Can a parent’s sexuality influence the way their child is raised? The only way a parent’s sexuality could influence the way a child is raised is by the mistreatment of LGBTQ parents when it comes to adoption or birth through a sperm donor. I will include many examples of mistreatment to LGBTQ parents all over the world, and explain how this mistreatment is the only reason a parent’s sexuality could bring any negativity into the child’s life. I plan on answering the question with evidence and examples from different countries. There are many different viewpoints on the influences of gay and lesbian parenting, whether through adoption, the use of a sperm donor, or a child a spouse could have had before their (often same-sex) relationship. Most people think a parent’s sexuality will negatively influence a child’s life or the way the child is raised. Through several articles I will detail the mistreatment of LGBTQ in the parental community and explain why a parent’s sexuality is completely irrelevant to the raising of a child. The mistreatment …show more content…
A quote from the article “Children of Lesbian and Gay Parents Are Not More Likely to Have Problems” from Gay Parenting, 2013 From Opposing Viewpoints in Context, "[Gay and lesbian couples are] much more likely to be tolerant, to encourage, for example, their children to play with a wider range of toys—to encourage a girl to play with both dolls and trucks.” A common opinion is that children of gay parents will be more likely to experience depression, but I believe children with gay parents will be more likely to have a happier, accepting life than children with heterosexual parents. This will, in turn, lead the child to a more successful, tolerant
In conclusion, the augment for gay adoption is far stronger and far better supported than those opposed. One must admit that sexual orientation is fundamentally irrelevant to a person’s capacity to be a good parent. The opposition to gay and lesbian adoption has failed to support its
This article talks about the support of second parent adoption for gays everywhere. They support the idea that children with two capable adults no matter what gender are able and should be able to care for a child. Although they support this, the article does not show any sort of negativity toward the opposite side relating the issue. The site details the rights that the second parent should be guaranteed through an adoption. They also think that pediatricians and other professions dealing with children should get more familiar with learning about gays and the children they adopt. The authors are the Committee on Psychosocial Aspects of Child and Family Health. The people in the committee have many different backgrounds and are advocates for children’s
William Saletan – a writer interested in political, scientific, and technological topics and a contributor to the online pop magazine Slate – published the informative and well-written article Back in the Gay in Slate Magazine. The main purpose of the article is to reveal whether same-sex couples are appropriate and harmless when it comes to parenting and raising a child. In order to strengthen his points and intensify the degree of persuasion in his argument, he provides us with various scientific studies and research concerning the addressed issue. William Saletan’s sole aim is to deliver the message to the readers that it is a common misconception and entirely false to claim that same-sex couples build a toxic environment as unfit parents,
How do same sex parents positively influence the social and emotional wellbeing of a child?
“There is no scientific basis for concluding that lesbian mothers or gay fathers are unfit parents on the basis of their sexual orientation” (Armesto, 2002; Patterson, 2000; Tasker & Golombok, 1997). Ever since gay and lesbians have been parents people have questioned how the parents’ sexual orientation impacts child and adolescent development. Opponents of same-sex parents argue that sexual orientation has a negative impact on child development, while proponents argue that the relationship between the child and parents is what matters. National, state, and local governments are faced with the controversy surrounding same-sex parenting. People have very strong opinions on both sides of the argument. Children and adolescents who are under lesbian or gay parents have normal child development compared with children under heterosexual parents. These children develop normally socially, mentally, and academically.
As it has been in dispute for years since it was first brought to light, the concern for same-sex parenting continues to be raised in society with jabs at ethics and practicality. As of June 26, 2015, all U.S. states have legalized gay-marriage and same-sex parenting, marking a significant breakaway for previous social norms. Yet, even with this crucial development in our culture, disputes against it still manage to work their way into daily discussions. With the recent legalizing, those who were against gay-marriage or gay couples being able to raise children are now forced to accept this rapidly changing world and be open to modern advancements.
As legal issues pertaining to homosexual have received more national attention, courts around the world have been reconsidering gays’ and lesbians’ rights in parenting and custody cases. But the general assumption that homosexual parents have adverse effects on the psychological and social development on a child makes it extremely difficult for gays and lesbians to become parents. However, the validity of this assumption is highly disputable as both parties claim to have statistical evident.
