The only way one can learn a life lesson is to experience the hardships of that lesson for themselves. I personally experienced a hardship when my father was involved in a four wheeler accident. It was tough for not only my father but for myself as well as I was young and naive. However, I learned important life lessons through that hardship that I have carried with me everyday since. My father’s accident has taught me about the love of caring family and friends, to be thankful for and truly live every day that I am blessed with, and to stay positive.
It was a warm, normal Sunday afternoon in the summer month of August. My mom had taken me to my choreography class for dance, and my dad and brothers went on their usual four wheeler ride down to the creek with family and friends. Normally after my class, my mom would would be there ten minutes early to pick me up. However, my class ended and she was not there. I immediately knew something was wrong when my friend’s mom pulled me outside the studio. She then told me that my dad had been in an accident and was flown directly to the hospital in St. Louis. Instantly, I began to cry as I only thought of the worst possible outcomes, but my caring dance teacher came outside and comforted me as we left for the St. Louis hospital. The entire way there, my friend’s mom consolidated me by assuring me that my dad was tough and was going to be alright. Soon enough, we arrived at the hospital to find an abundance of my family in the waiting room with love in their hearts. My mom and older brother eventually told us what had happened and my dad’s state once we everyone calmed down. My dad was driving up a steep hill but he failed to reach the top. Therefore, the four wheeler ended up rolling back but flipped on top of him. My older brother immediately called 911 when my dad could not move an inch. My family later found out the four wheeler had crushed six of his ribs, and the broken ribs then punctured a hole in his lung making it difficult for him to breathe.
My family continually comforted not only my dad but me as well the entire evening at the hospital. Surprisingly my little brother relieved some of my somber feelings as he continually reassured me everything was alright
We started speeding down the road to meet the ambulance. Upon meeting them I was rushed to Wilcox Memorial Hospital, bumping my dad from the operating room right before he his knee surgery. I wasn't suspected to make it, as I had lost seventy percent of my blood. But somehow, with the help of God, I underwent several surgeries and within the next few days I was stabilized and discharged from the hospital.
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As I was picked up the bad thoughts started to run through my head again, this time it seem like it was worse. The closer we got to the hospital the more I became weak. I didn 't know what to expect to be honest. I tried to prepare myself for the worse. As we entered the hospital and went to the emergency room, I walked into a lobby full of family, as I walked in my brother got me up to date with what’s going on. So I sat there patiently with my family, we all waited with anticipation for the doctor to deliver the news. As hours passed we finally got to talk to a nurse. She told us that the doctor would be coming out soon to get us updated with what’s wrong with my dad. When he finally came out he told us that everything was going to be okay, but if my dad would have came two minutes later he would have died. Man oh man that hit us all hard. But he also told us
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In early November of 2008, my dad was working on a house down the street. While there, the ladder he used to get on the roof was set up incorrectly. When he stepped to get down, the ladder fell and so did he. He was rushed to the hospital to find he had broken his leg in three places and would need surgery. He was then placed in the hospital until the surgery and we couldn’t see him.
My legs fell right from underneath me as I fumbled to the ground in a weeping mess. I sat on the ground for a while not wanting to move a muscle as this did not feel like reality, but I got up and flew to my dorm, knowing I should call my mother and ask how my father is doing. My worn navy blue thinking chair with a paisley print was calling my name, so I sat down in it as I started to prepare myself to call my mother back. Gently pressing the buttons, I held my phone up to my right ear waiting for my mother to answer. The sound of sniffles and tears instantly filled my ear as my mother told me that my father did have a heart attack and that he was in critical condition at St. Cloud Hospital in Minnesota. I knew the moment she was done with her sentence that I had a major life choice to make; should I go to Minnesota to see my dying father? Or should I stay and finish my semester finals? “Hey Mom? Can you give me a couple of hours to decide?” I murmured gently into the phone, as I was waiting for my inevitable break down. “Of course honey, just please let me know by tomorrow morning, I will talk to you tomorrow, bye honey,” my mother hung up as she knew she could not be strong for me or herself much longer. As soon as I heard the familiar sound of an ended call, I threw my phone
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Once I reached my father I noticed this was not good, not good at all. He had his arm held tight against his stomach, obviously trying to fight the severe pain. His face held strain as he tried to hold back the overwhelming distress. Blood and screaming filled the parking lot, my mother’s cry being the loudest of all. People started to crowd around, looking to get a better view. Tears streaming down my face, I was as devastated as one could be.
My sister picked me up, and I hadn’t stopped bawling since I got the call. My heart ached. Like a child’s stomach after eating too much candy. I knew what was coming, and I wanted to find a way to make everything better, but I couldn’t. We both sat through the hour long car ride with very little conversation. I had a shirt of my Papa’s that I had brought, and I hugged it. When we arrived, I saw my mom and some close family members in the lobby, not where they would usually be. I was scared. I wondered if something happened that I missed while at practice. I wondered if I was too late. We waited for a while because the nurses cleaned him up from a bowel movement. After waiting, for what seemed like forever, we went back to the ICU. The cold, dry ICU that seemed to be filled with sadness. The minute I saw him, I busted into tears. Tears poured down my face like raindrops on a windowpane. I knew what was going to happen.
The smell of a dirty old medical facility mixed with the constant noise of beeping coming from throughout the hospital created a very depressing atmosphere. The nurse then led us to the room dad was in. While we were there, the nurse talked for what seemed like 3 years, but I couldn’t stop gazing at my father. He looked like he had gotten in a fight with an angry stray cat! He had cuts on his face and arms, scratches on his leg, and his head was covered in a huge bruise that spanned from his left eyebrow passed his hairline. He had an IV hooked up to his wrist and an oxygen tube set up to his nostrils. I had never seen him like this before. I couldn’t express how I felt into words. I felt the tears forming back in my eye again, but this time I didn’t hold anything back. My eyes were waterfalls streaming down my expressionless red face.