love was and now it is destroying him, not only because he thought she love him and she did not but also because he was getting beat for telling her he loved her.” Love” can have a huge impact on what others think and how their behavior changes. Likewise to Dave’s and his mother’s relationship teenage love have similar tolls. Using the book “Romeo and Juliet”, demonstrates the Unhealthy Perversions of love. Romeo and Juliet was written in 1597 by William Shakespeare. Romeo and Juliet was a book based on “two star-crossed lovers” whose love had nearly the world in danger. Back in 1597 the society was very strict it mattered who you married. If the person you married did not have the same wealth as you, it was forbidden. If you were not wealthy at all, people would not even socialize with you. Being born in two different families, it was forbidden to fall in love. Juliet being a Capulet and Romeo being a Montague, it was very unhealthy.After meeting at Juliet Party, they instantly fell in love with each other. Romeo could not stop thinking of her and eventually told his friend (Benvolio) about Juliet and how she was a Montague. Benvolio was very confused and wanted to warn Romeo how dangerous it was to fall in love with a Montague. “Love is a smoked Raised with a fume of sighs. Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers, eyes: being vexed a sea nourished with loving tears: What else is it? A madness most discreet, a choking gall and a preserving sweet” Being as young as Romeo was, those were really strong words Benvolio heard. Instantly, Benvolio knew Romeo was in love

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