The people that are allowed to speak in the story are just the narrator explaining the issue, and the LGBTQ parents that are involved in this issue. The voices that are given the most weight are the parents, because they are voicing their opinion in this issue, and are explaining their story and how they got there. The narrator is mostly just in the background transitioning, and asking questions that can help the audience understand the issue more. The voices that are treated as experts are mostly the parents who have a lot to say on this particular issue. They are explaining why it is hard to become a parent in the LGBTQ community because of the different views that people believe in. Finally, the voices that are kind of dismissive in
. So now the real question emerges: Is parental guidance by two parents of thesame sex really more harmful to a child¶s development than no parental guidance at all? In someminds the answer ³NO´ flashes in bright, blinking lights however, there are many, including themajority of Americans, who disagree. Laws banning adoption by gay and lesbian couples exist
Powerful social forces propel the controversy around LGBT families and often lead to the fear and confusion that affect so many early childhood educators.
Gay parents are facing discrimination because of their sexual orientation. Twenty-two states currently allow single gays to adopt and 21 states currently allow gay and lesbian couples to adopt in the U.S. (Mallon, 2007, p. 6). The ability of gay couples to rear a child should not be denied only because they are gay. Homosexuals may be looked down upon by society, but they still are humans and have morals. These morals they possess, may influence a child more than those morals taught to a child with heterosexual parents. All over the world, children suffer in families consisting of alcoholics, drug abusers, and sexual abusers (Powell, 2007, p.1). It is not possible that these environments are safer than what would be provided by homosexual
Children of homosexual parents feel less pressure placed on them from gender stereotypes. After all, homosexuals do not fall into traditional gender roles so they would have fewer expectations on the children to act like their biological gender role than a heterosexual parent would. For example, I was waiting in line at an event and there was a mother waiting with her children as well, a girl and a younger boy. The girl took a toy away from the boy and he began crying. The mother became annoyed by his crying and yelled at him “STOP CRYING LIKE A LITTLE GIRL!” The little boy became sadder but stopped crying shortly after. By the mother making that comment to her son she took away his opportunity to be himself and express his emotions as a human being. Society has been determined crying as an act for girls and discourage it in boys because it makes them “weak.” A homosexual parent would be less likely
Children of same-sex couples, biological or not, need both a mother and a father in their life. There are things that a child learns from their mother that children cannot learn from male fathers, and vice versa. Those children will hunger for a mother like figure and a father-like figure. Seeing that most of the population is heterosexual, a child will look at the rest of society and wonder what it’s like to have parents of the opposite sex. According to an article on www.frc.org Ten Arguments From Social Science Against Same Sex Marriage, girls without a father figure increase their risk for early sexual activity which leads to teen
There is the misconception that LGBT+ people are “ unfit ” to raise children and be parents. This, however, is not true, and there have been many studies done that prove the sexuality of parents do not harm a child’s development in any way. It has also been recognized that gay parents tend to be more attentive, and are very helpful to the world when finding children homes. This goes to show that, queer people are just as qualified to be parents as anyone else.
Homosexuality in general seems to be more accepted than a few decades ago. However, despite the progress the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender) civil right movement has had in recent times, there are still great debates and consequences for the gay community (Slenders, Sieben & Verbakel, 2014). Moreover, a sensitive issue concerning gay marriage and allowing same-sex parenting children evokes great controversies. Thus, qualitative research methods such as interviews, ethnography or focus groups can be appropriate in this area in order to gain insights of people’s opinion such as gay or lesbian parents. Is there a difference in same-sex parenting? Does parental sexual orientation affect child development? This essay will illustrate how qualitative methods can be useful in gathering information, opinions and attitudes of gay couples towards same-sex parenting. This essay will outline two qualitative methods according to this issue and critically evaluate which of the two qualitative methods (ethnography or interviews) could be appropriate in approaching this social issue. In conclusion, the essay will explain why ethnography is a more suitable approach to this topic rather than interview approach.