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Kim In-Suk's Love And Daggers

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Kim In-Suk's "Love and Daggers" contrasts the two images of Korean women to reveal how deeply rooted the partriarchal gender ideologies and conventions are in Korean society. The author draws a clear distinction between the image of traditional women in Korean society and the image of how sinyosong should face marriage problems through the two contrasting characters, Migyong and her aunt Chonghui. Migyong's mother and her aunt show an ideal image of traditional "virtuous women" in the story. They are both very submissive, self-sacrificing housewives who show respect to their mother-in-laws regardless of how they are being treated by them. On the other hand, Migyong represents an image of sinyosong, as she does not wish to follow the expectations of the patriarchal gender ideologies. As a professional woman who also contributes to the house income, she believes in an equal partnership of shared responsibilities and emphasizes the importance of honesty and openness between husband and wife. The dagger in Chonghui's heart is what helped her to survive her familial difficulties. For years after her marriage, Chonghui tolerated her husband's abuse, …show more content…

Chonghui learned to be submissive in the household due to her situation of living with her sister's in-laws for a long time, and her decision to get married to her husband was only because she felt the need to leave the house for the family's sake. In Migyong's case, she clearly knows what she wants and makes her own decisions. That is the reason why although Migyong also faces conflicts with her mother-in-law, she "draws boundaries and wouldn't accept the elder woman's notion of male superiority as well as her power and authority over her daughter-in-law" (237). Migyong's relationship with her mother-in-law breaks the most important value of Confucian principles, which is to obey the

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